hi everybody.
my girlfriend and i are keen to try have read a lot about it through the forum here.
i just wondered if anyone could offer advice on our first time.
ideally we would like to start off the night with being watched and then one or two men (or women,if thats a possibility)to join in.
without sounding naive or daft,we don`t want to start off by being surrounded by lots of men all trying to have a grope.i`m not saying that wouldn`t be fun for us but we`d rather not start out that way.
my girlfriend is not all shy and neither am i,so we don`t mind how many people watch!!!
if any one has any suggestions please feel free to post reply here.
also ffeel free to pm me any locations near cardiff,but obviously don`t mention them on the forum!
thanks,
andrew.
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what is the best way to start?
Hi Andrew,
Your best bet is to arrange to meet a select few by pm. Be sure to make it clear in advance what your boundaries will be, so that there can be no possibilty for misunderstandings. I would also avoid well known dogging spots for your first time, if you don't want a huge crowd.
Remember that YOU are in charge. If you become worried or unhappy, tell people NO. If they persist, drive off, but it's very rare that things become that bad.
Above fun
Your best bet is to arrange to meet a select few by pm. Be sure to make it clear in advance what your boundaries will be, so that there can be no possibilty for misunderstandings. I would also avoid well known dogging spots for your first time, if you don't want a huge crowd.
Remember that YOU are in charge. If you become worried or unhappy, tell people NO. If they persist, drive off, but it's very rare that things become that bad.
Above fun
hi lissa,
thanks for that advice,it makes sense! that is the only worry my girlfriend has- being surrounded by pushy men who won`t respect the way we want to i get the feeling from the posts on here that most people are decent respectful doggers who want as much fun as we do.
thank you,
andrew
thanks for that advice,it makes sense! that is the only worry my girlfriend has- being surrounded by pushy men who won`t respect the way we want to i get the feeling from the posts on here that most people are decent respectful doggers who want as much fun as we do.
thank you,
andrew
