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what is with No Single Men ?

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Quote by outlaws2001
I thnik to put it simply, dogging is watching and as soon as it become iteractive it becomes it's couples singles or any combination of the wide and varied combination of people the go out and about
we have met quite a few couples out and about and it makes a refreshing change from being asked (during) if I can touch, constantly, or in some instances not even asking at all :shock:

Interesting.... Let me ask you a question.
So if your watching a couple showing in a car park that’s "dogging" ?
So if your watching a couple showing in a car park and invite you to join that’s "swinging" ?
So If your watching 2 couples playing together in a car park whats that ?
To me any type of outdoor exhibitionism where people are watching is "dogging" which now brings me to my assumption, I think the single males only have a problem when they can't watch (or in some cases join) they wouldn’t be on here complaining if there were 2 couples playing in every car they set eyes on in their local car park would they? I think it’s more down to selectiveness nowadays rather than anything else, and in a way the Internet has brought some of this about, showing couples can now choose and be selective who they want to watch, The internet hasn’t helped with this either or the press for that matter, as any showing couple will tell you a large majority of single males nowadays aren’t happy with watching only, they want a “quick shag” or are just way to pussy and insulting, yes there are nice guys out there that are polite and non-pushy but there getting rarer all the time, some would say their downfall is themselves as this in time just leads other couples to experiment and try other things, and bad experiences help with this.
DD. kind of summed it up by saying showing couples don’t need to advertise for single males on a forum. There will be plenty around where they’re going.
But if a couple want something other than single men then they may post for that exact reason, hence the no single males.
So what I’m saying really is anything involving outdoor exhibitionism or voyeurism in a car park is dogging regardless of whether it’s a couple or several playing together, but only if the people don’t define or select who’s watching at the time, when they start being selective I don’t think it’s dogging, well that’s my thoughts anyway. biggrin
PS. I also think this board should be changed to “Exhibitionism & Voyeurism” rather than “Dogging” as it seems people now want choices. That way it caters for all.
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thats just god dam lucky if u see cpl playing with cpl biggrin
Quote by singledogger
thats just god dam lucky if u see cpl playing with cpl biggrin

we write all that stuff, then singledogger comes along to keep it real lol :cry: wink
i've got a headache now :cry: :lol: ..i guess i look at "dogging" as being an attitude of mind.."the master" and "singledogger" will be out there tonight..under the canopy of stars and sillouetted against the full moon..a dogger's moon :lol: ..they'll be out late, real late..they'll "probably" see, or get more action than most..they'll dogg in the snow, the frost the fog and on those balmy nights of summer..they'll be happy if they can watch a show..but they'll get involved if required..they'll be polite, and any couple fortunate enough to encounter them tonight will be made to feel special..these boys KNOW how to treat a couple, and those couples come back for more..i don't know Jomu personally, but i'm sure he'll be the same, as will 100's of guys out there tonight..happy guys, polite guys and content guys..not expecting too much, but ever hopefull..no such thing as a bad night, just another night....for me, thats dogging..and for one, we are thankfull for them :wink: irrespective of where they poke their bits :lol:
fuck me, i nearly stood up and saluted whilst writing that :shock: :lol:
i understand entirely whats being said about the exhibitionist/voyeur thing being true dogging..and the involvement issue being a mutant strain..to a degree, we also think that the sex element has brought in all the dross..most guys wouldn't bother going out for "just" a show, agreed..and its those who's interests only extend to getting laid that are a problem factor..but guys like "single" and "the master" are in the game for the whole deal, not just the sausage play..they treat newbie "showcouple's" with appreciation..the carparks we now "show" in haven't been tainted with the semen extraction services so easilly obtained at the bigger sites, and with that comes a purer form of dogging..but the aforementioned fellas dogg those sites too, without any expectations or assumptions..often the couples are quite demanding too..the main reason i gave up my infrequent solo jaunts with the master was due to the humiliation of constantly having to decline the offers from couples looking for involvent..even ole Harry has been given a hard time, on more than one occassion..sometimes the boys just have to throw the fucker's a bone to stop them growling :lol:
as a point of interest..we also know of, and have used a carpark in the norwich area..the guys park away from it, and walk in..why? because its very much a place where courting couples go to shag their young brains out at 3am when some of the clubs kick out..its also a place where prostitutes take their clients..this is hardcore dogging :lol: its all about stealth and survival..but there is no expectation of involvement, unless you've got 40 quid to hand and don't mind waiting :lol: some call it "pimping", some describe those guys as peeping toms :lol: so we go along with it .from time to time..some probably assume mrs d is a hooker..the guys don't really want us to aknowledge them, because that implies they weren't that discreet :lol: so we play the game..so is it only dogging if consentual? :lol:..its the genisis of the carpark game, something that many would assume was dead on its arse now the game's gone mainstream..not so..the true peeping tom is out there, but you won't find him, or her, or them on any internet site i know of.. :wink: i've confused myself now, and we've got to go out later :cry: i'll probably end up getting shagged up the bum now cause i don't know how its all supposed to work redface :lol: (only kidding)!
just to add rolleyes it was a good point made regarding "showcouples" being overly selective about their proposed audience..we could never grasp the concept of couples only wanting specific requirements as to their watchers, then moaning when the carpark was "diverse" talk about setting themselves up for a fall.. :lol:
Quote by dirtydoggers
I don't know Jomu personally, but i'm sure he'll be the same, as will 100's of guys out there tonight..happy guys, polite guys and content guys..not expecting too much, but ever hopefull..no such thing as a bad night, just another night....for me, thats dogging..and for one, we are thankfull for them wink irrespective of where they poke their bits lol

Nahhh....
Treat 'em like dirt Mr DD....don't care if they come back or not....seen 'em once, seen 'em too much ! (only a joke...reeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyy)
Don't get too much chance in this town mate....too many in too small an area !
And the busies are...erm...busy.
Targetting the "working dogger"....those who dogg when they're supposed to be working....(firms cars etc)
That said, I occasionally get a couple....got one the other night....just listening to R1 and appreciating the moonlit trees when in came two cars and parked in the next bay.....as in BRIGHT moonlight...as they get on with the biz I could plainly see the lady removing nether garments....so I got out of the motor and wandered about 'til I got noticed....didn't seem to mind me, so just leant against a tree and watched....truly wonderful....there's something about a couple making love in the moonlight....the heaving to-and-fro, the gentle rotation of the buttocks and the sway of naked breasts.....then the head is thrown back and sighs and moans escape into the night air.........................mixing with the SCREECH OF BRAKES AND SLIDING TYRES AS THE TOTAL TOSSER IN THE ASTRA RUSHES IN AND GETS IT ALL WRONG, AS USUAL..WANKER..........anyway, once the prat had gone the action continues.....for a few minutes...but the moment had gone, as did the couple....
Anyway, I've fixed the DSL cable so, as you see, I'm back on the net....so it's time to bugger-off out....maybe a bit early.....I wish you well for tonight...DD, SD and MSTR...
It's another forest tonight....the time is right for another town...cool air, loads of wind...don't you just feel it with the woods in this weather ?
Nice post jomu. Almost poetic there! I saw a couple in similar circumstances recently. They moved off soon after and I didn't even get to watch much, but the sight through the window of the girl, looking gorgeous, coy and sexy in the moonlight, has stayed with me since. It was pure chance and very nice too.
Hi Fun Scottish Couple,
I just knew it was a mistake trying to lable people lol I was trying to answer a question on page one.
Thanks to jomu for posting what is the perfect (old style) dogging.
re the senario's singledogger was spot on :lol: you was right on the first two and on the third your dogging a couple of swingers and you should be very happy and consider yourself very lucky.
best thing is to go out do what YOU want to do and enjoy
take care
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