What is wrong????????????

1 Nov 2003

Hi all you doggers, biggrin

We are wondering what it is, as to why people can't just ring a phone number and allow the women to say hello. confused

What am i on about you are asking :?: .........?????
Well being new to the scene of dogging wink

, you can imagine how nervous we both are blink

, we are only looking for couples 69position

at the mo to join us, however not got a problem with single males watching smile

from a distance.
So can you blame us dunno

for wanting the couples who have replyed and to who we have replied to, just wanting a phone call so that the women can just say hello :rose: , to prove that it is genuinely a couple :D and not a single male doing there usual thing of trying their luck.
Please Please tell us, are we being unreasonable :dunno:
And if there are any real couples who would like to join us in the berkshire area Then get in touch and lets arrange something. :thrilled: kiss

:69: :censored:

1 Nov 2003

You're certainly not being unreasonable. Surely genuine couples can cope with your request if they're really interested in meeting confused

Good luck!

1 Nov 2003

hi there
i know the feeling very well i always do a fem to fem phone check hey and guess what 99% its the man that answers and she is never around lol
keep trying tho as you will one day hear a womans voice on the other end
stay safe and have fun gingerjo xx

1 Nov 2003

I can't see anything unreasonable in what you are asking for - safety and security first, last and always!!
Genuine couples shouldn't have a problem with that.. stick to your guns and good luck.
x

1 Nov 2003

A shame that you have had many problems, I can see why it is so hard for us single males to have a proper meeting with a woman. If you get so many men that are not honest from the start then thewomen are going to be apprehensive and understanstably so.
It maybe needs a shame page added so that men/women can add the names of men/women that are not honest and therefore give prior warning to others that follow. :idea:

1 Nov 2003

are we being unreasonable

No, you are being very sensible, don't do it any other way.
Kat

2 Nov 2003

Hi all, you are being very reasonable, sticl to the way you want to have fun, your rules or not at all.
But please do remember that Linda and I have been doing this for some time now (not dogging, meeting guys) and there have been a few that have asked Linda to talk to them on the phone, for her own reasons she point blankly refuses and i respect that.
Our point is, just because the lady doesn't chat on the phone doesn't mean she isn't for real, but stick to your guns and insist.
Not a fact, but maybe for every ten that say no one will say yes.
Have fun, MarkandLinda

2 Nov 2003

I think you're doing the right thing and you should stick to your guns. Personally when we go dogging, we never arrange to meet anyone, we just turn up and see what happens but that's our choice and the way we like it.
However, we've met up with both couples and single males before and we've always had a brief chat on the phone before meeting up. I actually like the mystery of it all so I never get into long chats. We also had an experience where a single guy wanted to talk on the phone beforehand and really just wanted phone sex with me so that's another reason that I like to keep it short!
Good luck, I'm sure you'll have a fab time! biggrin

2 Nov 2003

:boo: know what u mean.. we're still virgin players as all we've had is problems and guys pretending to be couples... :smile2: oh well sure we'll all get there xxx

3 Nov 2003

hey
its like they allsaid in my last post u have your prefrences just like the rest of the people but another thing is people respecting your rules i would love to meet a nice couple and to show me how everything happens lmao
ps:wat a woman linda looks like mmmmm and very nice pic ginger lee wish that was my head instead of your hand redface

3 Nov 2003

The shame page is a bad idea.... it only opens itslef up to abuse where genuine folk get 'shamed' by idiots with a grudge etc.
On the phone call front... I cannot for the life of me fathom how folks are willing to a sexual encounter with strangers and yet not be willing to make a phone call. As mentioned earlier, it's mostly single males with 'issues' / missing wives etc.
/The Kid

4 Nov 2003

Like everyone else has said, you are certainly not being unreasonable.
Where in Berks do you dog? Would love to watch from a distance (you say what distance), and who knows in the future? wave

Stick to your guns and I hope you find what your are looking for in the end. Good luck. biggrin

Will