And what about all the young couples that know nothing of dogging and think " hmmm this is a nice quiet place to park up and have a shag " especially if they've got no home to stay in?
You seem to have the idea that just because we might think of a place as a dogging site, no one else can use it for any other reason!
At the end of the day it's a car park and if others want to use it for whatever purpose they have almost certainly have more rights than you do to use it for dogging.
Jeez
As Snertmate said, not everyone in a car park is there for dogging! If you've been out dogging hundreds of times, surely experience would have taught you that already.....seems to me that the prejudice you mention is coming from you, you appear to be saying that only doggers have a right to be in car parks at night!
to be perfectly honest we find the quick flash scenario far hornier than the rugby type scrums that seem to be appearing of late
we know everyones different and play this game for varying reasons ,,and its everyone to there own,
thats why it says at the bottom of our addy "quiet meets"
alan rach xxx
I agree with everything that has been said and all couples deserve discretion until they take the initiative and not have demands put on them by doggers. The other day I was in my local dogging spot doing a bit of daytime sightseeing when a couple came in that are there every day for a few hours and have a picnic in the car. Not knowing it is a dogging car park they were surrounded by cars and vans staring at them they must have been frightened to death and what was the ultimate that made me feel ashamed and sick is that they are well into there seventies. Another time I had been walking with the wife and when we got back to the car and took all our walking gear off and boots when we left the car park we were followed by a bloke and all along the road was flashing his acts make me feel ashamed to be a dogger sometimes and think some blokes should get some manners and respect.
Unfortunatley not a case of a few idiots spoiling it for everyone else they seem to be in the majority
looks like i been miss interpeted
maybe my fault that did not get topic right
i fully agree with all comments, am completely against pushy people or pressure on anyone.
my point is the couples that start playing on a site full of cars and then get offended by people watching.
i respect and we all should respect the time the couples decide to show or invite people to participate, their wish is paramount, if they are there just to watch fine but when they start playing and are all the way they should not get surprised if people get around to watch.
I never follow a car until i get a clear indication that is the couple wish to move more private.
i respect we use public places and we need to be fully aware of surronding people, i been ashamed by some people attitude.
appologise if i come across like doggers should impose over couples NEVER EVER
XXXX
Behaviour such as that in Alans post above is the norm at most sites now.
And yes, most "doggers" now DO resent normal couples in a carpark.
More worrying, from my viewpoint, is the split between "doggers who do" and "doggers who don't"...............join in that is.
Not so long ago it was common to find guys watching the action, while others made the action. Now those who join in are starting to get quite aggressive towards those not taking part. Mainly from the more scruffy type of dogger....I noted last weekend the first use of force I have seen in dogging, where the guy actually held the womans mouth on him when he came...in spite of her trying to pull away......obviously not the brain of britain type.
brings tears to your eyes :shock: but you are right, thats just asking for trouble :lol: :lol:
