Your a tough bunch..any dogging for me in north west tonite?

20 Jun 2004

I am trying hard and being patient and i have an ad on no 104388 for those who want a laugh but i am answering so many people and pm`ing people that the only thing getting sore from over-use is my typing fingers.
i have asked for advice and got none i have read the advice section and done what it says and still nothing.
what does a clean hygenic horny fun guy have to do just to even get a message around here rolleyes

please help me i am running out of ideas all i wanna do is have some fun and i gotta a feelin im not the only one lol
A
XXX

20 Jun 2004

Not strictly true, is it? :shock:
You can't say you've never got advice or help cos I've invited you to meets before. Once you got lost (or something like that) and the other you turned up late :roll: . I have PMed you on lots of occassions, so saying you never get messages is plain silly. Sorry if this sounds negative, but I'm really fed up of whingers! Either re-phrase your posts or re-evaluate your attitude, or both confused

20 Jun 2004

I can only add to what Blue said.
If you have taken the advice,and joined in so that people can get to know and trust you a bit how come you have only 4 posts confused

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Take it from me this dogging lark is not easy. If all you are after is a quick bit of satisfaction I suggest you go elsewhere and pay for it. This site is not for you.
There are 10,000 of us single males out there and if we get lucky it's because someone else wants us to and we should be happy when it happens. IT IS NOT A RIGHT !
Put some ground work in, let people find out a bit about you, turn up when you do get an offer and stop complaining.
Then you might begin to get somewhere.
If you think this is having a go at you it's not. You asked for advice and this is it, it's up to you whether you believe it :!:

21 Jun 2004

ok firstly i would like to apologise Blue i should have phrased it " apart from Blue" so sorry, however i have always turned up to your nights apart from the one time when i was in a car accident on way to meet you and mailed you as soon as i could do to apologise.
it was not my intention to sound like i was whinging i was just asking all the others out there for there excellent advice.

21 Jun 2004

first thing i did was check your profile, 5 posts , early days mate earl;y days, a lot of this is based on building confidencs that takes time , sit back open a bottle or two and dont watch the clock , time will tell the rest is up to you

21 Jun 2004

pity im to cuddly for u
im a good dogger smile

23 Jun 2004

Dunno if you have got anything planned for Friday night Jo.....I have replied to a couple of your ads and PM'd you - do you wnat to meet single men or is it couples only?

23 Jun 2004

ive not got a clue what im upto on fri night
but keep a look out on here for if im playign out smile

bump into your soon jo x

23 Jun 2004

Hopefully Jo fingers crossed!!!! If you are out on Friday, I would love to meet up - will keep an eye on the forums.....

23 Jun 2004

That's if you bother to turn up, Fegman rolleyes

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We all get sick of timewasters on here :roll: :roll: :roll:

23 Jun 2004

Hi all, I know I am only a newbie, so dont know if my views count for much, But your tone of post makes me think that u assume u are owed a meet co u send lots of pms!
I have not been here long, and have only been out once on a pre arranged meet, that was after a few pms and text msg, I was pretty shy and all that, but at the end of the day it was all worth while, but I never thought i would be as lucky as I was.
Lets face it, no one is here cos they have to be, they are here cos they want to be, and doggin is no different from any other type of relationship in that the ladies (or partners) word is final. If they feel threatened, or get bad vibes, dont like the tone of posts, or even just plain simple dont like you, then thats it.
Like all the other advice, if u find ur ways are not working, change them, dont think of yourself as a supastud that any woman would want, rather think of them as having to choose u, and do what u can to help them decide that !!
Like I say, only the views of a newbie, but results sofar are 1 all the way meet, and 1 almost arranged meet out of 3 possibles, the other said no thanks, not my type, and thats fine.
Best of luck to u all, and whilst here, thanks to everyone for all the advice here !
Paul