Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login

More evidence of social decline - New depths!

last reply
127 replies
5.1k views
0 watchers
0 likes
Sometimes I wonder if this is an adult site. All this petty 'he said, she said,' 'Mods banned me' 'mods favourite' 'this'll be locked' name calling and all that crap.
GROW UP!!!!
the forums are the least busiest part of the whole site, yet takes up most of the moderators time and YOU lot take up much of that!
I'll make this as plain and simple as it gets - if we get anymore of this petty bickering amongst you, you will ALL be banned. We have all got a lot better things to do than deal with you piecemeal, so if one goes, you all go. Enough is bloody enough.
Now this thread will not be locked, but we will be watching it.
Mal
Quote by Mal
Sometimes I wonder if this is an adult site. All this petty 'he said, she said,' 'Mods banned me' 'mods favourite' 'this'll be locked' name calling and all that crap.
GROW UP!!!!
the forums are the least busiest part of the whole site, yet takes up most of the moderators time and YOU lot take up much of that!
I'll make this as plain and simple as it gets - if we get anymore of this petty bickering amongst you, you will ALL be banned. We have all got a lot better things to do than deal with you piecemeal, so if one goes, you all go. Enough is bloody enough.
Now this thread will not be locked, but we will be watching it.
Mal

My dad's bigger than your dad flipa
Quote by Witchy
Sometimes I wonder if this is an adult site. All this petty 'he said, she said,' 'Mods banned me' 'mods favourite' 'this'll be locked' name calling and all that crap.
GROW UP!!!!
the forums are the least busiest part of the whole site, yet takes up most of the moderators time and YOU lot take up much of that!
I'll make this as plain and simple as it gets - if we get anymore of this petty bickering amongst you, you will ALL be banned. We have all got a lot better things to do than deal with you piecemeal, so if one goes, you all go. Enough is bloody enough.
Now this thread will not be locked, but we will be watching it.
Mal

My dad's bigger than your dad flipa
He might be, but I've got bigger buttons!
Thats great that is big sweeping statement about all! rolleyes
Quote by Mal
Sometimes I wonder if this is an adult site. All this petty 'he said, she said,' 'Mods banned me' 'mods favourite' 'this'll be locked' name calling and all that crap.
GROW UP!!!!
the forums are the least busiest part of the whole site, yet takes up most of the moderators time and YOU lot take up much of that!
I'll make this as plain and simple as it gets - if we get anymore of this petty bickering amongst you, you will ALL be banned. We have all got a lot better things to do than deal with you piecemeal, so if one goes, you all go. Enough is bloody enough.
Now this thread will not be locked, but we will be watching it.
Mal

Hopefully Mal this will apply to all threads from now on.
I'm sure someone will let me know if Im overlooking something vitaly important here, or if I make another typos on this blooming iPhone. But come on Boys and Girls, is there really any need to involve moderators if a discussion is not to your liking? If you look at what it says on the entrance to Current Affairs then surely you are expecting controversial and political discussions to be taking place here. If you want that warm fuzzy glow then why not stick to the cafe?
Seriously if I fealt that bothered about any subject in here that I even thought about complaining I would have to cry enough, it would be an argument lost.
Now feel the love, or else! :0)
Feel the lurve here...........
Quote by BrightonGeezer
But come on Boys and Girls, is there really any need to involve moderators if a discussion is not to your liking? If you look at what it says on the entrance to Current Affairs then surely you are expecting controversial and political discussions to be taking place here. If you want that warm fuzzy glow then why not stick to the cafe?

Regardless of what part of the forum you are in BrightonGeezer, 'fluffy' or otherwise, the site AUP applies to whatever is posted.
May I remind everyone of this part of the AUP:
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Abusive, aggressive, hateful or racist behaviour towards fellow members, Ops/Mods or Administration staff.

Yes, the threads in Current Affairs may be about slightly more controversial or potentially inflammatory topics, however there is no need for them to descend so frequently into personal abuse and petty behaviour. Likewise, there is really no need for members to deliberately use terminology that they know will offend other readers of or contributors to these public forums.
Political, controversial and sensitive debates can be had in a non-agressive, non-offensive way without recourse always being made to the basest of sentiments.
I'm sure more people would join in the threads in this part of the forum if they were conducted in a more measured and adult manner.
Nola x
Hi Nola,
I don't know whether you keep admnistrative records on this forum or perhaps you have a private forum where admins and moddies can thrash things out between you. I was the British moderator of an international politics news forum for many years and both facilities were available. What we spent a lot of our time on was not the rules themselves, but how they were interpreted and how to enforce them. Banning senior members was something that we would only do after discussing alternatives with the others and looking back at previous infractions.
Personally I see nothing wrong with this thread, of course I don't Im the OP. There has been some pettiness, but that is what you get when you engage in any kind of political debate. Page six did seem to go off topic with a few silly posts, but IMO it would surely be better for the integrity of the forum just to delete the off topic posts and let the rest of the thread run it's course?
Anyway I've gone off topic myself now, but those are just my own honest opinions.
BG.
Brighton strong subjects usually mean strong views.
I do not see anything different being said, that would not be said in a pub, or in my living room.
Yes people have clashed on here, and insults have been thrown, but as long as I have been on here, that has happened. Even when I joined this site, the forums I was not interested at all in. I used to have a look from time to time, but never had the inclination to post. But I still saw the arguements and the slanging matches. It happens at times when people have very strong views.
We are at war at the moment because people cannot agree, but that is what happens when people do not agree. Not go to war on here, but argue and say things that some may find offensive. Peoples interpretations of offensive differ from person to person.
Yes Mal is correct in most of what he says.
This usually happens, things calm down and then it usually fires back up again.
I know for a fact there are plenty of people that would love to comment in this forum, but frankly are a bit put off by the possibility of being shot down by their comments, which is sad really.
Nola also sums it up in many ways, but you cannot possibly have strong subjects with differing opinions, and not have blow ups. If that was to happen it would not be worth the discussion, as people need to be passionate about things, and if they are then that is where heated debate happens.
This thread will now just go into the archives and gather the dust, which is a shame because it was a good topic.
Unfortunately Kenty you will always get groups of people who have identified themselves as victims, they have taken on board that mentality and are frantically reading through any strong or controversial debate looking for anything they might be able to find offensive. It is all to do with political correctness, the empowering of the weak, and the stifling of any opposition to the liberal agenda.
People are dragging us back into the dark ages, there is no need for bleeding hearts in a country where those who might have been persecuted in the past are protected by laws that seem to make them more important and protected than those of us so often described as ordinary.
So I can be described as an ignorant knuckle dragger, just as long as I can be appropriately censored, I won't complain because I'm used to it. My usual reaction is to simply point and laugh, which is one surefire way of infuriating an idiot.
We are heading for some very interesting times, some of us are more ready than others. One thing I am certain of, censorship never won an argument and it never will.
BG.
Just a couple of points.
The topics are fine in their own right and there is no problem with strong arguments and debate. It's when the members, not the moderators, start throwing insults around at each other and trying their own brand of oneupmanship. We don't delete posts for the very reason that's already been mentioned, because it is a form of censorship.
If your arguments are good enough with enough supporting evidence and fact, not hearsay, then they stand or fall on that strength. However if you have to resort to petty insults and accusations of bleeding heart lefties, then your argument was never strong enough in the first place.
We do not stifle debate, we are here to ensure members are can all debate fairly on a level playing field, so don't make out it's the moderators fault that we have reached this low point.
Mal
Quote by Mal
Just a couple of points.
The topics are fine in their own right and there is no problem with strong arguments and debate. It's when the members, not the moderators, start throwing insults around at each other and trying their own brand of oneupmanship. We don't delete posts for the very reason that's already been mentioned, because it is a form of censorship.
If your arguments are good enough with enough supporting evidence and fact, not hearsay, then they stand or fall on that strength. However if you have to resort to petty insults and accusations of bleeding heart lefties, then your argument was never strong enough in the first place.
We do not stifle debate, we are here to ensure members are can all debate fairly on a level playing field, so don't make out it's the moderators fault that we have reached this low point.
Mal

Judging by some of the wording used here I take it that most of this is aimed in my general direction? Fair enough, there is never any point in arguing with moderators, however I stand by my own observations made earlier. Lefties, liberals, bleeding hearts, not accusations unless of course the cap fits the reader. Also if moderators really do need to engage one side of an argument as many times as has happened on this thread then it does represent a form of censorship.
As for "this low point", it was no doubt created by people who have complained with the express desire to see the debate ended.
Anyway that's it for me, my point has been made already. :0)
Quote by BrightonGeezer
Unfortunately Kenty you will always get groups of people who have identified themselves as victims, they have taken on board that mentality and are frantically reading through any strong or controversial debate looking for anything they might be able to find offensive. It is all to do with political correctness, the empowering of the weak, and the stifling of any opposition to the liberal agenda.
People are dragging us back into the dark ages, there is no need for bleeding hearts in a country where those who might have been persecuted in the past are protected by laws that seem to make them more important and protected than those of us so often described as ordinary.
So I can be described as an ignorant knuckle dragger, just as long as I can be appropriately censored, I won't complain because I'm used to it. My usual reaction is to simply point and laugh, which is one surefire way of infuriating an idiot.
We are heading for some very interesting times, some of us are more ready than others. One thing I am certain of, censorship never won an argument and it never will.
BG.

Censorship can take more than one form, including shouting loudest and longest so that no one else can be heard.lol
I am sure that there are many who would comment on this thread but don't want to get dragged into the undercurrent. I am more than capable of holding my own in any political arena but even I feel like I need a life vest before wading in here! So... with life vest firmly on, toggles tied and whistle and light tested..... wink
I think it is somewhat offensive to describe those who don't agree with your views as "identifying themsleves as victims ... looking for anything they might find offensive."
I have never been a victim and certainly have better things to do with my time than to trawl forums frantically searching for things to take exception to. Either we have two (or more) sided sensible and constructive debate or we don't. Just because I or others may not agree with your opinion, why does that suddenly become some sort of liberal left censorship conspiracy. Come on, seriously? That is just ridiculous. About as ridculous as me bleating on about a right wing conspiracy.
I rarely post in this forum, just lurk and watch :lol: even though I am extremenly passionate about politics and most definately have a strong view on pretty much everything, as I feel too often rather than engaging with the discourse and argumemts it descends into labelling and name calling.
I am not ashamed of my political convictions and I am more than happy to argue them constructively. I don't need to be dismissed as a bleeding heart or loony lefty, quite frankly that's your opinion and while your entitled to it, do you really need to point it out as an answer to dismissing my point of view? I might think your politics crazy but I wouldn't go round calling you a 'right wing scumbag'. :lol: I would debate you, challenging your ideas and in my opinion, your misconceptions. :wink:
I know I am lefty liberal, I am proud of it and stand by my political convictions. I don't need it pointing out or used to simply dismiss my views.
So, lets get the discussion back to the subject matter at hand and let the strength of our arguments do the point scoring!
Must admit, it does seem sometimes that the mods pick and choose how they intereptate the rules.......
Anyway, back on topic....
I don't think this man should go to prison, what he should get is 500 hrs community service and spend it at headley court.
Quote by browning
Must admit, it does seem sometimes that the mods pick and choose how they intereptate the rules.......

I disagree as we all discuss everything but you are allowed to have that opinion smile
On subject: The lad sure isn't gonna forget this in a hurry. Perhaps he's already been punished enough. Has it been publicised more because of the time of year it is? dunno
I've seen guys piddling up against gravestones - isn't that just as disrespectful?
During WW2, a german officer shot one of his own men for pissing on an allied grave from WW!.
Are we supposed to shoot him :shock:
Dave_Notts
Let's not descend into writing about what bastards soldiers were on any side of any war. Don't blame the puppets blame those who pull the strings. If there was a world war tomorrow young people would be conscripted and sent to fight whether they agreed with it or not.
It is terrible to piss on or disrespect anybodies grave, and that includes any soldier just because he was on the other side. Should the opportunity arise where as one might piss on the grave of a government that sent his country to war, then that would be a different matter.
You don't have to support the war to support the people fighting it. I just wish they would put Gordon Brown into combat gear, give him some faulty equipment, and send him into the Helmand Province. Will there be enough helicopters to rescue him? Will he even get through on his radio? If he has to return fire will his rifle work?
And he can't even make the trains run on time...
Quote by BrightonGeezer
Let's not descend into writing about what bastards soldiers were on any side of any war. Don't blame the puppets blame those who pull the strings. If there was a world war tomorrow young people would be conscripted and sent to fight whether they agreed with it or not.
It is terrible to piss on or disrespect anybodies grave, and that includes any soldier just because he was on the other side. Should the opportunity arise where as one might piss on the grave of a government that sent his country to war, then that would be a different matter.
You don't have to support the war to support the people fighting it. I just wish they would put Gordon Brown into combat gear, give him some faulty equipment, and send him into the Helmand Province. Will there be enough helicopters to rescue him? Will he even get through on his radio? If he has to return fire will his rifle work?
And he can't even make the trains run on time...

Thats the whole point.....people like Brown neither have the inclination or the bollocks to do anything that would resemble being a real man!
I saw his smug useless face at the Remembrance day in London, and he just really really does not get it.
He does not give a flying fuck about our troops, only his own PR, and trying to save his own scrawny neck.
Oh yes I would love to put him in army gear and give him a rifle that did not work, and then send him right into the Taliban stronghold, and then leave him with them.
Am sure they could make better use of him, than he can for our troops. And I thought Blair was a useless human being ( which he is )but Brown is as bad if not worse.
Maybe we should start a " give him to the Taliban " campaign?