after the untimely death of Neil it was refreshing to see the banter between all the old names and early members who came back to pay their respects my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here
I doubt you will get many people answering this in the public forum. A lot of people had a lot of fun here, but ultimately I believe politics got in the way.
I'm happy to answer. 1. Circa end 2005. The site changed. I moved to another site, then another, maybe a few more. Still came back here, now and again, to arrange sex with people not on other sites. 2. Circa end 2008. Made a conscious decision to stop swinging, no need to come here for sex. People I had made friends (as in real life friends) were on my social media by then anyway. No need to come here for chats/social. 3. Present. Perfectly happy on other social media. No reason to start swinging again. It got boring. S'it really. Politics did get in the way in 2005/2006, but long since put away that shit. Just moved on with my life, I guess. I prefer people's real life posts elsewhere, and pictures of their cats, than hearing who fucked who. S'all.
Quote by Lizaleanrob after the untimely death of Neil it was refreshing to see the banter between all the old names and early members who came back to pay their respects my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here
Yes Rob was a great tribute to Neil that a lot of old members popped back in, I cannot think of any other members that would have generated that on here.
Quote by Redangel2013 I doubt you will get many people answering this in the public forum. A lot of people had a lot of fun here, but ultimately I believe politics got in the way.
shame really as the banter is obviously still there after all this time its a pleasure to watch and our loss not to see on a regular basis
Quote by Lizaleanrob shame really as the banter is obviously still there after all this time its a pleasure to watch and our loss not to see on a regular basis
Quote by bluexxx I'm happy to answer. 1. Circa end 2005. The site changed. I moved to another site, then another, maybe a few more. Still came back here, now and again, to arrange sex with people not on other sites. 2. Circa end 2008. Made a conscious decision to stop swinging, no need to come here for sex. People I had made friends (as in real life friends) were on my social media by then anyway. No need to come here for chats/social. 3. Present. Perfectly happy on other social media. No reason to start swinging again. It got boring. S'it really. Politics did get in the way in 2005/2006, but long since put away that shit. Just moved on with my life, I guess. I prefer people's real life posts elsewhere, and pictures of their cats, than hearing who fucked who. S'all.
To be honest, this pretty much sums up my story/feelings too. So many real life, forever friends have been made here. I'd genuinely say that at least 75% of my closest friendships started on this forum and we now know each other's families and spend a lot of time communicating, if not in each other's company.
To be honest a number of thing. 1, moved to other sites as friends moved and we wanted to stay in contact. 2, site got bought out and things changed. Ie instead of one chat room with great bannter 4 serves turned up with about 50 rooms on each so unable to find people. Its got better now, only one server but still way to many chat rooms. 3, times change swinging is not the same as it used to be. ie, do you fancy going to a bbw social, fet social, club social, bbc social etc etc etc before it was just one social for everyone. Bunch of swingers in one place having a laugh. 4, Also on the subject of times changing, we changed, we still play but even the playing side of things has changed. We have found its more of wham bam (which we can do) but what happened to wham bam, laugh joke, round two, laugh joke drink round three. Now we have noticed its wham bam and there is the door bye. Hope this answers your questions xxxxx Us
Quote by deancannock I was , humiliated and abused as a fool. Women hated me and men didn't want to be me.
but that was what you said you liked whilst you wore your Gimp mask !!! Gimp mask my arse! Its something when even bloody stan collymore has no respect!
Quote by Happy Cats I was , humiliated and abused as a fool. Women hated me and men didn't want to be me.
but that was what you said you liked whilst you wore your Gimp mask !!! Gimp mask my arse! Its something when even bloody stan collymore has no respect! Still a miserable cat bastard then? :twisted:
i actually only left a few months ago when my sister was going for adoption and was told every nook and cranny of the family would be looked into i do admit the forums and chat changed so much over the years i felt less and less able to contribute, less part of it i guess, how i felt with people moving away etc things change times change swining changes and people change but friendships are never lost
Quote by northwest-cpl I was hounded out, humiliated and abused as a fool. Women hated me and men didn't want to be me.
I see nowt's changed then. And this fucker was my only friend Less of the friend you MCB This exchange made me happy. All we need now is Markz... bet he turns up simply to say... You want me don't you.
happy twats and mark....you can feel the sexual tension in here...... :twisted: TBH when i changed jobs late 07 and then got a season ticket kind of stopped that. I also ended up become friends with people from social media
Quote by Angel Chat I'm happy to answer. 1. Circa end 2005. The site changed. I moved to another site, then another, maybe a few more. Still came back here, now and again, to arrange sex with people not on other sites. 2. Circa end 2008. Made a conscious decision to stop swinging, no need to come here for sex. People I had made friends (as in real life friends) were on my social media by then anyway. No need to come here for chats/social. 3. Present. Perfectly happy on other social media. No reason to start swinging again. It got boring. S'it really. Politics did get in the way in 2005/2006, but long since put away that shit. Just moved on with my life, I guess. I prefer people's real life posts elsewhere, and pictures of their cats, than hearing who fucked who. S'all.
To be honest, this pretty much sums up my story/feelings too. So many real life, forever friends have been made here. I'd genuinely say that at least 75% of my closest friendships started on this forum and we now know each other's families and spend a lot of time communicating, if not in each other's company. :thumbup: *Her*
Quote by Angel Chat I'm happy to answer. 1. Circa end 2005. The site changed. I moved to another site, then another, maybe a few more. Still came back here, now and again, to arrange sex with people not on other sites. 2. Circa end 2008. Made a conscious decision to stop swinging, no need to come here for sex. People I had made friends (as in real life friends) were on my social media by then anyway. No need to come here for chats/social. 3. Present. Perfectly happy on other social media. No reason to start swinging again. It got boring. S'it really. Politics did get in the way in 2005/2006, but long since put away that shit. Just moved on with my life, I guess. I prefer people's real life posts elsewhere, and pictures of their cats, than hearing who fucked who. S'all.
To be honest, this pretty much sums up my story/feelings too. So many real life, forever friends have been made here. I'd genuinely say that at least 75% of my closest friendships started on this forum and we now know each other's families and spend a lot of time communicating, if not in each other's company. And us too. Swinging got in the way of real life problems for us, well not so much got in the way but priorities changed etc. Kids are older now so despite us thinking it would get easier, it's not as they won't go to babysitters now without 40million questions! ;) I have 90% of my closest swinging acquired friends on Facebook now and their friendship is more important to me than chasing experiences! Although i'd probably not say no to many of them! :twisted:
Yeah, man - swinging got, like, mainstream, dude! We used to be rebels... :2fingers: No, to answer seriously, it started when most of our friends moved off to A N Other site so we ended up being there more than here. Then life kinda changed around us - Hope and I changed, grew closer, moved in together and found that mostly all that we needed was each other. I'm not exactly saying that swinging was just a phase - it's something we wouldn't rule out under the right circumstances, but that urgent first flush of passion, as felt for a new lover, has long faded. Now where did I put me slippers?
Yeah, man - swinging got, like, mainstream, dude! We used to be rebels... :2fingers:quote) Actually you are probably right to a degree. Only the other day I noticed that Wowcher had cheap membership for Vanilla Alternative on offer :eeek:
Quote by Lizaleanrob after the untimely death of Neil it was refreshing to see the banter between all the old names and early members who came back to pay their respects my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here
I just got too busy in the real world with business and house renovation to do it the justice I think it deserves. I was still watching, just not posting for about 2 years. And yes, the news of Neil's death a couple of weeks back made me think 'I remember that..' Back now, as and when I can
Quote by Lizaleanrob my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here
I found the swinging scene by accident. I had no idea of the experiences I would have, or the friendships I would make. I made no conscious effort to find the scene, I made no conscious effort to stop swinging. But as my signature says (You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave) I can't walk away. The reason I can't walk away from the scene, is moments like this. Yes, it is tragically sad as to why some people are here posting again, but on Facebook I have friends and acquaintances from this scene, and they are why I can never leave. That link will always be there and even if there is no swinging occurring, the bond that ties is there. And I suppose that while I am still around the scene, then the scene will be still around me, and I do still have some unfinished business with some people.
my question really would be what made you guys move on when clearly you had so much fun here
I found the swinging scene by accident. I had no idea of the experiences I would have, or the friendships I would make. I made no conscious effort to find the scene, I made no conscious effort to stop swinging. But as my signature says (You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave) I can't walk away. The reason I can't walk away from the scene, is moments like this. Yes, it is tragically sad as to why some people are here posting again, but on Facebook I have friends and acquaintances from this scene, and they are why I can never leave. That link will always be there and even if there is no swinging occurring, the bond that ties is there. And I suppose that while I am still around the scene, then the scene will be still around me, and I do still have some unfinished business with some people. I mean I do lurk on another site on the weekends unfortunately work and real life has got in the way. Last swinging dabble was this time last year at cupids.... I still keep in a contact with people from scene tho as I am from smoke wiith no car, I don't get to see people as often as I could or should.
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