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Our way of life; what is it?

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Quote by The_third_man
And our way of life is what exactly? Christian? Christianity was forced on us hundreds of years ago or are we speaking of a way of life nearer our time now? Perhaps our way of life is the Americanised version we are fed these days, like Trick or Treating? or is it some other english way of life? perhaps mid history? going into other peoples countries and forcing our way of life on them? like in India? Africa? or perhaps its something else. Freespeach perhaps? thats a British thing is it not?

The above got me thinking.
It is true, there are alot of churches in Britain, and Bishops appointed to the House of Lords, because they are Bishops. It is true that American TV has introduced trick or treat, and a collection of word and phrases that make be cringe sometimes. I would like to point out that after the fall of the Monarchy most British territory over seas was gained by defending our trading partners, or taking it off of other Empires. France did more to build the British Empire then anyone. India was born out of English trade and an attempt by France to deny England that trade. Napoleon called us a nation of shop keeps. Yes, Africa was perhaps different from the rule, we should never have attacked the Zulu, we should have helped them defend themselves. Indeed Victoria did revise the treaty after it was reported to her, and the PM was not pleased with the war starting in the first place.
But what is it that makes Britain Britain? Is it that we do not fall in behind the flag just because someone waves it? Is it that we have freedom of speech? No! I think that it is that we did not have a Committee of Un-British Affairs, that when The Labour party forced a bill banning protest in front of Westminster into Law a police officer was still able to read the law and see and refuse to remove that one remaining protester who still sits there.
Perhaps it is because we are British that we never had a KKK and the like, or perhaps it is because we have not had that fear since the fall of Charles I that we are British.
Travis
Freedom of speech is all very well, butI think the British have the annoying habit of controlling each others thoughts and feelings. Thus making the freedom of speech in many cases redundant.
Queueing?
I was brought up to believe that the British way of life was fairness to all, toleration of all things and kindness.
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I was brought up to believe that the British way of life was fairness to all, toleration of all things and kindness.

And what is your opinion now you're out of that bubble? wink
Its still the way I feel but I am not sure Britain is like that anymore :cry:
More tea vicar?
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Its still the way I feel but I am not sure Britain is like that anymore :cry:
More tea vicar?

Some of us still exist wink
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Its still the way I feel but I am not sure Britain is like that anymore :cry:
More tea vicar?

Some of us still exist wink
Hear hear but I don't think it's a general attitude anymore unfortunately. sad
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Its still the way I feel but I am not sure Britain is like that anymore :cry:
More tea vicar?

Some of us still exist wink kiss :kiss:
I don't know much about "british" but I've found that in most countries I've visited, the main theme is "we're sensible people who want to get on with life, wish nobody harm and love what freedom we have"
except very few people, when put to the test by life, social or political events or a challenging opposition, seem to be able to do as they preach.
and that seems to be true no matter what side of what border you're on.
I think the media has a lot of power over the way people view this country.
I see what is around me and make my opinions up on what I see with my own eyes, I know there is bad in this country, but there is also a lot of good happening too, but it still offers us a lot more freedom that many other countries, but the media will not have you believe that.
I tend to vocus on the good that I see, I don't have time for the bad.
Take a look at a lot of the way others live in other countries then think what we have here.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I think the media has a lot of power over the way people view this country.
I see what is around me and make my opinions up on what I see with my own eyes, I know there is bad in this country, but there is also a lot of good happening too, but it still offers us a lot more freedom that many other countries, but the media will not have you believe that.
I tend to vocus on the good that I see, I don't have time for the bad.
Take a look at a lot of the way others live in other countries then think what we have here.

I agree minxy, I think that the vast majority of people in this country are generally honest, easy-going citizens who want a quiet life and will help their neighbours achieve the same. Good news is not newsworthy but bad news is. The media reports what it sees as newsworthy and that includes stories from other countries too.
I'm sure most Americans are just like us, not paranoid, gun-wielding maniacs. But would you believe that from the stories we are told by the media.
I expect there are lots of people in Afghanistan and Iraq who want the same as we do but they are not newsworthy. I can't believe the entire region of countries is like the gunfight at the OK Corral. If honest hard-working citizens weren't there going about their everyday business, those countries would all grind to a halt. There must be pockets of what we would describe as normality shoring up their economies in between the war zones. We just don't hear about them.
I may be naive, but I feel that most people are like me. I'm not religious but I try to live my life by traditional Christian values ie: treat people as you wish to be treated yourself etc. (especially loving thy neighbour :rascal: ).
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
I think the media has a lot of power over the way people view this country.
I see what is around me and make my opinions up on what I see with my own eyes, I know there is bad in this country, but there is also a lot of good happening too, but it still offers us a lot more freedom that many other countries, but the media will not have you believe that.
I tend to vocus on the good that I see, I don't have time for the bad.
Take a look at a lot of the way others live in other countries then think what we have here.

I agree minxy, I think that the vast majority of people in this country are generally honest, easy-going citizens who want a quiet life and will help their neighbours achieve the same. Good news is not newsworthy but bad news is. The media reports what it sees as newsworthy and that includes stories from other countries too.
I'm sure most Americans are just like us, not paranoid, gun-wielding maniacs. But would you believe that from the stories we are told by the media.
I expect there are lots of people in Afghanistan and Iraq who want the same as we do but they are not newsworthy. I can't believe the entire region of countries is like the gunfight at the OK Corral. If honest hard-working citizens weren't there going about their everyday business, those countries would all grind to a halt. There must be pockets of what we would describe as normality shoring up their economies in between the war zones. We just don't hear about them.
I may be naive, but I feel that most people are like me. I'm not religious but I try to live my life by traditional Christian values ie: treat people as you wish to be treated yourself etc. (especially loving thy neighbour :rascal: ).
Amen.......and I mean that most sincerely folks!
isn't it all about not liking the French?
lp
Quote by __random_orbit__
isn't it all about not liking the French?
lp

Now what was I just saying about not making generalisations? smackbottom
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
isn't it all about not liking the French?
lp

Now what was I just saying about not making generalisations? smackbottom
yup, French Generals too!
lp
Its really relevant to so many threads we have had of late. many of those threads have led to vehement and strongly held views expressed and to wide sweeping and often frankly bigoted and ill informed ones as well.
These views are the consequence of living and reacting in the moment and not seeing the bigger picture.
Much of the controversy over foreign wars, immigration, money cycles and the government are talked about like they are simply the worst thing that ever happened, and are certainly worse than they have ever been, but you know what that just isn't true.
Generations and generations before us have been through similar and almost identical cycles and discussions and debate and they all thought the world was crashing down around their ears as well.
Our way of life as British people is defined by all those experiences one after the other, as a aged mature nation which has time and time again been founded on immigration migration and invasion. As a mature and well established democracy which through all things always tries its best to do the right thing, through wars and market crashes and recessions - the spirit of the British people has been formed and reformed until we became the glorious mixture of moral ,political and creative animals which we are.
To be British is not to be insular and defeatist it is to look at what we have been, what we are and what we may become as the greatest melting pot of history and strive to become the sum of all those things with pride at what we have achieved
Peace
An Englishman
I think to ask "what is our way of life?" is to start with the assumption that there is just one way of life.
There are certainly themes in our society so that you could identify being in the UK fairly easily (apart from the driving on the left and the signs in English LOL) but I think there is far more variation than we often assume.
I know my way of life is very different from a lot of other people's - even my Mum's. But I wouldn't suggest for a second that I have the 'British' (and therefore somehow superior) way of life and they don't.
We should all stand under the same law - but we don't (check out the 'peer who killed a family while texting/driving released after appeal' reports). We should all have the same opportunities - but we don't (see 'postcode lottery for healthcare/education' reports). We should all love each other - but we don't (although there are a few in the chat-rooms giving it a damned good attempt LOL).
But we share this world and this country. And none of us has the right to say that someone else's way of life is wrong just because it isn't the same as our own.
Should take the Buddhist Hotdog view Foxy
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>some stuff and nonsense<

Quote by foxylady2209 and then
But we share this world and this country. And none of us has the right to say that someone else's way of life is wrong just because it isn't the same as our own.

poppycock. Who said you could say that ? rolleyes
wink
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>some stuff and nonsense<

Quote by foxylady2209 and then
But we share this world and this country. And none of us has the right to say that someone else's way of life is wrong just because it isn't the same as our own.

poppycock. Who said you could say that ? rolleyes
wink
Cheeky. LOL
And what's the 'stuff and nonsense' crack? I write good stuff, I does and don't you forget it! :wink:
I dream about your stuff and nonsense.
Quote by foxylady2209
I think to ask "what is our way of life?" is to start with the assumption that there is just one way of life.
There are certainly themes in our society so that you could identify being in the UK fairly easily (apart from the driving on the left and the signs in English LOL) but I think there is far more variation than we often assume.
I know my way of life is very different from a lot of other people's - even my Mum's. But I wouldn't suggest for a second that I have the 'British' (and therefore somehow superior) way of life and they don't.
We should all stand under the same law - but we don't (check out the 'peer who killed a family while texting/driving released after appeal' reports). We should all have the same opportunities - but we don't (see 'postcode lottery for healthcare/education' reports). We should all love each other - but we don't (although there are a few in the chat-rooms giving it a damned good attempt LOL).
But we share this world and this country. And none of us has the right to say that someone else's way of life is wrong just because it isn't the same as our own.

:thumbup:
'There's only one way of life and that's your own'
The Levellers.
I always think a fundamental part of our life style is our sense of humour which has so many facets to it. You only have to read these forums regularly to see some fabulous examples of our British sense of humour....some of it even intentional too lol
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isn't it all about not liking the French?
lp

Now what was I just saying about not making generalisations? smackbottom
yup, French Generals too!
lp lol
Quote by Freckledbird
'There's only one way of life and that's your own'
The Levellers.
I never had much time for levelers. I prefer Cromwell, who said,'Rise everyone up, not reduce everyone. Produces riches for all, not spread out what we have so thinly.'
I paraphrase as I do not have the qoute to hand.
Travis
After starting this thread, I was tempted to delete it, I am so happy I did not.