Hello all
Just interested to see what peoples opinions are on sex with disabled people?
I ask because I am of course and although I have lots of experience in the past, when I visit sites like this people seem to shy away when they learn about the disability thing..
Is it fear, ignorance, disgust or some other reason?
Be interested to hear others views on the subject
Thanks boys and girls
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Sex and disability
This is a topic which has been raised before, here in the forums, and different people have their own viewpoints, as you might expect. There will always be prejudices, and some people set themselves a rigid criteria which they tend to stick with insofar as adverts go. Face to face meetings often overcome these, but everyone's different. Then disabilities vary so much too, so it's not going to be an easy question to answer. However there are a number of members who have, and who would meet a disabled person, subject of course to considering other criteria. Go to a social and meet lots of people in a hassle free environment, then if you click with someone you can arrange to meet again.
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This is a topic which has been raised before, here in the forums, and different people have their own viewpoints, as you might expect. There will always be prejudices, and some people set themselves a rigid criteria which they tend to stick with insofar as adverts go. Face to face meetings often overcome these, but everyone's different. Then disabilities vary so much too, so it's not going to be an easy question to answer. However there are a number of members who have, and who would meet a disabled person, subject of course to considering other criteria. Go to a social and meet lots of people in a hassle free environment, then if you click with someone you can arrange to meet again.
Skinny speaks a lot of sense
We have played with disabled persons and will do again.
We expect only one thing and that is exactly the same we expect of abled bodied people ....... honesty, we expect to know in advance if someone is disabled in any way and what that means during a meet, we don't expect to arrive or have arrive people whose profile says "slim or athletic" who are actually "large or obese" so if someone has a disability we expect them to tell us about it.
We have played with people in wheelchairs and had a great time, disability is like age, it is not always a deal breaker but it can be.
We are human, so, for example, we may find facial disfigurement something that is difficult for us to overcome, when it comes to finding a person sexually attractive, that doesn't mean we would not find them great social company or great friends.
There is never an excuse for anybody to be abusive or disrespectful to anyone be they able bodied or disabled.
We expect only one thing and that is exactly the same we expect of abled bodied people ....... honesty, we expect to know in advance if someone is disabled in any way and what that means during a meet, we don't expect to arrive or have arrive people whose profile says "slim or athletic" who are actually "large or obese" so if someone has a disability we expect them to tell us about it.
We have played with people in wheelchairs and had a great time, disability is like age, it is not always a deal breaker but it can be.
We are human, so, for example, we may find facial disfigurement something that is difficult for us to overcome, when it comes to finding a person sexually attractive, that doesn't mean we would not find them great social company or great friends.
There is never an excuse for anybody to be abusive or disrespectful to anyone be they able bodied or disabled.