Hi all and thanks for reading.
Im new on here and can see theres an abundance of Single males on here.
Quite a lot of competition I guess the whole thing is who genuine and whos not.
Ive tried making my profile as clear and as friendly as possible.
I would appreciate it if you could give any advice as to whats wrong or right with my profile.
Im sure you guys have experianced what works for a genuine response and to make new friends.
I know I need to put more pics up thats a job in hand and will address that ovet the weekend I hope.
Look forward to your comments
Chris
Please feel free to add me as a friend thanks
Hi i'm having the same issue's with me being a straight male playing as single on this site! the only people that seem to be interested are gay or bi guys. This is my second month on here and i'm thinking of cancelling my account and joining another one, does anyone know of any good site's but I do think its a pitty because I love the way SH is set up
not much luck in love............am I that bad looking, I thought I was gorgeous.
MrLeedz, if you're expecting your profile to be enough to hook people in you're gonna be disappointed most likely, it doesn't work like that for single guys. Not unless they're in possession of physical attributes impressively out of the norm enough to turn some people's heads all by themselves. Just had a look at your profile, seems that is not the case sadly there, the best that could be said is really quite average, what you'd expect to find on just about every other single guy's profile out there. No offence mate, strictly average in all departments here myself! Just giving you the benefit of a bi guy's thoughts on the subject here, OK? ;)
Funfree, your profile's fine. There's a lot of spelling and grammar mistakes, just sloppy wording generally that could do with a spell check and a bit of tidying up and some better pics would be good, as you've realised. In the end though your profile is not gonna be enough all by itself. It's there as background for when someone comes across you on the forums or in chat if they like what they see enough to look further into things but you need to be proactive here, be involved on the forums or in chat to make that a possibility really. Odds are just too stacked against you so you have to do what you can to stand out from the rest. Keep plugging away, get yourself established as a bit of a regular face with a bit of a regular crowd, see what happens. That's what is gonna get you invites to socials and club meets near you, people you meet at them IRL is what will really open doors for you. Don't do any of that you may as well have spent your joining fee on beer down the pub mate, you'd have more of a chance of a shag. ;)
Good luck!
