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Quote by benrums0n
Im not arguing for arguments sake Kent but the headline,
"Labour is doing nothing less than trying to reshape the sexual and moral behaviour of an entire society"
is ridiculous.
The article itself is ill informed or prejudiced, Im not sure which.
Who owns teh Daily Mail these days and therefore decides its editorial policy? I forget.

Are you changing the habit of a lifetime then? :shock:
Quote by kentswingers777
How good is this artical, and the fundamentals of it's content?

:shock: You would find it good Kenty, it's a typical right-wing view on the matter.
Quote by kentswingers777
How good is this artical, and the fundamentals of it's content?

You scare me! :scared:
Quote by kentswingers777
How good is this artical, and the fundamentals of it's content?

/Snipped from the article;
"It is instead an attempt to change the sexual mores of our society from marriage-based self-restraint to a sexual free-for-all and a destruction of the very idea of sexual norms."/end of snipping
Damn! They can't be allowed to so that! We must promote marriage based self restraint at all costs!
We must make a stand against them destroying the very idea of sexual norms!
If the government succeed in doing what the author suggests they're trying to- we'll end up with a society full of people who believe in recreational sex- with the only real boundary being not hurting anyone! Bollox to that! They'll be trying to convince us that sex without love is OK next!
Thats a slippery slope to a nation of depraved...perverse...swingers!
Stop this madness! At once!
Oh, bollox. I forgot where I was :doh:
Now Kenty, you tell me- how good is the article and the fundamentals of it's contents? dunno
rotflmao Witchy, you crack me up!
I am surrounded by lefties!!!
If you cannot believe this, then no wonder we are in a mess.

Everywhere I go....tree huggers, cyclists and enviromental sandal wearers. :shock: :shock:
Even when we have society going down the toilet, there is still tree huggers there, ready to offer a sympathetic ear.
Well I may be a tad righty but....blimey I would not have it any other way. wink :wink: :wink: :kissmyarse: lol
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp
Quote by __random_orbit__
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp

as far as I can gather.. you and I are supposed to set up a commune type accommodation and take in loads of different minority groups to ensure that all of the marginalised people in the world have a safe place to live out of the gaze of fuckwits.
Oh, and for 'minority' read 'anyone who doesn't read the scum or the daily wail' (even tho' we both know they are just the most vocal)
I think u can probably guess Mr Orbit.
I thought we had a steam room for rants anyway.
Quote by splendid_
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp

as far as I can gather.. you and I are supposed to set up a commune type accommodation and take in loads of different minority groups to ensure that all of the marginalised people in the world have a safe place to live out of the gaze of fuckwits.
Oh, and for 'minority' read 'anyone who doesn't read the scum or the daily wail' (even tho' we both know they are just the most vocal)
dammit.
for one glorious moment there I thought I was to classed a worthy minority.
so... this commune, will there be sandals?
Fine in the summer I'm sure, though I may have a second thought when the snows come. Can I sign-on? (sorry... sign-up! I meant sign-up!!!)
lp
Quote by __random_orbit__
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp

as far as I can gather.. you and I are supposed to set up a commune type accommodation and take in loads of different minority groups to ensure that all of the marginalised people in the world have a safe place to live out of the gaze of fuckwits.
Oh, and for 'minority' read 'anyone who doesn't read the scum or the daily wail' (even tho' we both know they are just the most vocal)
dammit.
for one glorious moment there I thought I was to classed a worthy minority.
so... this commune, will there be sandals?
Fine in the summer I'm sure, though I may have a second thought when the snows come. Can I sign-on? (sorry... sign-up! I meant sign-up!!!)
lp
Can I come in?
I tried to read the Sun- but struggled with all the small words. confused
Can I bring my own sandals though? They're leather & wood platforms with a three inch heel. That's as sandally as I get wink
Quote by __random_orbit__
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp

as far as I can gather.. you and I are supposed to set up a commune type accommodation and take in loads of different minority groups to ensure that all of the marginalised people in the world have a safe place to live out of the gaze of fuckwits.
Oh, and for 'minority' read 'anyone who doesn't read the scum or the daily wail' (even tho' we both know they are just the most vocal)
dammit.
for one glorious moment there I thought I was to classed a worthy minority.
so... this commune, will there be sandals?
Fine in the summer I'm sure, though I may have a second thought when the snows come. Can I sign-on? (sorry... sign-up! I meant sign-up!!!)
lp
you can 'sign-up' as long you also work for cash in hand..and get that blue badge sorted out too.
Quote by splendid_
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp

as far as I can gather.. you and I are supposed to set up a commune type accommodation and take in loads of different minority groups to ensure that all of the marginalised people in the world have a safe place to live out of the gaze of fuckwits.
Oh, and for 'minority' read 'anyone who doesn't read the scum or the daily wail' (even tho' we both know they are just the most vocal)
dammit.
for one glorious moment there I thought I was to classed a worthy minority.
so... this commune, will there be sandals?
Fine in the summer I'm sure, though I may have a second thought when the snows come. Can I sign-on? (sorry... sign-up! I meant sign-up!!!)
lp
you can 'sign-up' as long you also work for cash in hand..and get that blue badge sorted out badge is sorted, I'll get one of the latch-key drunkards to lift it from my old workplace. She should be ok for the job, not too heavily pregnant yet. Job's a good'un
lp
Quote by Witchy
is this forum beconing an organ for a newspaper?
I have no idea what the current issues are in this thread as I dont read the 'newspaper' being promoted, nor will I follow the links.
a synopsis anyone?
lp

as far as I can gather.. you and I are supposed to set up a commune type accommodation and take in loads of different minority groups to ensure that all of the marginalised people in the world have a safe place to live out of the gaze of fuckwits.
Oh, and for 'minority' read 'anyone who doesn't read the scum or the daily wail' (even tho' we both know they are just the most vocal)
dammit.
for one glorious moment there I thought I was to classed a worthy minority.
so... this commune, will there be sandals?
Fine in the summer I'm sure, though I may have a second thought when the snows come. Can I sign-on? (sorry... sign-up! I meant sign-up!!!)
lp
Can I come in?
I tried to read the Sun- but struggled with all the small words. confused
Can I bring my own sandals though? They're leather & wood platforms with a three inch heel. That's as sandally as I get wink
Oh yess, I have lovely sexy sparkly sandals! they show my ankles off to their best! :wink:
And as for the sun, nowt but tits lol
You've got to love it folks! There's none so blind as those that can see...
Thank Goodness though Mr Kent has stopped linking from the Sun and is using a far more middle of the road, non dictat political think tank that is the Daily Mail...
Because as we know, they have no agenda.
I'm not a lefty or a righty Mr K. I can't stand any of them. However I am also not a blinkered titty-poo. A very nice titty-poo who amuses me no end, but a blinkered one all the same.
I've never owned a pair of sandals, or hugged a tree... But I think that is eminently preferable to reading the Daily Mail every day. Sewing your scrotum to the sofa is eminently preferable to reading the Daily Mail come to think of it.
Mr K, just because what the papers you choose to report fits in with your view of the world, does not make them right and everyone else wrong. Oddly enough, papers tend to pander to the views of their owners, editors and readership... That is what you singularly cannot grasp. I don't know if you can't see it, or you refuse to. Or if you just like winding folk up.
Look in the cookery section in the library for cook books, and you know what, you will find them. It doesn't mean there are no books on travel however.
I'm afraid Mr Kent, you are in danger of becoming a mockery of yourself. Your arguments, already weak, just dissipate still further when you quote your sources and resort to thinly veiled political attacks to take attention away from the fact that your initial argument doesn't stand up to much critical assessment and a more comprehensive examination of the facts as you present them.
For example :
Teen birth rate rise shocker - 1 year out of seven it has risen. The other times it has fallen. Not enough perhaps, but it has STILL fallen.
Wish it was like the good old days or the 40's,50's and 60's - as has already been shown the good old days showed MORE instances of teen pregnancy. And furthermore how it was dealt with verged on the draconian.
It's all Labour's fault - Fair enough. That;s your view. They are in power. But what IS the solution? Have the Conservatives, Liberals, or the Monster Raving Loony Party come up with anything so obviously better?
This is half the problem Mr K. You stand on the sidelines and lambaste everything the government does or says. But you offer NO alternative, the sources you quote are nothing but jingoistic populist tripe and your arguments are about as watertight as a colander, which is a shame because many of the initial points you make I find myself having some sympathy with... And then we get to the bit where you quote your source, and then start on the politics and sounding off and rather than add weight to what you say, it detracts from it immeasurably and I find I cannot even begin to support what you say.
In my opinion of course. Others may well feel you put together an erudite argument. I would argue you do put up a very spirited defence, and you take criticism far better than many on here. But shouting louder and longer never won any argument. It's by proving the points you make with reliable sources that are not so obviously promoting their own political agenda, (that just so happens to fit in with yours) which proves your point. It is by quoting sources other than two newspapers which are a laughing stock because of their known political allegiances and blatant right wing bias.
I did used to like your threads Mr K, and I will defend your right to have your say but your continual promotion of your right wing views on EVERY argument, does not add weight to your points, but wholly detracts from them. It shows a lack of balance, a lack of foresight and a lack of acceptance and, crucially, understanding of the whole issue. Things are NEVER as black and white as you see them.
That's a shame because you put up such a good honest, defence of your posts and I think you do have a lot of good things to say about many of these subjects, but I am afraid they get somewhat lost in the politically driven nonsense that the threads tend to descend into and with your refusal to concede that anyone else may have a counter point of view that has equal weight, if not more so, and is backed up with that crucial thing called evidence which is not solely politically motivated. It is that which people rally behind, not the beards and sandals of liberalism.
Do you remember that Bob Dylan song.
Something about pissing in the wind.
Quote by Resonance
You've got to love it folks! There's none so blind as those that can see...
Thank Goodness though Mr Kent has stopped linking from the Sun and is using a far more middle of the road, non dictat political think tank that is the Daily Mail...
Because as we know, they have no agenda.
I'm not a lefty or a righty Mr K. I can't stand any of them. However I am also not a blinkered titty-poo. A very nice titty-poo who amuses me no end, but a blinkered one all the same.
I've never owned a pair of sandals, or hugged a tree... But I think that is eminently preferable to reading the Daily Mail every day. Sewing your scrotum to the sofa is eminently preferable to reading the Daily Mail come to think of it.
Mr K, just because what the papers you choose to report fits in with your view of the world, does not make them right and everyone else wrong. Oddly enough, papers tend to pander to the views of their owners, editors and readership... That is what you singularly cannot grasp. I don't know if you can't see it, or you refuse to. Or if you just like winding folk up.
Look in the cookery section in the library for cook books, and you know what, you will find them. It doesn't mean there are no books on travel however.
I'm afraid Mr Kent, you are in danger of becoming a mockery of yourself. Your arguments, already weak, just dissipate still further when you quote your sources and resort to thinly veiled political attacks to take attention away from the fact that your initial argument doesn't stand up to much critical assessment and a more comprehensive examination of the facts as you present them.
For example :
Teen birth rate rise shocker - 1 year out of seven it has risen. The other times it has fallen. Not enough perhaps, but it has STILL fallen.
Wish it was like the good old days or the 40's,50's and 60's - as has already been shown the good old days showed MORE instances of teen pregnancy. And furthermore how it was dealt with verged on the draconian.
It's all Labour's fault - Fair enough. That;s your view. They are in power. But what IS the solution? Have the Conservatives, Liberals, or the Monster Raving Loony Party come up with anything so obviously better?
This is half the problem Mr K. You stand on the sidelines and lambaste everything the government does or says. But you offer NO alternative, the sources you quote are nothing but jingoistic populist tripe and your arguments are about as watertight as a colander, which is a shame because many of the initial points you make I find myself having some sympathy with... And then we get to the bit where you quote your source, and then start on the politics and sounding off and rather than add weight to what you say, it detracts from it immeasurably and I find I cannot even begin to support what you say.
In my opinion of course. Others may well feel you put together an erudite argument. I would argue you do put up a very spirited defence, and you take criticism far better than many on here. But shouting louder and longer never won any argument. It's by proving the points you make with reliable sources that are not so obviously promoting their own political agenda, (that just so happens to fit in with yours) which proves your point. It is by quoting sources other than two newspapers which are a laughing stock because of their known political allegiances and blatant right wing bias.
I did used to like your threads Mr K, and I will defend your right to have your say but your continual promotion of your right wing views on EVERY argument, does not add weight to your points, but wholly detracts from them. It shows a lack of balance, a lack of foresight and a lack of acceptance and, crucially, understanding of the whole issue. Things are NEVER as black and white as you see them.
That's a shame because you put up such a good honest, defence of your posts and I think you do have a lot of good things to say about many of these subjects, but I am afraid they get somewhat lost in the politically driven nonsense that the threads tend to descend into and with your refusal to concede that anyone else may have a counter point of view that has equal weight, if not more so, and is backed up with that crucial thing called evidence which is not solely politically motivated. It is that which people rally behind, not the beards and sandals of liberalism.

Oh but I do Res.....it's called the " Tory party ".
As for everything else you say, fair points but....most of what I say on here is said very much " tongue in cheek ", and it is sooooooooooo funny that the same people every time take that dangling carrott.
What makes me laugh so much is the people that do not read " the Sun, or the Mail ", use other alternative arguements, a lot have no substance either.
May I also remind you, that whilst people laugh at those " rags ", it just goes to show peoples thoughts as nearly 6 million people read them everyday.
Compare that to the " others ", and I rest my case. Or are others on here laughing at 6 million peoples views? For to buy those papers, means you have certain views...does it not?
I like your comments Res, I really do but....because you have an opinion does not always make you right either....my opinion. wink
But Mr K, I've never said I am right. I am happy to state what I do and let other people make their mind up, rather than expect them to agree with me. I present my arguments and then defend them if necessary and try to find evidence to support them. Just as you do. I fully expect people to disagree with me. I'd be disappointed if that was not the case.
6m people is 10% of the population. Hardly a majority vote. According to some papers there's more asylum seekers here than that. Certainly more single mums leeching the system. ;-) (Just kidding!)
I've just posted on another thread I am frequently wrong. I am happy to admit it when that is the case. So when you do prove me wrong, I'll happily grovel at the altar of the almighty Kenty! ;-)
As for an alternative being the Tory party, what have they suggested so different to anyone else? I am not being facetious here... I honestly don't know. Is there some vital piece of information we are missing that they know about? Or is it just the usual empty promises politicians make in opposition that can never bear fruit when in power? I can't say I've read anything from any party that has struck me as being the "answer" to anything. All I hear is empty rhetoric, gesturing and point scoring. Politics of saying rather than doing. Everyone is as guilty of it, not just the tories or labour.
The problem with politics for me at the minute is that I don't see ANY viable alternative. Which is hugely disappointing.
As for arguments lacking substance. I would prefer research and statistics collated by an independent body with no political allegiance, over the ramblings in the latest edition of the Daily Tory / Daily Labour. That to me carries more weight than anything that has political bias. So we'll have to disagree on that.
Oh and just one other thing, get in touch with the Conservative party. I am sure your tenacity and belief in the party would be a huge plus when it comes to the General election!
*sigh*
You just don't get it do you Kent? And do you know what? I don't think you ever will. Not if you can ignore all the straight talking Res just put forward and carry on regardless. Had that been written to me, I would have taken some time to reflect. Pondered my thinking. Explored the reasons why I thought the way I did.
But no. You'll just continue to ignore posts which contradict your view as it suits (I asked you a question a page or so ago, btw. You may not have noticed it. You may have chosen to ignore it.) and cherry pick from the scandal rags.
Six million people read them, do they? Let's just hope they're not all gullible enough to believe them then. Have a proper look at an article in the Sun at some point, and disect it. See for yourself how much of it is reporting compared to conjecture, scaremongering, and opinion.
I'd love to know what the readership would look like without token collects for holidays, and free Alton Towers tickets.
As for your admitting to being a troll- that's your choice. But as one of the people who occasionally take the carrott I'd like to reassure you that it's not because you get under my skin- you don't.
It's just that many moons ago, I took on a bet about educating pork.
Oh Res......you are sooooooooo funny. wink
As this is not a political party thread, I will digress. redface
It is always lovely to chat with a man that has humour, and has good arguementative skills.
I have said and will say again, you ARE the best thing that has happened to this forum in a very long time.....I take my hat off to you, and even though our views differ, I could never imagine falling out with you, as you argue with logic and skill. :wink:
And before I forget
wave
Guess who was a pregnant teen under Thatcher...
I just cannot think. :shock:
Obviously your opinion is right then? As you are obviously quick to ram yours down my throat. wink
I think your comments about those papers especially the Sun, most of it's readership would find your views quite offensive.
The ammount of times on here that the Sun readership, has almost been tarnished with the " thick " stick. Well some might be, but to insinuate, that people buy it for 2 free tickets " is quite frankly laughable. lol
For your information...it's readership has changed Governments, that is what Tony Blair said when he first got into office. They will change this Government too.
Now where is that carrott? :wink:
Quote by kentswingers777
I just cannot think. :shock: Who said that? Where? Because I know it wasn't me.

Obviously your opinion is right then? As you are obviously quick to ram yours down my throat. wink
Actually, if you read what I wrote above, and a few pages ago, you'll see that I haven't. What I've done it countered your arguments, and asked that you clarified some things. I would genuinely be interested in your response to my post about the destruction of sexual norms.

I think your comments about those papers especially the Sun, most of it's readership would find your views quite offensive. The comment that it's full of conjecture, and little reporting? I didn't say anything I wouldn't repeat & defend amongst a pup full of Sun readers- with a copy of it in my hand to disect line by line.
The ammount of times on here that the Sun readership, has almost been tarnished with the " thick " stick. Well some might be, but to insinuate, that people buy it for 2 free tickets " is quite frankly laughable. lol
Ahem- sorry, but on that, you're very wrong. I know three people alone who are currently buying it for tokens, and tokens alone. When our kids were pre school, we used to buy it for the tokens ourselves. I belong to a forum where people post about such offers, and many, many people post back to say they'll go & buy the paper. There are several threads running about the holiday offer.
It's a promotion. They wouldn't do it if it didn't pay.
For your information...it's readership has changed Governments, that is what Tony Blair said when he first got into office. They will change this Government too.
Tony Blair is a muppet. If the government changes this time around, it may just be because of other things.
Now where is that carrott? I'm using it to stuff a pork joint. :wink:
Quote by Witchy
I just cannot think. :shock: Who said that? Where? Because I know it wasn't me.

Obviously your opinion is right then? As you are obviously quick to ram yours down my throat. wink
Actually, if you read what I wrote above, and a few pages ago, you'll see that I haven't. What I've done it countered your arguments, and asked that you clarified some things. I would genuinely be interested in your response to my post about the destruction of sexual norms.

I think your comments about those papers especially the Sun, most of it's readership would find your views quite offensive. The comment that it's full of conjecture, and little reporting? I didn't say anything I wouldn't repeat & defend amongst a pup full of Sun readers- with a copy of it in my hand to disect line by line.
The ammount of times on here that the Sun readership, has almost been tarnished with the " thick " stick. Well some might be, but to insinuate, that people buy it for 2 free tickets " is quite frankly laughable. lol
Ahem- sorry, but on that, you're very wrong. I know three people alone who are currently buying it for tokens, and tokens alone. When our kids were pre school, we used to buy it for the tokens ourselves. I belong to a forum where people post about such offers, and many, many people post back to say they'll go & buy the paper. There are several threads running about the holiday offer.
It's a promotion. They wouldn't do it if it didn't pay.
For your information...it's readership has changed Governments, that is what Tony Blair said when he first got into office. They will change this Government too.
Tony Blair is a muppet. If the government changes this time around, it may just be because of other things.
Now where is that carrott? I'm using it to stuff a pork joint. :wink:

Watch it don't bite!!! :P
Given it's lack of struggle, I'd say it's beyond biting.
I'll leave it trussed up on a low heat overnight, stewing in it's own juices. In the meantime, I'll be sleeping.
Quote by Witchy
*sigh*
You just don't get it do you Kent? And do you know what? I don't think you ever will. Not if you can ignore all the straight talking Res just put forward and carry on regardless. Had that been written to me, I would have taken some time to reflect. Pondered my thinking. Explored the reasons why I thought the way I did.
But no. You'll just continue to ignore posts which contradict your view as it suits (I asked you a question a page or so ago, btw. You may not have noticed it. You may have chosen to ignore it.) and cherry pick from the scandal rags.
.

Not just Res tho Witchy, I've been pretty straight forward from the onset of this (and other) thread. I've posed questions and looked at all angles AND even agreed a question he posed.
I seriously pointed out that I don't think any of the posts are read in depth because they are tainted by a personal viewpoint that 'just will not budge' smile
I completely agree with you Witchy on the 'pondering' - I have often had my thinking challenged and you know what? I love it, I think it makes me a better person when I've been nudged into looking at things differently, it opens my eyes.
Some people's eyes, unfortunately will remain firmly shut or maybe just shut on the 'right' side wink
Quote by kentswingers777
I just cannot think. :shock:
Obviously your opinion is right then? As you are obviously quick to ram yours down my throat. wink

But isn't that what you do Kent?? you 'appear' to always be right and refuse to at least look at others' point of view.
Everyone's entitled to their opinion, it's just a shame sometimes people take their opinions and say 'open wide' and ram them down others' god dam throats.
And for the record, I have not seen Witchy do that to you in any way, shape or form on this thread... she's asked you questions and challenged your thinking, debated... nothing else.
Quote by Witchy
And before I forget
wave
Guess who was a pregnant teen under Thatcher...

redface
Well some might be, but to insinuate, that people buy it for 2 free tickets " is quite frankly laughable.

Ermmmm . . . nope. lol I buy it twice a year for a fortnight, cos it gets us holidays down Glastonbury way last year, Norfolk and Scotland the year before that, and we're waiting to see where we're going this year. smile
As for headlines like pregancies 'rocket under New Labour, they're not the only paper using words like that to be fair, but it's hardly accurate. Even the Guardian said they'd soared but last time I went to school and did GCE maths, a mere 6.4% rise over one year from % of the under-16 population to % of the population hardly constitutes a rocket. Neither does the mere 2.4% rise in pregnancies from % to % of the under-18 population. Without further evidence that it's part a prolonged upward trend, all you can say is it seems to be a blip in a generally downward trend.
It's probably worth noting that the trend over the last 20 odd years had been surely and steadily upwards, so this Labour government you so disparage is the first government in decades that has actually presided over any kind of downward trend at all, which strongly suggests that they are doing something right.
As for what the Tory party is going to do about the problem, I can find nothing but the following statement from the Conservative Party website:

As a statement from a shadow minister it's about the most meaningless piece of waffle going. What exactly does it mean, and what are they going to do about it? dunno
Neil x x x ;)
Quote by kentswingers777
Well some might be, but to insinuate, that people buy it for 2 free tickets " is quite frankly laughable. lol

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Start laughing Kenty... only I don't buy it... I steal the page out of someone else's because I couldn't bear to part with my cash to buy such a rag! :mrgreen:
Alton Towers... here I come!!! :giggle: