Why do wives lose interest

Mrs was so exciting and experimental - then kids arrived .

But lo & behold she got her mojo back when the kids were in teens.

But hey - she's gone away from the life style again now she's a grandma

What's one s'posed to do ?

Keep on trying!

We used to be the same , but our sex life became mundane and very predictable . Bit of kissing , licking her neck, moving down to her bust . feeling her tits , stroking her nipples getting them erect , start sucking and nibbling them getting them hard . Then moving my fingers slowly down over her lower body . Teasing her belly button, then moving my fingers down to her labia lips. The slipping fingers between her labia lips teasing her clit .then moving my fingers to her cunt hole . Working two fingers inside her cunt hole finding her G spot . Slowly massaging her clit and G spot making her her telling me to fuck her hard . I normally cum after a few strokes in her cunt .

I eventually persuaded her she needed a bigger endowed guy to fuck her . After many years and lots of experiments, using Superior size black dildos , interracial porn films , black guys with superior cocks fucking white women . The films would make her masturbate watching them .but I was never able to get her to fuck a black guy . This happened many years later, after a party . She has now become a total white whore for black cock and seed taking it deep in her wonton cunt .

Good story, bro.

You have to keep talking, in my experience and us being blokes is not always easy. I am divorced now but it wasn’t the sex it was something else. However, sex became a weapon of control. It was a shame because she was the most sexually compatible. C’est la vie. I now have another partner and the sex is good - when it happens. We do talk and we are able to talk about our sex life. Though she works now and I don’t. Trouble is my libido has gone through the roof and she is totally engrossed in work. The only time we have sex is when she is in the mood. About once every six weeks. 😳. Wanking is ok but it’s not the same. She does understand but we don’t sleep together anymore as she is always working. There isn’t anyone else just work. When we go away we have sex as there are no demands. So I need a way to get her sexually involved and get her destressed. I am going to involve role play and see what happens.

To answer the real question as to why sex of talking, innovation, trying something new, boredom, kids, work, genuine tiredness, lack of interest, not feeling special, take your pick. So we have to keep on top of our game and our part despite all the stuff that affects us. Show them they are special …. Oh and suck her pussy when she is tired without any reciprocation. She will love you for that and you do get paid back. I wank while I do it and she loves watching me wank. So that works. Also I take advantage of her when I am really horny and we haven’t had sex for a couple of months. I just take her … she adores a surprise doggy, despite the fight and resistance. So when I am really horny I will surprise her, pull down her leggings bend her over and bury my face in her pussy and then take her … she protests but soon gets wet and I cum quick, which is the key. They all love to be taken get fucked and get a pussy full of cum. It’s nature. There are many failures but the small successes are amazing and she loves it. All ladies are different… and in the quest for a good fuck innovation is required and knowing your lady and being prepared for failure and don’t get upset. The objective is always giving her your load. My partner adores me cumming on her arsehole with my bellend pressed against it. She never asks and denies she likes it but she always cums. Partnerships are constantly shifting, tune in don’t get upset, and always try something new … persevere. I haven’t tried the black cock thing because I don’t want to just watch. It works for some but not me. Don’t get me wrong watching is the most sexiest thing ever but I want some as well.

If your wife goes off sex there is an old saying " any port in a storm" Lol

After many years of being a hypnotherapist I think the two main reasons for losing interest are linked and easily fixed. Lots of women over time develop a poor body image which leads to a lack self confidence.

That is a really good point and one that should not be out of our reach to rectify 👍😎

Why do you think I let her believe it’s all her doing. It’s the way she has thought from when I first met her, surprised she had admitted by my acquiescence uncertain then how I might react as she’d been in a loving relationship before that had come to an end because of it. I knew then she’d never change so it was like it or leave it for me although she’d never counted how erotic and safe it would feel to have me present or how other men would react so positively to fucking and sharing another man’s partner and later wife with her partner and husband. Men want to fuck other men’s wives, it’s as simple as that and they don’t much care who’s fucking her with them.

👍…….. I totally agree with that, men do want to fuck other guys wives. I also think that men just want to fuck women! I do wonder what it would be like if women ‘just wanted to fuck men’. It seems to me that women have a different view. (Of course that is a generalisation as this subject is not straight forward ) perhaps forestcpl might have a view?

just love her and under stand it happens

In my view, for what little it means, it’s what works between couples. We all change as we get older and coping with change is not easy but it can also be very freeing and even bring people closer. That’s about as ‘profoundish’ a statement as I will ever make. With happiness the key👍.

When my current partner and I met there was a lot to take in. We started swinging and watching her get fucked by others made me jealous and then I liked it and found that how I felt about her didn’t change. It was about sharing different experiences. Alas that stopped years ago and I miss it and sex is diminishing and I wish it would come back. So make of that what you will. During all that my feelings for her never changed as we were both happy. More so then than now … for me !