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Quote by Theladyisaminx
The system is set up to help those who are truely in need. There will always be the free loaders and scroungers who do take the piss, making a mockery of the system.

Like George Best with his liver transplant and others who won't give up smoking.
If that is their choice of lifestyle, they should suffer the consequences of it.
I don't see why the tax paying public should fund "lost causes" when there are so many deserving cases missing out.
I am sorry but your comments here have offended me, my dad worked all the hours asked and paid his taxes, working at least 60-70hrs a week to provide for his family, he was a smoker and at 63 had to retire due to ill health, smoke related agreed, he is now 72 and may not have long left in this world.
For 47 years of hard work, because he smoked you would deny him his right to hospital treatment, which without he would not be here now, and would have suffered a great deal more.
Minx .... A lot of the time that your Dad was smoking there was not the knowledge of the problems or later the support to help people stop this addiction.
However, nowadays people who smoke are fully aware of the dangers and there is plenty of help available to those that want to quit.
Anybody smoking today is making a very conscious decision to cause themselves health problems in the future and I certainly think that they should be at the bottom of the list when it comes to scarce health care.
I`m not saying that they should be denied care if it is available but if there is a waiting list, those that have made a conscious decision to cause themselves harm shouldn`t take priority.
So would drinkers come under the same terms?
Would they go at the bottom of the pile too?
Something to bear in mind my Dad might cost the NHS some money, but will save around £49,500 in the pensions department by cutting short his life expectance by around 10 years.
I think that's the reason the NHS is in the financial problems it is just now minxy...
In 1948 when the NHS was formed, life expectancy was nothing like what it is now (maybe because the NHS has done such a good job). I doubt that Aneurin "Nye" Bevan ever envisaged a need for treatment profiling then but, regrettably, it certainly is a reality now.
The savings to which you refer are a mere drop in the ocean and won't even cover the Health Minister's second home allowance, let alone his bar bill in the Palace of Westminster.
Quote by GnV
The system is set up to help those who are truely in need. There will always be the free loaders and scroungers who do take the piss, making a mockery of the system.

Like George Best with his liver transplant and others who won't give up smoking.
If that is their choice of lifestyle, they should suffer the consequences of it.
I don't see why the tax paying public should fund "lost causes" when there are so many deserving cases missing out.
I am sorry but your comments here have offended me, my dad worked all the hours asked and paid his taxes, working at least 60-70hrs a week to provide for his family, he was a smoker and at 63 had to retire due to ill health, smoke related agreed, he is now 72 and may not have long left in this world.
For 47 years of hard work, because he smoked you would deny him his right to hospital treatment, which without he would not be here now, and would have suffered a great deal more.
Minx .... A lot of the time that your Dad was smoking there was not the knowledge of the problems or later the support to help people stop this addiction.
However, nowadays people who smoke are fully aware of the dangers and there is plenty of help available to those that want to quit.
Anybody smoking today is making a very conscious decision to cause themselves health problems in the future and I certainly think that they should be at the bottom of the list when it comes to scarce health care.
I`m not saying that they should be denied care if it is available but if there is a waiting list, those that have made a conscious decision to cause themselves harm shouldn`t take priority.
So would drinkers come under the same terms?
Would they go at the bottom of the pile too?
Something to bear in mind my Dad might cost the NHS some money, but will save around £49,500 in the pensions department by cutting short his life expectance by around 10 years.
I think that's the reason the NHS is in the financial problems it is just now minxy...
In 1948 when the NHS was formed, life expectancy was nothing like what it is now (maybe because the NHS has done such a good job). I doubt that Aneurin "Nye" Bevan ever envisaged a need for treatment profiling then but, regrettably, it certainly is a reality now.
The savings to which you refer are a mere drop in the ocean and won't even cover the Health Minister's second home allowance, let alone his bar bill in the Palace of Westminster.
But the saving of the pension I refered to goes someway in paying if not paying the medical bill, not to mention the amount of duty paid on cigarettes he has paid, and not forgetting the contibtions my father has paid in all those years he has worked.
so to go back to you earlier statement should he be on the bottom of the pile being he was a smoker?
As I feel in one way or other he has covered his own cost of the treatment he now has.
Minxy you are quite correct.
It is a fact that the amount of revenue smokers make into the " system " far outweighs what a smoker takes out of it.
I remember seeing some figures on this ages ago and will try and find them or something similar.
For every packet of fags I buy at 5 quid a pack, something like £ is tax.
As a smoker I more than help to contribute to the " system " as a whole.
With all the bad press and all that we know is bad about smoking, why do you think the Government do not ban the sale of them? The ammount of money it takes from smokers, pure and simple.
So before some start bleating on about smokers should not be treated, take a long hard look at how much money smokers pay in tax!
IF smoking causes everything from bad health to putting a huge strain on the NHS, to smokers being the root of all evil....then ban the bloody things. But they won't though will they?.....I wonder why that is?
Sorry minx and kent but the "I've paid my stamp (and the duty on my fags/booze) so I can continue to be high priority on the NHS for transplants and other such surgical procedures no matter what it costs" doesn't cut it with me I'm afraid.
As for the other treatments and care in the NHS to manage his condition, there is no doubt about his continuing eligibility in my mind.
You can throw as much money as you like at the NHS and it will be be swallowed up with incredible speed with disproportionate benefits. It has to be a balancing act. I'm not saying its perfect, but there has to be some profiling in order to make the thin resources stretch further.
In Edit:
Please don't conclude from my comments that I have no compassion for anyone who falls ill (in whatever circumstances). I am a passionate believer in the NHS and will defend its aims to the end. However, I worked in the NHS for a number of years managing scarce resources as well as seeing first hand the misery that ill-health brings to patients, carers and relatives alike. Its a poison chalice for whatever Government is in place.
At best, politicians - no matter what their affiliations - can do no more than be better at spewing out the rhetoric but the reality is that, even with double the resources available now there will be very little, if any, change to the basic concept of a need for profiling in order to extract the last ounce of care from limited - but perceived limitless - resources.
I understand what you are saying GNV.
The problems of the NHS are vast. From it's heady days from conception it WAS the envy of the world, but I feel it is not anymore.
There are many reasons for this, but the principles of the NHS are still there. You cannot possibly compare the NHS in the 50's to now ( not saying that you are btw ), where people are living far longer, illnesses that were not treatable 30 years ago are now.
The massive burden put on it from hundreds of thousands to possibly millions, who use the NHS who have never contributed a penny. In the 50's how many people were living in these green and pleasant lands? Now how many have we " let in " over the last 15 years? A million? Two million? Three million? The truth is nobody knows for sure. They only know the " official " figures.
That has put a huge strain on the NHS as well as every other public service that is now struggling for money to run itself properly.
The hard truths are people like this slob at the start of your thread should NOT be given this treatment....period.
Cosmetic surgery should NOT be done at the NHS's expense, unless it is a medical condition, and not because some 16 year old girl wants bigger tits, and by not having them is making her.....whatever she wants. If somebody needs it for burns or anything else like that then for sure they should get it, no questions asked but....why the heck should money and surgeons time be wasted on people that you mentioned at the start?
The old addage " bottomless pit " sums up the NHS to a tee. It would ( if we allowed )swallow up virtually all of our resources if we let it.
But I still think it is a wonderful institution, and will be around long after my death but....to survive it will have to change. But then is change not what we all crave for if it is for the better?
Interestingly, the French system is well regarded and may well have surpassed the NHS in its capabilities.
But like the NHS, the French system is under immense pressure too.
You have to pay to see a Doctor, Dentist or Optician here. There is a standard scale fee for each aspect of health care and every procedure.
If you are in the French tax system, you get back what you pay according to a scale with the balance being paid either by top-up insurance or by your employers social charges.
Its not quite that simple but to explain it more fully would be a lifetime's work - even the French don't always understand it!
But the basic principle is this, life threatening stuff gets deal with right away and at no cost other than "hotel" services. The rest is charged for according to a scale and you have to be in the tax system or have insurance to cover you for it.
For example, a non life threatening surgical procedure might cost 20,000€ On the scale of charges set by the Government, the patient may be reimbursed only 35% of it but according to their policy and how much they or their employer pays - may cover some or all of the remainder.
Employers and employees still pay health tax on top of that (in a complex variety of ways).
But the basic bottom line is (which kent will agree to I'm sure) if you don't pay tax or have other means to pay, French healthcare is not available to you.
Two points.
First, the NHS hemorrhages cash at an unbelievable rate because it is an poorly-managed dinosaur. I will give you an example. The NHS has a stock catalogue which managers have to order from. It contains almost every item you can imagine, including office furniture. The office I work in needed new chairs so they were duly ordered from said catalogue. When they arrived one of my co-workers exclaimed that they looked exactly like the chair she had bought recently from Argos. She brought in her chair from home and we did a side-by-side comparison and the only difference we could find ......... the 500% price hike! :shock:
If we did away with this unnecessary expense we could afford to spend more time with people helping them to change their habits and we'd force companies that provide NHS equipment to become more competitive, rather than seeing state-owned services as a cash cow that needs milking as often as possible. evil
But I digress....
Back to the OP.
The solution is simple. If she wants to stay slim use more energy. That way she can still enjoy the crisps and chocolate, but will be burning the calories off. Now make it part of a care plan for the surgery that she has to attend some form of activity, perhaps some form of physical voluntary work. There is also a strong link with exercise and reduced levels of depression, so it's a double whammy. ;)
By the end of a day she should be too tired to watch 7 hours of TV, but will be slimmer, happier and hopefully a productive member of society, rather than a drain.
Quote by easy
First, the NHS hemorrhages cash at an unbelievable rate because it is an poorly-managed dinosaur. I will give you an example. The NHS has a stock catalogue which managers have to order from. It contains almost every item you can imagine, including office furniture. The office I work in needed new chairs so they were duly ordered from said catalogue. When they arrived one of my co-workers exclaimed that they looked exactly like the chair she had bought recently from Argos. She brought in her chair from home and we did a side-by-side comparison and the only difference we could find ......... the 500% price hike! :shock:

I wonder which Ministers (or "friends of Ministers") are on the board of Argus and the like - or am I being far too cynical for my own good?
I very much think the same can be said about drugs supplied to the NHS. There must be generic alternatives around which cost far less and have exactly the same effect of the top branded name ones.
Someone is really creaming things off here.. :shock:
It has been revealed today that 45000 yes that's 45000 NHS staff are off sick everyday of the week.
That is one and a half times the national average.
The NHS is a wonderful institution but.....with that ammount of staff off " sick " every day, no wonder you wait 3 months for an appointment.
That is a disgusting ammount of people on any one given day. Most firms would struggle to survive with that ammount of a percenatage off everyday but the NHS is funded by the taxpayer so they get away with it.
Put them on SSP and have to do the "3 waiting days" before any money gets paid and see how many days they have off then.
If your figures are correct Kenty, then that is an appalling amount of time being wasted.
I had to go into hospital Monday, time taken off work etc. so duly arrived at my alloted time, waited 90 minutes only to be told "your surgeon is not in this week and Admin have made a cock up...please fill in this form to complain and a new appointment will be made for you"
Quote by Rogue_trader
Put them on SSP and have to do the "3 waiting days" before any money gets paid and see how many days they have off then.
If your figures are correct Kenty, then that is an appalling amount of time being wasted.
I had to go into hospital Monday, time taken off work etc. so duly arrived at my alloted time, waited 90 minutes only to be told "your surgeon is not in this week and Admin have made a cock up...please fill in this form to complain and a new appointment will be made for you"

It has been plastered over the news today.

So 45000 people off sick EVERY day so that's 16,020,00 working days lost per year.
That is a national scandal for a vocation that is there for the health and well being of the general public.
As has been said already....I believe the first three days should not be paid period. That will stop a lot of the sickies that always seem to happen on a Friday or a Monday. Nothing to do with wanting a long weekend?
The freedom of information act is a new wonderful thing, that can tell us all sorts of things about a lot of these shirkers.
Quote by kentswingers777
Put them on SSP and have to do the "3 waiting days" before any money gets paid and see how many days they have off then.
If your figures are correct Kenty, then that is an appalling amount of time being wasted.
I had to go into hospital Monday, time taken off work etc. so duly arrived at my alloted time, waited 90 minutes only to be told "your surgeon is not in this week and Admin have made a cock up...please fill in this form to complain and a new appointment will be made for you"

It has been plastered over the news today.

So 45000 people off sick EVERY day so that's 16,020,00 working days lost per year.
That is a national scandal for a vocation that is there for the health and well being of the general public.
As has been said already....I believe the first three days should not be paid period. That will stop a lot of the sickies that always seem to happen on a Friday or a Monday. Nothing to do with wanting a long weekend?
The freedom of information act is a new wonderful thing, that can tell us all sorts of things about a lot of these shirkers.
But, I don't suppose for one minute you have considered the way these statistics have been manipulated and who for!
Front line Health Service staff - Doctors and Nurses in Casualty, Ambulance Staff and the like have a higher than average sickness rate for very valid reasons - they get assaulted regularly by "grateful" members of the public, so shit faced they don't even know what day of the week it is. Then there are nurses who hurt their back lifting patients in urgent situations when to wait for assistance would be regarded as them being somewhat uncaring.. the list goes on.
However, by your account Rogue, insult should now be added to injury by making them pay for the first three days off themselves!
I'm sorry you missed your appointment Monday, but further digging may reveal that it was nothing to do with sickness levels and your rant about the very dedicated staff in the NHS may leave a lingering bad taste which will be much deserved.
When i heard the health stat publicised I did wonder who had developed the statistic and for what purpose. I wondered who the "other" workers were. I also wondered if the NHS has any special rules bearing in mind you wouldnt want your health care and hospital staff giving illnesses to the vulnerable.
Save me the bother folks, enlighten me.
Quote by GnV
Put them on SSP and have to do the "3 waiting days" before any money gets paid and see how many days they have off then.
If your figures are correct Kenty, then that is an appalling amount of time being wasted.
I had to go into hospital Monday, time taken off work etc. so duly arrived at my alloted time, waited 90 minutes only to be told "your surgeon is not in this week and Admin have made a cock up...please fill in this form to complain and a new appointment will be made for you"

It has been plastered over the news today.

So 45000 people off sick EVERY day so that's 16,020,00 working days lost per year.
That is a national scandal for a vocation that is there for the health and well being of the general public.
As has been said already....I believe the first three days should not be paid period. That will stop a lot of the sickies that always seem to happen on a Friday or a Monday. Nothing to do with wanting a long weekend?
The freedom of information act is a new wonderful thing, that can tell us all sorts of things about a lot of these shirkers.
But, I don't suppose for one minute you have considered the way these statistics have been manipulated and who for!
Front line Health Service staff - Doctors and Nurses in Casualty, Ambulance Staff and the like have a higher than average sickness rate for very valid reasons - they get assaulted regularly by "grateful" members of the public, so shit faced they don't even know what day of the week it is. Then there are nurses who hurt their back lifting patients in urgent situations when to wait for assistance would be regarded as them being somewhat uncaring.. the list goes on.
However, by your account Rogue, insult should now be added to injury by making them pay for the first three days off themselves!
I'm sorry you missed your appointment Monday, but further digging may reveal that it was nothing to do with sickness levels and your rant about the very dedicated staff in the NHS may leave a lingering bad taste which will be much deserved.
You didnt actually read my post did you? I didnt rant, there was no menace in my post or venting of steam. I just suggested that if those figures were correct, which I doubt, then it was appalling.
The majority of workers in this country get the first 3 days sick unpaid, why should health workers be any different? It was a suggestion to stem the tide of bogus sick days.
I didnt have to dig to find out why the appointment was double booked, it was an admin error. Someone had forgotten the surgeon was on leave. Not the surgeons fault, but admin.
Quote by GnV
Put them on SSP and have to do the "3 waiting days" before any money gets paid and see how many days they have off then.
If your figures are correct Kenty, then that is an appalling amount of time being wasted.
I had to go into hospital Monday, time taken off work etc. so duly arrived at my alloted time, waited 90 minutes only to be told "your surgeon is not in this week and Admin have made a cock up...please fill in this form to complain and a new appointment will be made for you"

It has been plastered over the news today.

So 45000 people off sick EVERY day so that's 16,020,00 working days lost per year.
That is a national scandal for a vocation that is there for the health and well being of the general public.
As has been said already....I believe the first three days should not be paid period. That will stop a lot of the sickies that always seem to happen on a Friday or a Monday. Nothing to do with wanting a long weekend?
The freedom of information act is a new wonderful thing, that can tell us all sorts of things about a lot of these shirkers.
But, I don't suppose for one minute you have considered the way these statistics have been manipulated and who for!
Front line Health Service staff - Doctors and Nurses in Casualty, Ambulance Staff and the like have a higher than average sickness rate for very valid reasons - they get assaulted regularly by "grateful" members of the public, so shit faced they don't even know what day of the week it is. Then there are nurses who hurt their back lifting patients in urgent situations when to wait for assistance would be regarded as them being somewhat uncaring.. the list goes on.
However, by your account Rogue, insult should now be added to injury by making them pay for the first three days off themselves!
I'm sorry you missed your appointment Monday, but further digging may reveal that it was nothing to do with sickness levels and your rant about the very dedicated staff in the NHS may leave a lingering bad taste which will be much deserved.
Does this survey state that the NHS employs over million people...45,000 is alot but there not all doctors and nurses and its still less than 5% of the employment...and as for docking their wages for the first three days thats a very bad idea,this will make people work when they are ill,and that could cause even bigger problems!
Quote by Rogue_trader
Put them on SSP and have to do the "3 waiting days" before any money gets paid and see how many days they have off then.
If your figures are correct Kenty, then that is an appalling amount of time being wasted.
I had to go into hospital Monday, time taken off work etc. so duly arrived at my alloted time, waited 90 minutes only to be told "your surgeon is not in this week and Admin have made a cock up...please fill in this form to complain and a new appointment will be made for you"

It has been plastered over the news today.

So 45000 people off sick EVERY day so that's 16,020,00 working days lost per year.
That is a national scandal for a vocation that is there for the health and well being of the general public.
As has been said already....I believe the first three days should not be paid period. That will stop a lot of the sickies that always seem to happen on a Friday or a Monday. Nothing to do with wanting a long weekend?
The freedom of information act is a new wonderful thing, that can tell us all sorts of things about a lot of these shirkers.
But, I don't suppose for one minute you have considered the way these statistics have been manipulated and who for!
Front line Health Service staff - Doctors and Nurses in Casualty, Ambulance Staff and the like have a higher than average sickness rate for very valid reasons - they get assaulted regularly by "grateful" members of the public, so shit faced they don't even know what day of the week it is. Then there are nurses who hurt their back lifting patients in urgent situations when to wait for assistance would be regarded as them being somewhat uncaring.. the list goes on.
However, by your account Rogue, insult should now be added to injury by making them pay for the first three days off themselves!
I'm sorry you missed your appointment Monday, but further digging may reveal that it was nothing to do with sickness levels and your rant about the very dedicated staff in the NHS may leave a lingering bad taste which will be much deserved.
You didnt actually read my post did you?
I read it very carefully and made a measured response
I didnt rant, there was no menace in my post or venting of steam. I just suggested that if those figures were correct, which I doubt, then it was appalling.
So please explain why you said that NHS workers should not be paid for the first 3 days of sickness?
The majority of workers in this country get the first 3 days sick unpaid, why should health workers be any different? It was a suggestion to stem the tide of bogus sick days.
Many employers pay OSP. If there is ever any doubt about the genuineness of the absence, it (and SSP for that matter) can be withheld.
I didnt have to dig to find out why the appointment was double booked, it was an admin error. Someone had forgotten the surgeon was on leave. Not the surgeons fault, but admin.
Yes, you said that but then not with the same detail as now so why add this to your post about sickness levels in the NHS as if it had a significance?
Quote by Mr-Powers
Does this survey state that the NHS employs over million people...45,000 is alot but there not all doctors and nurses and its still less than 5% of the employment...and as for docking their wages for the first three days thats a very bad idea,this will make people work when they are ill,and that could cause even bigger problems!

That's a very valid point Powers. The NHS is still the largest employer in the UK I think and the majority of staff are extremely focused and don't deserve to be treated badly by the press.
Their masters in the Government though, well - that's a different can of worms altogether evil
Quote by GnV
I read it very carefully and made a measured response

your rant about the very dedicated staff in the NHS may leave a lingering bad taste which will be much deserved.

Again I suggest that there was no rant. So how you assume what I said "may leave a lingering and bad taste which will be much deserved" leaves me somewhat confused.
My suggestion of the 3 day waiting period, as is the standard in majority of workers, would help in the curtailing of bogus occasional days off.
My addition of the final sentence was anecdotal no more, it was not an addition to the alledged sickness level or alluding to be caused by it and should of been set further down the page of the reply so as not to be associated with it but alas formatting was not my friend tonight.
Quote by Rogue_trader
I read it very carefully and made a measured response

your rant about the very dedicated staff in the NHS may leave a lingering bad taste which will be much deserved.

Again I suggest that there was no rant. So how you assume what I said "may leave a lingering and bad taste which will be much deserved" leaves me somewhat confused.
My suggestion of the 3 day waiting period, as is the standard in majority of workers, would help in the curtailing of bogus occasional days off.
My addition of the final sentence was anecdotal no more, it was not an addition to the alledged sickness level or alluding to be caused by it and should of been set further down the page of the reply so as not to be associated with it but alas formatting was not my friend tonight.
The staff in the NHS need support. They do an extremely good job in difficult circumstances. The report was not well founded and to suggest that NHS workers should be treated in the way described was not helpful. I regarded it as a rant as it was based on supposition not fact.
I agree to differ with your view and I'm glad we have it sorted.
The plain fact is that the " sickies " are one and a half times the national average.
I can only guess as to the reasons, as am not an expert on it. Maybe I am lucky that I have had only one day off sick in thirteen years. Beleive me there were plenty of times I felt like not going in.
I know they do a difficult job, but then again I think I do too. All I was saying is that I find it strange how one section can have more sick days off than the national average.
There surely is a reason for it?
Quote by kentswingers777
The plain fact is that the " sickies " are one and a half times the national average.
I can only guess as to the reasons, as am not an expert on it. Maybe I am lucky that I have had only one day off sick in thirteen years. Beleive me there were plenty of times I felt like not going in.
I know they do a difficult job, but then again I think I do too. All I was saying is that I find it strange how one section can have more sick days off than the national average.
There surely is a reason for it?

Yeah, they get beaten up by "grateful" members of the public for one!
Another reason is that Hospitals are the most unhealthy work places imaginable - full of diseased people :shock:
The hospital dweller's road to recovery is not enhanced by being breathed on by someone full of a cold or flu wink
There is an argument that people who have certain illnesses - some of them fairly trivial - shouldn't go into work. I work in training for a large company. We are a direct line in to the rest of the company. If I am all coughing and dripping and spluttering I don't go in - nor if I have diarrhoea, even if I technically could.
Although in a healthy person they are generally trivial - they could wipe out a department at work for a week.
A front line health worker could kill someone with an otherwise mild illness.
BUT some people do skive. Hating your job isn't a justifcation for skiving and therefore dropping your mates in for more work. That is a reason to change your job.
Being abused, attacked etc is unacceptable and can lead to depression and any stafdf suffereing sucvh things should be helped.
If the staff take a disproportionate amount of time off it is a matter for the immediate and higher management. Good (by that I mean effective not 'kind') management will reduce the amount of sickness through stress or skiving while ensuring ill people don't drag themselves into work and infect everyone.
Kenty - I am impressed with your sickness record - as a business owner I imagine you have a stronger than 'average' drive to attend work.
I work for the money and have no desire to harm myself for the sake of the business that pays my wages. We have a deal - I come and work as per my contract and they pay me as per my contract, but if I'm too ill to work I stay home and get better so I CAN work. having said that the medical support at work - including our own occy health department is excellent.