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Would you be shocked

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Quote by LisaAndTony

It would be a boring world. That first step is a scary one.

That is 100% correct. My wife and I did some serious swinging for about three years over ten years ago now, and maybe one in ten actually worked, we got sick of people asking to go out for a meal first to see if they were comfortable, or inviting us to their homes and then they wanted to talk about anything but why we were there. I saved many situations by just getting naked and once they saw me nude they joined in, but god it was always hard work. The fantasy is never the same as reality, and I believe that for a lot on here it's the fantasy and the pretence that is the big turn on, a lot are just on here to be told how lovely they are, but in the real situation we found the bigest turn off was it was always what they wanted and never any consideration for what we may want. We found couples treated us as their playthings and that's not good. I think all meets should start with an honest and frank talk about what every person involved is looking for and only when everyone is comfortable it's good to go. Does anyone agree or disagree? I'm not talking about anyone on here, as I said this was years ago. Unfortunately, our health has not been good enough to play since we joined here, but I have chatted with some nice people and People have been very kind with their comments and likes of all our pictures and videos.

You are right, everyone needs to enjoy. If someone does not consider everyone, it reduces the enjoyment of everyone.

It does take someone to move things forward. I use to sit there waiting for a signal, they just sat there waiting for a signal. No one made a move.

Swinging is a strange game.