Would you be shocked

Quote by LisaAndTony

It would be a boring world. That first step is a scary one.

That is 100% correct. My wife and I did some serious swinging for about three years over ten years ago now, and maybe one in ten actually worked, we got sick of people asking to go out for a meal first to see if they were comfortable, or inviting us to their homes and then they wanted to talk about anything but why we were there. I saved many situations by just getting naked and once they saw me nude they joined in, but god it was always hard work. The fantasy is never the same as reality, and I believe that for a lot on here it's the fantasy and the pretence that is the big turn on, a lot are just on here to be told how lovely they are, but in the real situation we found the bigest turn off was it was always what they wanted and never any consideration for what we may want. We found couples treated us as their playthings and that's not good. I think all meets should start with an honest and frank talk about what every person involved is looking for and only when everyone is comfortable it's good to go. Does anyone agree or disagree? I'm not talking about anyone on here, as I said this was years ago. Unfortunately, our health has not been good enough to play since we joined here, but I have chatted with some nice people and People have been very kind with their comments and likes of all our pictures and videos.

You are right, everyone needs to enjoy. If someone does not consider everyone, it reduces the enjoyment of everyone.

It does take someone to move things forward. I use to sit there waiting for a signal, they just sat there waiting for a signal. No one made a move.

Swinging is a strange game.

Quote by LisaAndTony

You are right, everyone needs to enjoy. If someone does not consider everyone, it reduces the enjoyment of everyone.

It does take someone to move things forward. I use to sit there waiting for a signal, they just sat there waiting for a signal. No one made a move.

Swinging is a strange game.

Couldn’t agree more. It’s excruciating - like pulling teeth.

I think I'd be happy with just a reply to my messages lol

Quote by Gts

I think I'd be happy with just a reply to my messages lol

Know what you mean mate, being on this site gives you an insight into just what people have become and I have to say I am staggered by the selfishness and the ego's. Not everyone, there are some very nice people but not many, most are, this is what I want, and that's it. it costs nothing to be civil and kind. Bob

I have been on this site a wee while now and also have a verified couples profile.

So let me tell you what couples sometimes get.

A single male, or even a couple who have not read the couples profile, mails them and says lets meet or something along those lines, usually in the case of the male, with an appendage pic or 10 attached.

So being nice kind well mannered folks they reply back "with thanks for your mail but no thanks, you are not what we are looking for"

The single male/couple, now has an answer so do they take it on the chin like adults and walk away with head held high to try another couple?

Some do but there is always the ones that wont take no for an answer, then sends multiple mails along the lines of "Oh but I/we are gods gift and can breathe through my ears etc, you have got to meet me/us"

Do the good mannered couple reply back or do they ignore?

It really doesn't matter what they do as they still get pestered non stop until they end up blocking said male or couple who sees them in chat and pesters them there.

Now I am not suggesting that all single males or indeed some couples are "pests" and cant take no thanks for an answer but it does happen and THAT is the reason why most couples tend to ignore those who don't fit the criteria they are looking for and don't reply.

You forgot the line 'you aren't real' comment the single guys sends then blaming everyone apart from him self

I was contacted by a couple on here, so met them it went on for about 2 year