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31st July - Now a DEFINITE social meet for bi-females ONLY

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Before we get that brush out... Obviously I'm not privy to any PMs that have been sent to you, but how many guys are actually moaning about being excluded from this?

Errrrrm.....ONE.
Steve
It's a name. Who cares if you call it a meeting or a munch or a rosebowl? What does it matter?
Hi Steve
I would have love to have come as being in the SE it is near impossible to meet like minded bi-fems but afraid it is a bit far for me.
Most of the bi-single fems seem to be up north or in couples only looking for bi-fems within another couple, it would have been great to talk openly with other fems.
I am shocked at the reaction your idea has had ...surely this site is about people meeting like minded people , being able to talk openly without any prejudice & having fun if that is what they all want. Does it really matter what you call it ?
It seems to me that the difference between the couples only munch and the bi-fems meet is that a large number of people didn't fancy the idea of a couples only meet.
And judging by some of the responses here it seems like a lot of the bi-fems do feel the need for a get together (notice I didn't use the "M" word). dunno
There was some exception taken to the use of the word "Munch" as well in the "Couples Munch" thread.
As far as I can tell, the powers that be would like to try and keep the word "Munch" trademarked, so to speak, as a non-pressured, club-members (ie regular posters) meet and not allow it to become a generic term for a large get-together.
Right if this is going ahead I'd like to put Mrs easys name down along with her close friend..........errrrr................Easetta. redface lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
BTW, Judy you wouldn't happen to have a pair of shoes in an 8 1/2, pink with a kitten heel would you. biggrin :undecided:
Oh my Giddy Aunt...! :crazy:
Lemme have my say.
A) Of all the guys I've met through SH, Steve is a one of the few men of honour we have around here and he's acting selflessly by suggesting this. Big round of applause, please!
B) Anyone who thinks women don't need heaps of help in approaching each other clearly haven't talked to a bi female properly. Blokes just tremble and change the subject if they aren't interested in an approach from the same sex. Women, on the other hand, are vipers! It's like approaching a praying mantis - will she lunge at my tits or slap me or storm off crying... redface
C) No one is stopping anyone arranging a meeting of single blokes.... or couples... or for that matter. But if you want to get precious about the word 'munch', here's the most accurate definition of the true and orginal meaning "A casual meeting in neutral surroundings for Doms and subs to pair up with each other with a view to future play..." As you can see, the swinging community has well and truly nicked this one.
I'm off for a shag...
Hxx
Quote by Angel Chat
How are bi women supposed to know which other women are bi or curious? We (I think) all have hang-ups about talking about it, even in an open-minded forum such as this. You only need to look at CarrieAnn's thread in the cafe to know that. She came out and asked openly about it. How many of the rest of us have? I know for certain I haven't and I take my metaphorical hat off to CarrieAnn for doing so.
Yes, it's socially acceptable (and positively encouraged by many males) for us women to be bi or curious HERE, but in day to day life it isn't, and I wouldnt feel comfortable talking to (for instance) my work colleagues about it.

Hi,
Just read Steve's initial post and though what a great idea, that's just what I've been looking for then read on to see all the b****ing about it!! What's se7evdriver's problem - that he can't be there to watch?
How ARE bi curious women supposed to meet other bi or curious women then se7ev? Your suggestions will be gratefully received! This subject is so that I don't even want to speak to my sister about it - and yes we are close (but not in that way - just to keep it light hearted, just as it should be!!)
PS Steve - if it does go ahead, count me in. My best mate DB has just said that he will drive me up there, go to the pub for a soft one!!! then pick me up and we can stay somewhere local, and a BIG THANKYOU for the idea.
CarrieAnn xxx
Well if we can get this thread back on track then I'm happy to arrange it. If one of the girls wants to take over the reins and arrange it then that's fine by me, just let me know. For the time being let's just say that it IS going to happen but the finer points still need to be sorted out.
Quote by CarrieAnn
PS Steve - if it does go ahead, count me in. My best mate DB has just said that he will drive me up there, go to the pub for a soft one!!! then pick me up and we can stay somewhere local, and a BIG THANKYOU for the idea.

Once I'm happy that everything is as it should be CarrieAnn then he can expect some company in the pub. Don't get his hopes up though, it will only be me.
Now, if there's still some interest can we please start again and put your names down from here.
Steve
The arrangements for the ffffffmffffff orgy I was trying to organise at my place for the 31st July seem to be changing………..Well_Busty_Babe has offered to take the reins and play the host at her place instead.
I’m a little disappointed that she’s offered to be honest. For some reason the thing seemed to mushroom into a personal challenge and I enjoy a good challenge. :twisted:
Anyhow…..I’m sure Well_Busty_Babe will be along shortly to put you all in the picture so I shall reluctantly hand the thread over to her.
Before I disappear though……I’d just like to thank the people that took the time to make the supportive comments……..it was much appreciated. biggrin
Steve
Quote by steveg_nw
Well_Busty_Babe has offered to take over the reins and play the host at her place instead.

I sure hope people won't be put off by all the chains and locked cells and the carpet of broken sex-toys! :twisted:
i made the offer as i thought it might satisfy some of the critics, however i have no great desire to do it.... so would not be offended in the slightest should people prefer to go ahead with the origional plans.
anyway.. should you wish to come to my shack, you are more than welcome.
i have about 3 weeks to clean up and hide my secrets.... so just let me know what u all want.
luv n stuff
WBB
xxx
Am putting my 10 pennorth in now, have yet to read the other couple of pages.... but i would be interested in being there, i just have to remember where you live, lol!!
Well as much as I'd love to see you WBB it's easier to get to Steveg's......just my own preference....but it depends on what everyone else wants.....
Nah!! I'm sorry. I really am. I've tried not to say this but I'll excuse myself by blaming the 3 Barrels (only good enough for adding to cofffee) and the Frascati. If I offend, no apologies. C and me have always had the the expression "if it's on your chest; get it off now before it becomes a bigger thing than it; so here it is -
I have often wondered how many "Couples seeking bi-females" and "Help us to realise one of 'our' fantasies" are written by the male partner. And how much 'persuasion' there is from the male partner and how much pressure (however sublime) is put on the female parnter. The meet that has been suggested will not only return the "power2 to where it should always be, but will also allow the ladies the luxury of choice that they deserve. IN THEIR OWN RIGHT!!!!
I openly appluade Steve for bringing this to the fore. No matter how the meet/munch/party/get together is eventually organised.
Rant over. I'm off now to enjoy the evening. If you have problems with this thread and the idea of it - :censored:
ok, this seems to have gone a bit quiet
... if it is to go ahead and be at my place i will need an idea of how many peeps want to come, how many of them will want to stay over wink and if we SHOULD make it an ann summers type party.. or maybe just a more sedate wine and chocolate type thing! :twisted:
i am up for whatever the majority want to do.
so any bi fems or bi curious fems.. or fems who are thinking of being bi lol.. just let me know.
you are all welcome
luv n stuff
WBB
Well, i'd like to come, and i'd need to stay!!
I think the ann summers party is a good idea, it would probably be a good way to relax everyone enough to have a laugh, and what fem in her right mind would turn down the opportunity of treating herself to a new toy or some new underwear?? (Or both for that matter!!) We can still have the wine and chocolates, but the theme of it would probably stop conversation running dry!!
Just my thoughts, i dont know whether you agree..................................
Hi WBB,
I would love to come too, although I don't know where you live (perhaps you could PM me and let me know?) and I think an Ann Summers party is a great idea! It's my birthday on the 8th August so I maight just treat myself and add something else to my collection lol :twisted:
I won't need to stay over as DB has offered to bring me and go to the pub, then we can stay somehwere local.
CA xxx
Some of you may also be thinking “Oh, that’s a good idea but I don’t fancy going because somebody in the café said that most single guys live in a grubby little bedsit with unhygienic toilets”. Well this one doesn’t and there are plenty of people on here that will confirm it.

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
boy wish i could come!.....jump jump!.......hold on look at my calander!......................o nooo!
I AM ON HOLIDAY!............................story of me life!....debbiewebs goes off in to a corner and weeps! :upset:
ooooooooooooo shit!...not ment to be in here :doh: mr d go mad ! HELP
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hiya
im deff coming in more ways than one i hope smile
cya soon jo xx
Hi
well i would personally like to thank steveg for surporting us bi-fems. I would love to come but yet again living is the se goes against me as it is a bit to far to come.
I hope all you lovely ladies have a fantastic time (gutted that i'm going to miss out)
Well wot ever it is i'm game lol....(hmmmm wondering now if i should have just made that comment HeHeHe) Only one BIG problem....i can either get there via Barbie in-line skates...or a nice pink scooooter lmao.
Damn Steve...No pets....oh my baby's wont be very happy and neither will hubby when they bark all night for me lol.
Tupperware !!!! noooooo Betterware hun...much better biggrin
Oh...and i dont drink red wine...it'll be Bailey's all over ya carpet hun :twisted:
^Tigger^ xxx
PS. This would all depend on A. A lift and B. Dates
Just for the record (there may have been some confusion after all the side issues lol) I will be attending - assuming I can find a sitter for my kids rolleyes
what i need to know peeps want it to be an ann summers typ thing? if so i will need to book it with a rep.... let me know if u can.
oooh i am getting all excited now!
Steve has got a great ornament on his fire surround if anyone can steal it for me I'd be obliged as I cant make the 31st cos I'm on nights and if Steve knew I was going to his house again he'd just hide it.... If a sexy fem manages to aquire it I'll make sure they get rewarded lol and dont even think of buying a cheap imitation from the market well busty babe cos i know the real one lol xxxxxxxxxxx
ok peeps! its all change again...
it seems that a few people are going to be travelling quite far to come to the meet, and so more people will be wanting to stay over than we origionally thought.
as Steve has more beds in his house than i have in mine, we have decided to have it there after all!
we hope this will not be a problem for anyone.
i will be contacting an Ann Summers rep tonight to try and make the arrangements. (so get doing you toy inventories.. and deciding what you "need" lol).
i am sure steve will be in touch via pm with all the interested parties nearer the time to give you his address and directions.. so all that is left to say is " get your babysitters sorted out, put some extra wine on your shopping list...... and be there!!!!!" biggrin
upto now its about 5 or 6 people wanting to come... but a few are "thinking about it".. so it should be a damn good night.
see you all soon
WBB
x
hiya
thats fine with me smile
i will b there
jo x
ok, we're now looking at a joint effort. The meet will be held at steveg_nw towers and well_busty_babe will be organising your evenings entertainment. WBB has assured me that the rep won't be turning up in a transit van with Ann Summer's Private Parties emblazoned on the side of it so I'll just have to take her word for it.
The date will be Saturday 31st July and WBB is looking at something like a 7pm start. No worries if you want to arrive earlier cos it's happening on a Saturday and I'll be here all afternoon.
Yes, if need be I can put people up but steveg_nw towers is only a 3 bedroom semi and not a hotel so please take that into consideration.
If people can confirm to me that they're coming I'll send directions and contact details nearer the time by pm.
If you have any queries then please post them here or send a pm to either myself or well_busty_babe.
Quote by Jewcy_Joanne
Steve has got a great ornament on his fire surround if anyone can steal it for me I'd be obliged...............

On yer bike Jo......that's mine!!
Steve
ok,
the ann summers rep is bokked.. she is hoping to start at about . so if everyone is there for 7ish.. we have time to fight over seats and pour drinks before the fun starts!
x x x x xx
This is is actually from C. She is dictating and i am trying to keep up lol
Feeling a bit ruff AND had a few to drink. But count me in. I'm sure I'll be feeling better by then - got one of those man colds :lol: (Db: yeayeayeah)
Look forward to seeing you all there and possibly (Db starts to quiver) adding a new toy to the collection. :twisted:
Don't need any floor space as Db and I will find somewhere to stay. (Db now in full quiver)
Steveg - Are there any local places/pubs with rooms. If so could you let me know please.
Hope you're looking forward to your evening in the pub steveg :lol:
CA xxx
Bloody good idea, count me in, if not too far away surprised
numbers are increasing a bit now.....am really looking forward to it!