Advice needed...

25 Nov 2011

Hi All,
I find myself in a fortunate, yet still strange situation!
I have a couple of bi-female friends (I'm a straight male) who I have, and do meet up with every so often for ffm fun. With one of the the girls we've also had some mmf fun.
I'm going to see them again next week, they live in london you see and, well, I don't.
However, in the new year, they're both coming to see me and like the idea of adding more people to the group. Which is great for all of us, as we all have a fantasy of the Roman Orgy kind smile

My problem is, where, on this site, should I advertise or look for what we want? Ideally we would like a couple with a Bi fem to join in for full swing, but I know if I advertise this I'll get bombarded with single blokes, most of whom wont turn up.
So what do you guys thing? Is going to a club the best plan? Or shall I place and add?
If I'm placing an add, where should it go?
(If anybody readying this is interested, I can provide pictures smile

but for now, I'd like the aura of mystery biggrin

)
Thanks
BB

25 Nov 2011

get in touch with admin first of all....there are plenty of genuine people on the site, as well as the others..but it's against site rules to advertise for anyone who isn't a member of swinging heaven. We wouldn't want you to fall foul of the swinging heaven police now, would we? and of course if y'all just fancy a weekend in Brighton you can come and stay with me wink

28 Nov 2011

List an event in the event section and/or in this forum. State exactly what you're looking for (couples, singles, etc) and what type of party you intend it to be as some people are more than happy to play like this, others prefer a party where they can go off into rooms. Yes you will still get messages from single guys pushing their luck but if you don't want single guys, you just say no.
From experience, I would say that the 'orgy' type scenario is best played out and happens easier at a house party rather than a club. Organising your own party also means that you have a say in who is invited and may join in.
I'm not aware of any site rule that says that you cant advertise a private party if there are non SH members who could be there (mods, please correct me if I'm wrong). To be sure though you could always add 'non SH members and banned members may be present' as it says on some social event listings??

28 Nov 2011

Quote by Funlovers2009
I'm not aware of any site rule that says that you cant advertise a private party if there are non SH members who could be there (mods, please correct me if I'm wrong). To be sure though you could always add 'non SH members and banned members may be present' as it says on some social event listings??

:thumbup:
You can invite who you want to a private party as long as it is YOUR party, but you could not place an advert to find people just for your friends to play with i.e. I am arranging a party for two friends of mine. If you need any help with the wording, just give one of the Mods a shout and we will check it for you wink

Worth putting something in the events section of the site, the photo ads and also in the forum area, and hope you all have fun wink