Another trip to Partners.......23rd September

19 Sep 2004

Boo hoo
Boo hoo
Boo hoo
Boo hoo
Boo hoo
sad

Wish I could go
Boooooo hoooooooo
sad

19 Sep 2004

Quote by steveg_nw
I don't remember you looking like this http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/794832989414d8588b5ae3.jpg at the sex maniacs ball. :cry:
Steve

Awwww hun, maybe you should have taken a closer look then!! lol

20 Sep 2004

So hopefully thats:
Steveg_nw & Lilacgem
Barkingmad
Gingerjo & Lee
Caz & Ed
Liz_Neil_Hull
Nedmis2
Lucyslovely + 1
Kezz & suff
That's 16 of us. biggrin

Probably best to meet up in the same place as last time at about 8:30. If you can't make it that early then we'll see you inside. I'll pm everyone with the details of where we're meeting.
See you there everyone.
Steve

20 Sep 2004

Steve,
There is a distinct possibility that I will be attending with a mystery guest.... say no more yet.... :!:

20 Sep 2004

Quote by frogster
Steve,
There is a distinct possibility that I will be attending with a mystery guest.... say no more yet.... :!:

As long as it's not my mum the more the merrier! lol

Hope to see you there.
Steve

20 Sep 2004

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: Wish I could come along - had a good time last time - hope you all have fun
CQ

21 Sep 2004

Quick update. We've now got:
Steveg_nw & Lilacgem
Barkingmad
Gingerjo & Lee
Caz & Ed
Liz_Neil_Hull
Nedmis2
Lucyslovely + 1
Kezz & suff
happydays
Vicky_uk + 1 (hopefully)
so that's maybe 20 of us. biggrin

Probably best to meet up in the same place as last time at about 8:30. If you can't make it that early then we'll see you inside. I'll pm everyone with the details of where we're meeting.
See you there.
Steve

21 Sep 2004

It looks like there could be 22 of us:
Steveg_nw & Lilacgem
Barkingmad
Gingerjo & Lee
Caz & Ed
Liz_Neil_Hull
Nedmis2
Lucyslovely + 1
Kezz & suff
happydays
Vicky_uk + 1 (hopefully)
NWcouple (the Nick & Sheila version)
If you want to join us just give me a shout and I'll pm you the details of where and when we're meeting.
Hope you all make it.
Steve

21 Sep 2004

We hope to be there again , are we meeting in the same pub as last time steve?

21 Sep 2004

Yep, same time, same place.
See you there. biggrin

Steve

21 Sep 2004

I reckon the owners should give me a copy of that film "Pono Boot Camp" at this rate. biggrin

Steve

22 Sep 2004

11 couples - OMG :scared: Starting to feel very nervous now! Well, I (Suff) am anyway.
We went to Partners on Sunday night, to get a "feel" wink

for the place and so we knew what to expect on Thursday. It was lovely - everyone very friendly etc etc. And there weren't that many people there, which was nice too, as if it had been packed I would probably have run away! redface

I was very nervous about dropping my towel, but after a few drinks I got brave and we did get in the pool and Jacuzzi (not at the same time of course!) and we also sampled the steam room and the mirror room biggrin

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I know everyone is there for the same thing and that everyone's bodies are different sizes and shapes, and while I'm quite happy to prance about naked at home or in the car if we're out dogging, I get very . . err . . nervous about being naked infront of other people to start with.
Maybe that's a bit strange, considering what we're into lol, but perhaps it has something to do with being new to it all, and I'm hoping that after a while the nerves will go away and I'll think nothing of prancing about naked elsewhere too.
Did anyone else feel like this, or am I the only one? How did you get over it? Do you still get like it? Has anyone got any advice for me?
We'll definitely be there on Thursday, and please do come and talk to us etc - we can't meet in the pub due to late finish at work so will see you there, you'll know who we are because I'll be the one who looks like a rabbit caught in headlights! lol

22 Sep 2004

Wish I could be there, but have fun folks lol

22 Sep 2004

Quote by Kezz & Suff
We'll definitely be there on Thursday, and please do come and talk to us etc - we can't meet in the pub due to late finish at work so will see you there, you'll know who we are because I'll be the one who looks like a rabbit caught in headlights!

I have a feeling Lilacgem will be like that for a little while because it's her first visit to a club too. I've been telling her all week not to worry but it's probably made little difference, the nerves are understandable. Just for the record though, don't worry, there's no need.
Shame you can't make the pub beforehand but we'll see you inside. biggrin

Steve

22 Sep 2004

Steveg
You have a PM
Lucy xx

22 Sep 2004

Unfortunately, my mystry partner can not make it this week, so it will have to be a miss for me I am afraid........ another week. :cry: sad

Have fun.

23 Sep 2004

looks like another good nite .
Sorry you can't cum frogster.
I'm sure you'll get to know what you missed
see you all there smile

23 Sep 2004

Quote by steveg_nw
We'll definitely be there on Thursday, and please do come and talk to us etc - we can't meet in the pub due to late finish at work so will see you there, you'll know who we are because I'll be the one who looks like a rabbit caught in headlights!

I have a feeling Lilacgem will be like that for a little while because it's her first visit to a club too. I've been telling her all week not to worry but it's probably made little difference, the nerves are understandable. Just for the record though, don't worry, there's no need.
Shame you can't make the pub beforehand but we'll see you inside. biggrin

Steve
Ok the day is finally here & although I am looking forward to it, at this point my stomach feels like its a cement mixer :shock:
I'm just glad I've got Steve_nw to hold my hand tonight biggrin

23 Sep 2004

Prolly too late to make this now, but if anyone could pm us with the times and details we'd really owe you one ;)

23 Sep 2004

i can not remember the name of the pub
but there all going in the club so best to meet in there after 9pm
im not meeting in the pub going str8 to the club
cya tonight jo xx

23 Sep 2004

Only just seen this thread as the bloody home pc packed up last week... If any woman is thinking of going tonight but is without a partner, I'd love to escort them. Went to the last 'group' outing a few weeks ago and loved it.
I know it's a slim chance, but worth a try. Hope everyone has fun anyway!
Cheers,
Ant.

24 Sep 2004

hope u all had a great time - must find a female to go to the next one pumapaul

24 Sep 2004

hi there
sorry lee and i didnt make it last night
but me jo as got a head cold and i feel like shite sad

bump into u again soon jo x

24 Sep 2004

Hope you all had a brilliant time last nite wink

Sorry I didn't make - i got let down :cry:
single guys mad

I dont half pick the wrong ones confused

Lucy xx

24 Sep 2004

Hope the ones that made it last night had a brill time :twisted:
Hope you're better soon Jo lol

When's the next time, I'll try and make it! cool

24 Sep 2004

Well myself and Lilacgem had a very good night. biggrin

I'd like to thank everyone that came along and I was especially pleased to see Nick & Sheila again after what has been months away from the site.
Lilacgem must have enjoyed herself cos at the end of the evening we were talking about doing it again! biggrin

Steve

24 Sep 2004

We had a great night , nice to put more faces to names. When the next one?
Shame you didn't feel up to it Jo, see you soon smile

24 Sep 2004

Thanks Steve, yes I did have a good night & totally sober too :shock: lol You were right & there was nothing to worry about after all, but it was just a fear of the unknown, but thanks to you, Nick & Sheila I felt at ease & enjoyed the night biggrin

It was nice to meet a few others from Swinging Heaven too biggrin

Although next time we go I shall be better prepared lol instead of getting ready to go for a night out & doing hair/make up, I will tie my hair up, don a pair of jeans & t shirt & forget the makeup lol that way I'll enjoy the pool/jacuzzi much better biggrin

xx

24 Sep 2004

Well . . . . . You are so gonna laugh at us! (well, me, anyway) redface

We went to Partners last night. Got there about , drove past and saw all the cars parked up and down the street (that weren't there on Sunday night and figured they belonged to all the people in the club) and I (Suff) just couldn't go in. :cry:
I'd been nervous but excited all day, we'd got ready after work and travelled all the way there, and when we got there, the sight of all those cars and knowing that there were loads of people inside just freaked me out big time and I made Kezz turn the car round and bring me home again! redface

I don't know why I couldn't go in, as Sunday night was no problem. And I know everyone's friendly and there for the same things. Kezz said to go in and keep my cothes on, but that would have just made me feel even worse cos everyone else would have their towels on (or not lol).
If I'd got through the door I'd probably have been alright, could have said hi and relaxed and then seen what happened, but I couldn't do it. sad

How can I get over this initial nervousness/fear? Has anyone else felt like this? How did they get over it? Does it ever go away?
Help! confused

24 Sep 2004

All i can suggest is that if possible you get there a little earlier or arrange to meet some people beforehand and all go in together. I didn't think there were that many people in Partners last night but it's a big place so you never know. If you were to get there a little earlier and get settled in then you probably wouldn't notice the others arriving as much.

Quote by lilacgem
Although next time we go...............

It looks like we could be going again some time.........you're more than welcome to come along but it probably won't be for a couple of weeks or so.
Steve