Fair play to you, for having a sense of humour. But if you want more replies to this thread a bit ( a lot? ) more detail would be appreciated. Like who you are ( fem, cple, etc ) how old, what you like, etc - if you want any guidence look at some other posts or better still think of what you would want to know before you commit to a meet with all the arrangements you might have to make - honestly ask yourself, if you were looking at your post, would you PM to arrange a meet? Also you are a newbie - an unknown quantity - so be patient, informative and friendly. You could do worse than spend a lot of time in the cafe and get yourself known there, people would have a chance to learn what you are like as a person. Hope this helps - I know your sense of humour will go down well in the cafe, once you've established yourself. :thumbup: