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Have you actually met a real genuine girl from this site

11 Jan 2006

Is the any genuine bi female interested in meeting up this weekend. we have got an add up (380453) but it seems to be full of fakes mad

.....story of our life at the moment, so thought we'd give this a try.
were are Danny 24 and Jenny 21 from Liverpool, check out our add and if your interested post an add or get back to us...
hope to hear soon,
Dan & Jen wink

11 Jan 2006

Your poll is rather superfluous as LOADS of people have met LOADS of people from this site - look at the stickies here to see just how much socialising goes on. I'm not sure what you are hoping to achieve with your poll either - care to share it with us?
cool

11 Jan 2006

Quote by Dan_Jen
Is the any genuine bi female interested in meeting up this weekend. we have got an add up (380453) but it seems to be full of fakes .....story of our life at the moment, so thought we'd give this a try.
were are Danny 24 and Jenny 21 from Liverpool, check out our add and if your interested post an add or get back to us...
hope to hear soon,
Dan & Jen

well i met 150 genuine people from this site on saturday...........
maybe if you got yourself know if the forums and the chatrooms rather than to just rely on a photo ad then you would get invited to parties and munches.......
have a look.. we are trying to plan newbie socials for all the new arrivals on the Forum.
Welcome by the way.....
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

11 Jan 2006

blimey they do one post in a month and its a rant rolleyes

.we know of many genuine ppl on here becauce we made the effort to go to the vast amount of munches and parties that are available on this site may we suggest you do the same instead of having a rant cuz u cant find what u want.

11 Jan 2006

Quote by Dan_Jen
Is the any genuine bi female interested in meeting up this weekend. we have got an add up (380453) but it seems to be full of fakes .....story of our life at the moment, so thought we'd give this a try.
were are Danny 24 and Jenny 21 from Liverpool, check out our add and if your interested post an add or get back to us...
hope to hear soon,
Dan & Jen

could be that your face looks a bit hairy in your profile pic , but what do we know redface

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11 Jan 2006

Well, yet another complaint about photoad response on the forum, oh yippee! However, I'm going to give you some constructive feedback anyway......are people fakes because you discovered that they weren't single bi girl? or because they weren't quite what you wanted or said no thanks?
1. Your ad is for a threesome but it doesn't actually state that you want a bi girl - not every MFF threesome includes girl/girl play (unless it's an RnB video of course wink

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2. It looks like the ad was placed today for this weekend, too short notice for plenty of people - I know I have plans for this weekend that I made at least a week ago
3. You've said that you want "fun" but haven't given much detail, is something you're subsequently asking for (e.g. anal) not appealing to women and they're saying no?
4. Sort your pics out, they're not easy to look at sideways
Other than that, you're one of a lot of couples looking for one of a lot less single bi females, patience is great but petulance is really unattractive - don't throw an alcopop strop because you didn't get what you want the minute you wanted it, get some perspective and if you're going to use the forum, use it for positive things :wink: .

11 Jan 2006

Well I have a few points to make negative or not they are just points.
This is swinging heaven, photo ads, forum, chat room, voice ads etc will be viewed as one by a lot of users. Its the same website after all. People looking at the forum for a first time wont realise that people on the forum dont use the photo ads or vise versa.
I am sure attending partys etc is great fun however it is not for me, I get nervous in crowds let alone swinging crowds and I am sure this is the case for a lot of people.
I would like to use the forum more or the photo ads less but time is time I already spend around 1 hour a day here and have been here since August. In that hour I respond to any replys, check all the new locals and mail any appropriate. Then because some people think the site is not free I also have to go check my email account and reply to any messages there.
Not surprised people get a bit annoyed at times, this site ( reffering mostly to the photo ads section ) can be hard work at times with little or in my case no result so far.
Now its suggested to get known on the forum, well guess I can squeeze another 15 mins in somewhere rolleyes

LOL if you like check my ad Tweeky 24, F, Bi curious. Part of a couple.
Luv Tweeky XXXXX
P.S. Thanks goes to the site creators. Thanks for making it thanks for making it free and thanks for making it easy to use. Even though I havent got anywhere all that has made it a lot easier.

12 Jan 2006

ok im sorry...........were fairly new to this... redface

12 Jan 2006

ok, so i need to sort our pics out.... go to parties, get to know poeple in the chat rooms, post more adds and have a shave..........lol, oh and the poll is just a bit of (bad) humour,

12 Jan 2006

Quote by Dan_Jen
ok, so i need to sort our pics out.... go to parties, get to know poeple in the chat rooms, post more adds and have a shave..........lol, oh and the poll is just a bit of (bad) humour,

But at least you got a response, more than some do! Might not have been the response you wanted, but it was a response!
This post might give you a bit of pointers for the next time and good luck lol

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html

13 Jan 2006

hi dan and jen,
welcome into the forums
this thread started out on the wrong footing, and the poll didnt actually match the thread title as such.
but i would like to say your responce to our respone was nice to see, you read , undrestood and came back with good humour.
yes i am a single fem, yes i have met people. however IMHO as a single fem im more likely to meet up with people i know from the forums.
have fun , keep safe
xxx lou xxx

13 Jan 2006

Quote by Dan_Jen
ok, so i need to sort our pics out.... go to parties, get to know poeple in the chat rooms, post more adds and have a shave..........lol, oh and the poll is just a bit of (bad) humour,

But apart from that, eveything is perfect! Good for you, I really hope that you find what you're looking for! biggrin

13 Jan 2006

Quote by fem_4_taboo
hi dan and jen,
welcome into the forums
this thread started out on the wrong footing, and the poll didnt actually match the thread title as such.
but i would like to say your responce to our respone was nice to see, you read , undrestood and came back with good humour.
yes i am a single fem, yes i have met people. however IMHO as a single fem im more likely to meet up with people i know from the forums.
have fun , keep safe
xxx lou xxx

Hiya Dan & Jen
I have to agree with the above.
Personally I have never had an ad. I wouldn't want an inbox full of pms and spend my nights trying to sort out the true from the bullshit.
That's what I love about the forum. You get to know peoples personalities and when you meet people at the socials and munches you can see for yourself who they are.
It may not be everyones cup of tea, but I like it wink

So join in the fun and get to know the real people - you never know where you might be in a months time :twisted:

13 Jan 2006

Can i just say......
I AM a real bi female.....
And lots of people on this site have met me... even if it is socially!!!

13 Jan 2006

If I can just add a comment that had stuff from both sides of the fence...
I was originally a single bi-fem and was inundated with so much rubbish/offers in 'real life' (excuse that term, am not sure how to explain it in any other way lol) that I didn't use forums/sites such as this for fear of spending my entire life trawling through emails.. lol.... So I apprecaite the single bi-fems plight and now picky they can (and deserve) to be...
Now I'm part of a couple, but still damn picky, so it's a hard one. It's not easy (unless you have sexually liberated friends, and even then after a while they'll stop being there for you as they pair up lol) and you do have to work hard, but its worth it in the end. We haven't been successful on here, but taking the positive and non-expectant attitude on here and in 'real life' will make people more likely to come to you as you won't seem desperate or anxious to have a threesome for the wrong reasons (not saying that you are, but it could look that way to some I suppose)
Anyway, just a little thought from both sides.... Good luck guys!
Layla xx

13 Jan 2006

Its not easy to meet single Bi Fems via the adverts only as very few have the confidence to meet people cold even if its just for a drink due to the obvous dangers
My advise is
Post regular in the forums get to know people
Then get your names down for 1 of the many social parties and munches that are regualy put on during the year.
Thats where most single fems like to meet and get to know people in a safe no presure enviroment
When i was meeting bi fems with my wife it worked for us using that formula
It takes an investmet of your time but its well worth it as you will also make many new friends (not neseseraly swing partners) along the way.
Good luck in your search.
Bi-Guy-Notts

14 Jan 2006

just like to thank you all for the advice, i had a shave, much needed after a week of nights aswell lol....
but yeah, thanks as i (think) i said, we are new to this, and will take our time getting round to going to a party or a munch...(to prove our newbieness....whats a munch) redface

but anyway, cheers guys