Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login

attractive irish guy seeks>>>>>>>>&g

last reply
7 replies
624 views
0 watchers
0 likes
hi all, iam just about to give up on this site. i am hoping to meet couples but i a not having much luck. can some1 please help. i would appreciate.
Quote by NirishinLpool
hi all, iam just about to give up on this site. i am hoping to meet couples but i a not having much luck. can some1 please help. i would appreciate.

You've been here less than a fortnight FGS! It's not a quick shag site and it won't happen that fast.
Read the other posts, read the guidance and start again.
rolleyes
i undrstand what your saying, im replying to adds politley and noone seems to ever get back to me
yet another who wants to come along and shag everythig in-sight.
what happend to personality, whit and charm?
most of all..............what happened to patients????
talk to folk, get to know them, you are not the only one on this site who is looking for what you want!
other people do have the freedom to choose and with an attitude like yours you do have to ask yourself one question. what makes you a better choice than the next guy?
maybee he has been around longer and bothered to take the time to get to know people.
maybee he has been varified and proved that he is genuine.
good luck on your search i think you might need it!!
Okay, a bit of genuine advice, firstly you have been here two weeks and made an handful of posts. None of them are longer than a couple of lines and none of them say anything about you. You have no photos, very little information in your adverts and most importantly none of you posts show that there is actually a personality behind the user who types the one liners!
Now as the others have said, there are thousands and thousands of single guys looking to meet couples and singles. Why would any of the couples or singles want to meet you?
Will they find you attractive - dont know, no photos.
will they find you funny - dont know, no sense of humour shown in any posts.
Do they have the same interests as you - dont know, no personal information given.
See what I am getting at? Your just another name, with no information to back up the name. The couples and singles are going to reply to the ones who have taken the time and put in the effort to get themselves known on here, the ones who have posted some nice pics (NOT cock pics), they ones who have given information about themselves. Why would they reply to a complete stranger who has not put any effort what so ever!
Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you have asked for help and all I can do is be honest!
Quote by NirishinLpool
hi all, iam just about to give up on this site. i am hoping to meet couples but i a not having much luck. can some1 please help. i would appreciate.

okay..... if you want some serious advice....
1) sell yourself.......
2) actually tell people about you as a person...
3) sell yourself.......
4) actually telli people what you are after....
5) sell yourself......
6) get to know the people here and the surrounding....
7) sell yourself.....
do you notice a common theme here......
with there being so many men and so few couples/single fems.... they are in a position to be really really picky..... so why should a person choose you who wrote 3 lines as opposed to someone who took the time and effort to write a full ad......
you get out of this site what you put in... and hand on heart, how much have you put in so far....
sean xxxxxxxx
Repeating what I said on one of your other one-line ads, although I don't know why as it didn't seem to make a difference biggrin :
Quote by makingcocoa
Why would anyone be interested? You haven't said anything about yourself.... your looks, your age, your interests, your taste in music, your sense of humour, your marital status, your sexual preferences...... there's SO much you could say that might make someone want to meet you. You have to make yourself stand out from the crowd.
In fact, the only thing this ad tells anyone is that you're looking for sex. Which puts you precisely on a level with, erm, just about everyone on this site.
I've noticed you posting a lot of one-liners asking for a shag. Why not post about something other than sex, and let people get to know you?
Every man or couple I've ever met through SH, I either found interesting on the forums, or met at a munch - which you can only get to if you are active on the forums. Swinging is NOT a way to a quick shag.
Good luck!
x

Cocoa x
...............it gets better with time (from one Irish to another), don't force it just take your time and someone will get back to you........................I've not given up hope yet!