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Well, i've debated on this for a few days but as the rumour mill is starting to churn, and I dont know who's involved because no one has bothered to come directly to me as the organiser with their 'issue' , I've decided that its going in the thread.
I hear on the grapevine that some people have a problem with other people being on this list. rolleyes
There is a time and place for SS politics but it's not at this Munch. There will be no confrontations or animosity between guests about things that are fuck all to do with me, my Munch or indeed this site. If that is too much to ask, please have a rethink about whether you should actually attend.
Ta
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Quote by Darkfire
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Well, etc etc
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:therethere: passionkiss drinkies :rose:
Cheer up Darkfire it will be a great night, I still have no idea whatsoever I am wearing, but I have a hotel booked and am really looking forward to it.
See you then
Harry Jones
Quote by HarryJones
it will be a great night

Yes it will! :bounce: drinkies :bounce: :drinkies: :bounce:
Do you still have that posh tank top Harry? lol kiss
Quote by Darkfire
Do you still have that posh tank top Harry? lol kiss

Do you mean this one confused:

Yes I have it right by me in fact, needs washing but my mum told me how to do that when she visited the other week.
Should I wear it then :?:
Regards
Harry Jones
Quote by Darkfire
<rant alert>
Well, i've debated on this for a few days but as the rumour mill is starting to churn, and I dont know who's involved because no one has bothered to come directly to me as the organiser with their 'issue' , I've decided that its going in the thread.
I hear on the grapevine that some people have a problem with other people being on this list. rolleyes
There is a time and place for SS politics but it's not at this Munch. There will be no confrontations or animosity between guests about things that are fuck all to do with me, my Munch or indeed this site. If that is too much to ask, please have a rethink about whether you should actually attend.
Ta
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I had a similar thing with the Bristol munch Dark-and it came to my attention a few days before the munch. I was so pissed off with what I heard I almost didn't go through with it. I gave the antagonists a right to reply which they chose not to (although I knew full well who they were) and I believe these were the same people who went to another member (not me or a Mod mind) and questioned my list of atendees AFTER the munch! No questions to me on the night or beforehand.
There will always be this element involved sadly, childish politics that to my mind have no place among so called open-minded adults. Try not to let it get you down-while it is frustrating-you have to accept that not everyone can be a 'grown-up'.
Minx x x
Can you add us to the reserve list please biggrin
We are new to the site ( :shock: ) and would like to celebrate your birthday with all the others that we do not know yet ( :shock: :shock: ). If we are invited, would anybody look after us as shy newbies ( lol :lol: :lol: :lol: )
Dave_Notts & Alex_Female
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Try not to let it get you down-while it is frustrating-you have to accept that not everyone can be a 'grown-up'.
Minx x x

Hear hear.....I fully agree with you Minxy, but then again, I would when I fancy the pants off you............lol
Seriously though, I've done a "few" parties and there have been some politics spouted, but I just tell them that if they're gonna start talking politics, they can go and do it in the middle of the M1 (or in Minxy's case the M4).......lol
Quote by Dave__Notts
Can you add us to the reserve list please biggrin
We are new to the site Coughsplutterbollox ( :shock: ) and would like to celebrate your birthday with all the others that we do not know yet ( :shock: :shock: ). If we are invited, would anybody look after us as shy newbies ( lol :lol: :lol: :lol: )
Dave_Notts & Alex_Female

Well, I've got my name down as a "handholder" if you'd like me to look after you. I'll lock Dave in the car boot and then have my wicked way with Alex........ :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Is it possible to go on the reserve list? (if room for a liittle un)
Would love to come along and help you celebrate your birthday....
biggrin xanaisx :D
Quote by Dave__Notts
Can you add us to the reserve list please biggrin
We are new to the site ( :shock: )

:laughabove: :laughabove: added
Anais wrote:
Would love to come along and help you celebrate your birthday....

Added hun :D
There's still a few left to confirm so I'll add you all to the reserve list while we're waiting for folk to sort sitters/ get back off holiday etc. If you need the hotel list please pm me asap :D
Can you put me down as a definite please Darkfire hun?
Can't wait!! wink
Quote by DreamerHelen
Can you put me down as a definite please Darkfire hun?
Can't wait!! wink

biggrin done, thanks Helen :D
seems we have not confirmed our attendence at this so i'd better do it now biggrin
Quote by Darkfire
Anais wrote: Would love to come along and help you celebrate your birthday....

Added hun biggrin
There's still a few left to confirm so I'll add you all to the reserve list while we're waiting for folk to sort sitters/ get back off holiday etc. If you need the hotel list please pm me asap :D
Thanks Fire.... will pm you for info on hotels.
xanaisx
Quote by Dave__Notts
Can you add us to the reserve list please biggrin
We are new to the site ( :shock: ) and would like to celebrate your birthday with all the others that we do not know yet ( :shock: :shock: ). If we are invited, would anybody look after us as shy newbies ( lol :lol: :lol: :lol: )
Dave_Notts & Alex_Female

k'nell Dave i just nearly choked on my coffee
Earthy xx
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i havent got a date or any1 to hold mt hand?
will i be ok?????????????????? :shock:

Would it only be your hand i get to hold??????? :twisted:
Earthy xx
Dave & Alex,
I'm reviewing invites, one of the couples have cancelled their membership so you're now on the main list :thumbup:
Quote by Darkfire
Dave & Alex,
I'm reviewing invites, one of the couples have cancelled their membership so you're now on the main list :thumbup:

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Errrrrr send them a hotel list FFS - they ain't staying at our house this time :shock: lol
Quote by earthchild
i havent got a date or any1 to hold mt hand?
will i be ok?????????????????? :shock:

Would it only be your hand i get to hold??????? :twisted:
Earthy xx
:shock: u can hold me glowin pants to if u like babe? wink
Quote by Darkfire
Dave & Alex,
I'm reviewing invites, one of the couples have cancelled their membership so you're now on the main list :thumbup:

Thank you Darkfire for the invite, much appreciated, we are looking forward to it soooooo much, wohoooo :happy:
Alex
p.s.: do you prefer white or red wine?
Quote by Freckledbird
Dave & Alex,
I'm reviewing invites, one of the couples have cancelled their membership so you're now on the main list :thumbup:

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Errrrrr send them a hotel list FFS - they ain't staying at our house this time :shock: lol
Awww come on Mrs FB - you know ya wanna have us stay at yours - after all that happened the last time - nothing else could possible go wrong :mrgreen:
and ....................................
after you turned me down 3 times, I am beginning to take it personally :upset: ................ sob sob sob
Quote by Freckledbird
Dave & Alex,
I'm reviewing invites, one of the couples have cancelled their membership so you're now on the main list :thumbup:

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Errrrrr send them a hotel list FFS - they ain't staying at our house this time :shock: lol
If I promise not to bring the one woman demolition squad.................
.......can I be invited back :mrgreen:
Dave_Notts
PS ow.....ow.......ow.........I.......ow.......didn't.......ow....... mean..........ow....... to...........ow......... say.........ow......... that........ow....... about...........ow........ you.........ow.......... my.........ow.......... gorgeous..........ow........ sweety.........ow........... darlingyou............ow.........ow..........ow
PMSL you pair of nutters! Alex, I did NOT turn you down - I postponed darling lol
Dave, yeah - lock her up somewhere safe for the weekend :lol:
Quote by Freckledbird
PMSL you pair of nutters! Alex, I did NOT turn you down - I postponed darling lol
Dave, yeah - lock her up somewhere safe for the weekend :lol:

Flounces off ............................................
Blueeyes & Meggo3, you're on the definates list :thumbup:
right then, anymore for anymore :bounce: :bounce:
Is there still enough time for me to make a late entrance?
no probs Sharif :thumbup:
it'll have to be the reserve list til more confirmations come in though dunno
Quote by Darkfire
Blueeyes & Meggo3, you're on the definates list :thumbup:
right then, anymore for anymore :bounce: :bounce:

biggrin P-A-R-T-Y ---- Why not - all in a good cause.
Not even J32 will stop me now. :twisted:
Ok sweety ... Phoenix and I have had a long discussion about this and we have reluctantly had to decide to withdraw our request to join you at your party.
We are so sorry but he is struggling to manage these days at the moment cause of personal reasons so we have decided to take the pressure off him and not come now after all.
Really sorry as we were looking forward to it but life sometimes gets in the way.
Hope you all have a good time though
DD xxx
Dont worry DD , i'm sorry to hear that the feathered one is having such a shitty time :cry: take care you two & I'll see you soon kiss
Is it anyone elses Bday around this date ? Mr Rams & Dlep are having birthdays too, have I missed anyone? dunno :twisted:
speak up now or forever hold your piece :wanker: rotflmao
pm me with details please biggrin