Birthday present for hubby (seeking cpl for 3some)

18 May 2004

Hi
I'm looking to surprise hubby. I'd like to have him meet a cpl for a 3some! Its not for me but the thought of it makes us both horny.
If you can help surprise him pls see ad 86772!
Kisses
Jill
xx

18 May 2004

We can't speak for others so this is just our opinion, we are not convinced.

18 May 2004

We ban men who advertise for someone to 'surprise' their wife/girlfriend or say 'wife/gg unware' and I can't see this as anything different.
This is not what is wanted here... concensual and aware is how we like those who take part in swinging.

18 May 2004

Hi Jags,
I wish I'd known this before, about this type of ad being against the rules I mean. Some of us voiced our concern the last time one of these "surprise" requests cropped up:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/11544.html
but I never thought of reporting it. I will in future, if a similar ad appears.
Mike.

18 May 2004

Hi
Thanks for your concern. We are a genuine cpl in a secure relationship-the 'surprise' being in me taking the initiative even tho I'm not looking to join in this time-any genuine advice would be appreciated. Thanks
Jill

19 May 2004

I was, and still am, looking for something similar... but my partner knows I'm looking. wink

The surprise for him will be WHEN I get this arranged. And that's all part of the fun because he knows it's coming... sometime! :twisted:
I tried to instigate a concerted approach to this with a discussion in the Cafe. I think that couples should realise that the 'illusive single female' is going to have to be one half of another couple. So if couples are prepared to swing individually, a lot more fun can be had..
Cumbria is too far for me... hope you find someone closer. biggrin

Hxx

19 May 2004

Hi Heather
You've best decsribed out situation-thanks Jill
xx