Hi all.
My partner and I are going to chams for the first time wed, she is bi curious, and incredibly nervous.
Any helpful advice for the newbies?
Have seen varied comments for Chams but in general they seem good and positive.
In everyone elses experience is this accurate?
all advice greatfully reccieved!
Regards
Montybob
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Chameleons wednesday 9th - advice please
Sex God
I loved it at Chameleons even though I was very nervous too. 
Sure you'll have a great time. Have a bit of a read through their website and if you're nervous, speak to the owners, they seem really helpful, kind and patient. I'm sure they'd want you to be relaxed and have a great night too! I know I would if I owned a club. 
Hope you have fun and let us know how it went!
Gem. x
Sure you'll have a great time. Have a bit of a read through their website and if you're nervous, speak to the owners, they seem really helpful, kind and patient. I'm sure they'd want you to be relaxed and have a great night too!
I know I would if I owned a club. Hope you have fun and let us know how it went!
Gem. x
Orgasminator
Only thing I'd add to Little Gem's sound advice would be perhaps to check out the jacuzzi. It's a good place to chat and get to know people, but also to get something going if you're in the mood....
I've been going to clubs like this for years, but last Tues I took a lady to Chams who'd never been before and was nervous and excited at the prospect. After a couple of drinks in the bar area and a chance to calm her nerves, we had a wander round to show her the lie of the land, then went in the jacuzzi.
First time it loosened her up, and we went off to a room, where we invited another guy to join us. After that we went back in the water, and she ended up getting shagged in the water by a very vigouous and enthusiastic young man, as I played with her. She still has the smile on her face nearly a week later, and can't wait to go back.
The staff are great - if you want any tips just have a word. After all - it's in their interests as well as yours for you to enjoy it.
MM
I've been going to clubs like this for years, but last Tues I took a lady to Chams who'd never been before and was nervous and excited at the prospect. After a couple of drinks in the bar area and a chance to calm her nerves, we had a wander round to show her the lie of the land, then went in the jacuzzi.
First time it loosened her up, and we went off to a room, where we invited another guy to join us. After that we went back in the water, and she ended up getting shagged in the water by a very vigouous and enthusiastic young man, as I played with her. She still has the smile on her face nearly a week later, and can't wait to go back.
The staff are great - if you want any tips just have a word. After all - it's in their interests as well as yours for you to enjoy it.
MM
