Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Club / Party London Tuesday 12th June for MMF group
Quote by jerryLondon
anyone familiar with ourplace4fun or the hellfireclub?
newbie here as you can see.
very real, bascially a single guy and his couple friends trying to sort out midweek club / party.
The ad number you quote (219533) would suggest a single male seraching for couples...
A cynical person might assume that it might be..... well,....... I'm sure eveyone know what I'm kind of getting at.....
Dont ya think?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick????
D&M xx
Sex God
our place 4 fun is a really nice club
2`s
2`s
Quote by surreycouple2003
anyone familiar with ourplace4fun or the hellfireclub?
newbie here as you can see.
very real, bascially a single guy and his couple friends trying to sort out midweek club / party.
The ad number you quote (219533) would suggest a single male seraching for couples...
A cynical person might assume that it might be..... well,....... I'm sure eveyone know what I'm kind of getting at.....
Dont ya think?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick????
D&M xx
Surely if you are "getting at something" then you should say it? The 2 posts above yours clearly state that he is a single guy, friendly with a couple and that the 3some want to go to a party or club. How is his advert as a single guy conflicting with asking about clubs and parties that they can go to as a 3some? What evidence have you got to arouse your cynicism?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick???? :wink:
Sex God
all they were asking 4 was a bit of info.......
do u really have too pull their profile apart
the world we live in we could do with a few less people like that!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
WHATS WRONG WITH A BIT OF FRIENDLY HELPFUL ADVICE????
2`s
do u really have too pull their profile apart
the world we live in we could do with a few less people like that!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
WHATS WRONG WITH A BIT OF FRIENDLY HELPFUL ADVICE????
2`s
Quote by northwest-cpl
anyone familiar with ourplace4fun or the hellfireclub?
newbie here as you can see.
very real, bascially a single guy and his couple friends trying to sort out midweek club / party.
The ad number you quote (219533) would suggest a single male seraching for couples...
A cynical person might assume that it might be..... well,....... I'm sure eveyone know what I'm kind of getting at.....
Dont ya think?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick????
D&M xx
Surely if you are "getting at something" then you should say it? The 2 posts above yours clearly state that he is a single guy, friendly with a couple and that the 3some want to go to a party or club. How is his advert as a single guy conflicting with asking about clubs and parties that they can go to as a 3some? What evidence have you got to arouse your cynicism?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick???? :wink:
i was just going to say he has said hes a single male looking for a party with m8 but i not bother seeing as u have already pointed this out
hang on i just have
lol
seems genuine enough to me tho
blimey .. talk about having to establish credentials ..
as my posted ad states I am clearly and openly a str8 guy looking to play on his own ( I'm married actually but lets not muddy the waters)
as this post states I do have some friends - it happens - who are a couple - "never" - and we would like to find a club where we can go as a threesome and play.
we realise that midweek isn't the best of times but there are time constraints - see above. As someone who is completely new to the club scene I thought this might be a forum to see if any helpful types might be able to make some suggestions. (My friends have been to places in Holland but haven't tried anything here.)
Anyway ... thanks for the helpful posts.
We have decided to give ourplace4fun a try so any cynics who want to come and see if we are for real will know where to find us.
as my posted ad states I am clearly and openly a str8 guy looking to play on his own ( I'm married actually but lets not muddy the waters)
as this post states I do have some friends - it happens - who are a couple - "never" - and we would like to find a club where we can go as a threesome and play.
we realise that midweek isn't the best of times but there are time constraints - see above. As someone who is completely new to the club scene I thought this might be a forum to see if any helpful types might be able to make some suggestions. (My friends have been to places in Holland but haven't tried anything here.)
Anyway ... thanks for the helpful posts.
We have decided to give ourplace4fun a try so any cynics who want to come and see if we are for real will know where to find us.
Quote by jerryLondon
blimey .. talk about having to establish credentials ..
as my posted ad states I am clearly and openly a str8 guy looking to play on his own ( I'm married actually but lets not muddy the waters)
as this post states I do have some friends - it happens - who are a couple - "never" - and we would like to find a club where we can go as a threesome and play.
we realise that midweek isn't the best of times but there are time constraints - see above. As someone who is completely new to the club scene I thought this might be a forum to see if any helpful types might be able to make some suggestions. (My friends have been to places in Holland but haven't tried anything here.)
Anyway ... thanks for the helpful posts.
We have decided to give ourplace4fun a try so any cynics who want to come and see if we are for real will know where to find us.
You do realise the membership for a single guy at ourplace4fun is £120....if so i have a solution to your problem, ask your wife if she would like to go.
Sex God
Quote by da69ve
i have a solution to your problem, ask your wife if she would like to go.
He can't ask his wife cos he doesn't want to "muddy the waters".....
Quote by Dawn_Mids
i have a solution to your problem, ask your wife if she would like to go.
He can't ask his wife cos he doesn't want to "muddy the waters".....
I have never fully understood that expression :?
Can someone explain it to me
No idea here.... or is it just a cop out for "she'll kill me if she found out"?
:evil: :evil: Sex God
Quote by Happy Cats
i have a solution to your problem, ask your wife if she would like to go.
He can't ask his wife cos he doesn't want to "muddy the waters".....
I have never fully understood that expression :?
Can someone explain it to me
Muddy Waters -
they are no swingers clubs in the United Kingdom worth £120 a year membership
any club that asks for large membership fees prior to entry is a rip-off ... because the club knows you will not be coming back... and the club you mentioned is so small it could not accommodate enough people to want that type of membership Fee
any club that asks for large membership fees prior to entry is a rip-off ... because the club knows you will not be coming back... and the club you mentioned is so small it could not accommodate enough people to want that type of membership Fee
Sex God
but then again , what about the london `luxury flat etc `parties
that charge single guys around£100 per 2-3 hour party????
our place 4 fun is one of the reasonableist priced parties going
think its £20 to get in whether u r a couple or single basicly the bloke pays the woman gets in free - well something like that anyway
tuesday nights used to b free entry 4 couples might still be - dont play in the week so we dont know
and its a really clean nicely decorated safe friendly place to play
2`s
that charge single guys around£100 per 2-3 hour party????
our place 4 fun is one of the reasonableist priced parties going
think its £20 to get in whether u r a couple or single basicly the bloke pays the woman gets in free - well something like that anyway
tuesday nights used to b free entry 4 couples might still be - dont play in the week so we dont know
and its a really clean nicely decorated safe friendly place to play
2`s
all of the parties in luxury flats in London that charge single men £100 and more
are gangbang parties or so called ''swingers parties'' where you have ''payed entertainers''
if you are comparing it with a brothel then I suppose you're right.
the couple's club just down the road is free for couples and that means ''what it says'' neither of you pay on any day of the week except Saturday's and that is less than half the price you mention and no large membership fee....and even single men pay a fraction of the entry fee you quote ..minus the £120 a Year membership fee ..in fact it's one of the worst value for money clubs I know in London. so I do not think ..Our place4fun is much fun at all financially... and you will be playing on Tuesday because they have hired it to a another club that does charge a entrance fee ..look on the club's posting on D.D.. :cry: :shock:
are gangbang parties or so called ''swingers parties'' where you have ''payed entertainers''
if you are comparing it with a brothel then I suppose you're right.
the couple's club just down the road is free for couples and that means ''what it says'' neither of you pay on any day of the week except Saturday's and that is less than half the price you mention and no large membership fee....and even single men pay a fraction of the entry fee you quote ..minus the £120 a Year membership fee ..in fact it's one of the worst value for money clubs I know in London. so I do not think ..Our place4fun is much fun at all financially... and you will be playing on Tuesday because they have hired it to a another club that does charge a entrance fee ..look on the club's posting on D.D.. :cry: :shock:
One tends to notice a sure sign of not quite ethical posting by bigslut not that Im improperly suggesting that bigslut has anything to do with promoting the (couples club ) the Direct Competition and Neighbour to OURPLACE4FUN (now isnt that a coincidence ) but out of 36 posts bigslut certainly wasted time in jumping on the self promoting bandwagon
as one comment was made " 34 posts in 4 days an expert already"
I amongst many others Im sure am a very contented single male member of OURPLACE4FUN
The fees were well worth every penny to ME and its a matter of taste my tastes and expectations of a Good Swingers Club rest with OURPLACE4FUN the Nicest Swingers Club I personally have visited thus far in London
Their Membership fees are only equivelant to just a week on top of a very reasonable entry I personally have never had a bad night at the club
I HAVE visited the club you are seen keen to promote "ONCE" only and frankly its no wonder they dont charge couples a fee to enter
My views are if business at the couples club the club you obviously seem far too keen to represent
really is that bad ------
That you are drawn to publicly slagging off a club youve probably never attended (in the interest of self promotion)
youre A VERY SAD INDIVIDUAL
whilst I undersatnd everyone here is entitled to view and express their and fair
opinion youre expressions are certainly unfair and unnecessarily derogatory and in my opinion purely for self gain
or am I blind ?????
bygeorge
as one comment was made " 34 posts in 4 days an expert already"
I amongst many others Im sure am a very contented single male member of OURPLACE4FUN
The fees were well worth every penny to ME and its a matter of taste my tastes and expectations of a Good Swingers Club rest with OURPLACE4FUN the Nicest Swingers Club I personally have visited thus far in London
Their Membership fees are only equivelant to just a week on top of a very reasonable entry I personally have never had a bad night at the club
I HAVE visited the club you are seen keen to promote "ONCE" only and frankly its no wonder they dont charge couples a fee to enter
My views are if business at the couples club the club you obviously seem far too keen to represent
really is that bad ------
That you are drawn to publicly slagging off a club youve probably never attended (in the interest of self promotion)
youre A VERY SAD INDIVIDUAL
whilst I undersatnd everyone here is entitled to view and express their and fair
opinion youre expressions are certainly unfair and unnecessarily derogatory and in my opinion purely for self gain
or am I blind ?????
bygeorge
Quote by bygeorge
One tends to notice a sure sign of not quite ethical posting by bigslut not that Im improperly suggesting that bigslut has anything to do with promoting the (couples club ) the Direct Competition and Neighbour to OURPLACE4FUN (now isnt that a coincidence ) but out of 36 posts bigslut certainly wasted time in jumping on the self promoting bandwagon
as one comment was made " 34 posts in 4 days an expert already"
I amongst many others Im sure am a very contented single male member of OURPLACE4FUN
The fees were well worth every penny to ME and its a matter of taste my tastes and expectations of a Good Swingers Club rest with OURPLACE4FUN the Nicest Swingers Club I personally have visited thus far in London
Their Membership fees are only equivelant to just a week on top of a very reasonable entry I personally have never had a bad night at the club
I HAVE visited the club you are seen keen to promote "ONCE" only and frankly its no wonder they dont charge couples a fee to enter
My views are if business at the couples club the club you obviously seem far too keen to represent
really is that bad ------
That you are drawn to publicly slagging off a club youve probably never attended (in the interest of self promotion)
youre A VERY SAD INDIVIDUAL
whilst I undersatnd everyone here is entitled to view and express their and fair
opinion youre expressions are certainly unfair and unnecessarily derogatory and in my opinion purely for self gain
or am I blind ?????
bygeorge
Are you sure your not the owner of Ourplace 4fun??........
Sex God
Quote by da69ve
Are you sure your not the owner of Ourplace 4fun??........
i was thinking the same thing mate..... maybe we have sparked a business war!!!!!
:) :) but they both seem as bad as each other... mr "34 posts in 4 days" and mr "first post which sounds very much like an advert for a club"well i am glad i live oooop north where swinging clubs just seem sooo much more reasonable..... lol
sean xxxxxx
Quote by fabio grooverider
Are you sure your not the owner of Ourplace 4fun??........
i was thinking the same thing mate..... maybe we have sparked a business war!!!!!
:) :) but they both seem as bad as each other... mr "34 posts in 4 days" and mr "first post which sounds very much like an advert for a club"well i am glad i live oooop north where swinging clubs just seem sooo much more reasonable..... lol
sean xxxxxx
all the best clubs are oooop north :cry:
Sex God
we`ve been 2 the other club and personally find a way more sociable , don`t stand in a corner , and push in the 2nd any action starts - type of guy at our place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
as 4 the toilets.............. don`t go there u r lucky to get out alive through the men who have tried to push in behind u when u go to the ladies
that little bit extra cost is well worth it just to have lovelly loos
and be able to relax and feel safe in a friendly atmosphere
with a really nice bunch of guys
thats just our opinion bigslut probably has her own tastes
been to most of the london clubs in the last couple of years and got 3 or 4 favourites
we`re not owners of clubs
2`s
as 4 the toilets.............. don`t go there u r lucky to get out alive through the men who have tried to push in behind u when u go to the ladies
that little bit extra cost is well worth it just to have lovelly loos
and be able to relax and feel safe in a friendly atmosphere
with a really nice bunch of guys
thats just our opinion bigslut probably has her own tastes
been to most of the london clubs in the last couple of years and got 3 or 4 favourites
we`re not owners of clubs
2`s
tsk tsk
fabio grooverider and da69v
cynicism sorry obviously being a first poster albeit a frequent visitor though
seems I didn't understand the rules Ive rechecked the AUP and FINALLY found the Hidden print
1. "all NEW posters who feel they are helping or require help from the fantastic community on this board will automatically get attacked first post by cynics and those who don't live in glass houses "
2. "to become accepted in the community YOU WILL agree with the majority, REFRAIN from posting your opinion as other experienced posters ,will always have better opinions and put you down if they can, because that's what helping is all about." dooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Seems the guy that started this post jerrylondon got slated too by the cynics too
NO I DO NOT OWN THE CLUB OURPLACE4FUN
Okay ill start again so lets drop all my previous comments about my thoughts of the club
As it seems only you guys are allowed to make them without criticism
da69ve FEEL ITS OVERPRICED FOR MALES and not worth the cost
I asked the club why THE FEES WERE AS SUCH:
The answer FROM THE OPERATORS was :: To reduce the amount of applications and lessen the intake of guys to create a more amicable mixed event not outnumbered by single males
Ive travelled the UK and Europe most clubs have two many guys
OURPLACE4FUN do not 1/2 guys per couple is a bloody good ratio for me
But as a couple da69ve who are seeking ONLY couples I fail to see how this fee bothers you and don't see anything helpful in your reply to jerrylondon ITS HIS CHOICE ALSO
Anyway LETS forget the club points the best clubs are oooop north
YOU BOTH AGREE so that's "good" at least that's a HUGE majority verdict not that it helps any persons living in London
One day I may go back oooop north if any of you can suggest a good club to try as a single male that's not costing arms and legs of course and not overwhelmed by guys
I would appreciate it and with a really cheap membership
My point you conveniently ignored was simple
the posts by bigslut if you care to analyse are deviant and primarily point to ADVERTISING a club/clubs
In-fact both of the clubs north London east London bigslut suggests frequently even pms to those requesting info :: are operated by the same people
IN MY OPINION BUT IM a newbie without your skills AND FEEL FREE TO BE EVEN MORE CYNICAL the poster bigslut contravenes board rules
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
AUP RULES INDICATE THE BOARD IS
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
"In summary, if it's illegal, unfriendly, or you're here trying to make money in some way (no matter how directly or indirectly) then you are NOT welcome to use this site, it's that simple!"
"Attempting to sell a service or product of any kind. People come here to meet other people who are here to swing or interested in swinging. They DO NOT come here to see you touting for business."
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
"Spamming - this means posting a link to a site that is only for commercial purposes and is not a genuine Swingers resource. We do not solicit links from anyone being posted unless in the spirit of sharing a genuinely useful or interesting site with others, or if it is a personal non-commercial website. Basically, unless the poster had genuine non-commercial intentions (this is usually obvious), it is considered spam."
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Please excuse my ignorance fabio grooverider and da69ve
I realise now that pointing the obvious out reflects on those that perhaps monitor and may have missed it so I therefore remain guilty of the offence of "attempting in helping" to keep the board true to its purported values
But nonetheless fabio grooverider and da69v I will stand and be counted or slagged off by cynical comments or whatever
Only in the hope that the clear thinking management cum moderators of this board allow me the priviledge of making further apparently in your eyes inane contributions to this board
and to continue voicing my opinion freely as you do
I see no need at all for your cynical replies to me or anyone else especially newbies
I had and still have the belief that swinging was about "choice"
bygeorge
fabio grooverider and da69v
cynicism sorry obviously being a first poster albeit a frequent visitor though
seems I didn't understand the rules Ive rechecked the AUP and FINALLY found the Hidden print
1. "all NEW posters who feel they are helping or require help from the fantastic community on this board will automatically get attacked first post by cynics and those who don't live in glass houses "
2. "to become accepted in the community YOU WILL agree with the majority, REFRAIN from posting your opinion as other experienced posters ,will always have better opinions and put you down if they can, because that's what helping is all about." dooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Seems the guy that started this post jerrylondon got slated too by the cynics too
NO I DO NOT OWN THE CLUB OURPLACE4FUN
Okay ill start again so lets drop all my previous comments about my thoughts of the club
As it seems only you guys are allowed to make them without criticism
da69ve FEEL ITS OVERPRICED FOR MALES and not worth the cost
I asked the club why THE FEES WERE AS SUCH
: The answer FROM THE OPERATORS was :: To reduce the amount of applications and lessen the intake of guys to create a more amicable mixed event not outnumbered by single males
Ive travelled the UK and Europe most clubs have two many guys
OURPLACE4FUN do not 1/2 guys per couple is a bloody good ratio for me
But as a couple da69ve who are seeking ONLY couples I fail to see how this fee bothers you and don't see anything helpful in your reply to jerrylondon ITS HIS CHOICE ALSO
Anyway LETS forget the club points the best clubs are oooop north
YOU BOTH AGREE so that's "good" at least that's a HUGE majority verdict not that it helps any persons living in London
One day I may go back oooop north if any of you can suggest a good club to try as a single male that's not costing arms and legs of course and not overwhelmed by guys
I would appreciate it and with a really cheap membership
My point you conveniently ignored was simple
the posts by bigslut if you care to analyse are deviant and primarily point to ADVERTISING a club/clubs
In-fact both of the clubs north London east London bigslut suggests frequently even pms to those requesting info :: are operated by the same people
IN MY OPINION BUT IM a newbie without your skills AND FEEL FREE TO BE EVEN MORE CYNICAL the poster bigslut contravenes board rules
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
AUP RULES INDICATE THE BOARD IS
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
"In summary, if it's illegal, unfriendly, or you're here trying to make money in some way (no matter how directly or indirectly) then you are NOT welcome to use this site, it's that simple!"
"Attempting to sell a service or product of any kind. People come here to meet other people who are here to swing or interested in swinging. They DO NOT come here to see you touting for business."
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
"Spamming - this means posting a link to a site that is only for commercial purposes and is not a genuine Swingers resource. We do not solicit links from anyone being posted unless in the spirit of sharing a genuinely useful or interesting site with others, or if it is a personal non-commercial website. Basically, unless the poster had genuine non-commercial intentions (this is usually obvious), it is considered spam."
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Please excuse my ignorance fabio grooverider and da69ve
I realise now that pointing the obvious out reflects on those that perhaps monitor and may have missed it so I therefore remain guilty of the offence of "attempting in helping" to keep the board true to its purported values
But nonetheless fabio grooverider and da69v I will stand and be counted or slagged off by cynical comments or whatever
Only in the hope that the clear thinking management cum moderators of this board allow me the priviledge of making further apparently in your eyes inane contributions to this board
and to continue voicing my opinion freely as you do
I see no need at all for your cynical replies to me or anyone else especially newbies
I had and still have the belief that swinging was about "choice"
bygeorge
Bygeorge if you read from the beginning i wasn't telling him what to do.....i was offering a solution to his problem.....why didn't he just ask the wife to go with him.....but he couldn't as he was doing this behind her back, you know "muddy the waters" and all that!!
Oh by the way my remarks about you being the owner were purely tongue in cheek i don't believe it was an attack on a first poster.
Oh by the way my remarks about you being the owner were purely tongue in cheek i don't believe it was an attack on a first poster.
well at least your reply confirms youre actually human and youve considered my feelings as a first poster I respect that and that youve replied and offered an explanation thank you
HOPEFULLY I can now soldier on and become a respected member and considerate poster in this fine community
bygeorge
HOPEFULLY I can now soldier on and become a respected member and considerate poster in this fine community
bygeorge
Sex God
well glad everyones decided to be friends........
2`s
2`s
