Clubs in Hampshire where do you recommend

what swinging clubs would you recommend in the south to visit? We don’t want to go to house party  types, interested in Spas or night club types. Couples nights too please! All the ones we keep finding online that we like the look of have shut down! Where do you enjoy going?

We travel and find hell fire club ok esp the couples only night. There’s a premiere inn nearby so we stay over and make a night of it