Who listed this event on this forum: Trixie, therefore under SH Rules, NOT mine Trixie is the organiser of the social.
In response to this comment "Having read the past messages and their contents.. I would not be happy for persons writing them to attend and spoil everyone funs"
Gorgeously: seen as you have took it upon yourself to get involved without knowing past history first hand I will inform you of some facts: the police were involved but this was my business no-one elses and personal - as a woman you should understand this. A few facts about me, you dont know me and to my knowledge have never spoken or met me, I've been swinging over 13 years so you are in no position to judge whether I embrace swinging or not. We will bump into each other at sometime so I can have a chat to you about your issues with me and what you have based this opinion on. Face to face so much better than from behind a keyboard. I have a profile on another site with many writen verifications - (most attending this social are on same site too) from people who know me/us very very well email me if u want the profile name. SH doesnt doesnt have this facility at present.
You havent been on the site long and i notice you too like your socials, so:
If you attended a social as a single female on your own and well known banned member who had stalked you for over 9 years around the scene circuit was allowed in by the organiser (cocksnoggers who were welcomed into the yorks room with friendliness helped out by myself and playinglady by taking them to their first social 3 years ago and introducing to our friends) didnt provide details to all the people on the list that a banned member was coming - which is against SH rules, backed you into a corner smashed a glass and put it up to your face then threatened to kill follow you home told you where you lived but he was then supported by the male organiser until other members of the social backed me up upon discovering who he was, what would you think? Do your homework.
Also seeing as you have been to several socials yourself and I assume know quite a few people, if you were to put your name down knowing lots of your friends will be attending and not the organiser of the social but someone in the background was trying to stop you attending for their own personal agenga would you just not go? or would you stick up for yourself and not be bullied?
Trixies wording: "and i will be looking at SHREP and those with positive feedback of turning up will be given priority"
If shrep existed when we first joined this site: then playingladys shrep would far exceed most attending. Again view her forum posts to see and ask about its a small world.
All i am asking is for is genuine reasons why playinglady is being cheated out of a place on the main list - and this is being constantly ignored. Socials are open to every member of this site, and non members. I am not a trouble causer neither is playinglady but she is being treated unfairly.
Playing lady has attended every munch social and private meet she has ever put her name to. As i said early her forum posts speak volumes.
Cocksnogger - you didnt post the event (i.e. meaning you are not the organiser) therefore you dont run the list. AGAIN - SH rules maybe you should read them!Trixie should have her own valid reasons why she wont put playinglady on the list, and all i did was ask the organiser why? and this is being avoided. So if im not right then why avoid it? Why be added to the reserve then not be allowed to come??? That shows these actions are not within the spirit of the event - this is rule breaking.
I will always attend socials and munches, always have always will. As a long standing well know member just like to clarify as i said in a previous post which I should not have to explain in the first place, all we want to do is see old friends.
Warming the Bed
plus wasnt coming any way 
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