CUPIDS LAST NITE (TUES)

23 Nov 2005

PAID A VISIT LAST NIGHT AS I HADNT BEEN FOR A FEW WEEKS..NOT SURE IF ANYONE ELSE FROM HERE WAS AT THE CLUB AS WE DONT WEAR BADGES!! HAD A VERY ENJOYABLE TIME DOWNSTAIRS BEING ENTERTAINED, ALONG WITH A FEW OTHER GUYS, BY A VERY SEXY, CURVY BLONDE AND HER PARTNER, WHO PUT ON A VERY SEXY SHOW, BEFORE SHE "HELPED OUT" ! A FEW OF US. INTRIGUED TO KNOW IF THEY,RE REGULARS FROM HERE? SHE HAD BLONDE BOB ( NO..THATS NOT HER PARTNERS NAME !!) AND GLASSES, CAME FROM LIVERPOOL ORIGINALLY, AND APART FROM BEING VERY SEXY,WAS ALSO CHATTY. WENT HOME SMILING ! OH..AND LOVED THE LIQUID KY !!! IF YOU ARE A REG, I WAS THE SCOTTISH GUY WITH THE PIERCED NIP !

23 Nov 2005

ok ok we hear ya no need to shout

23 Nov 2005

How discreet of you Scotsbiker..... rolleyes

23 Nov 2005

well I bet I know who it was from the description and I wasn't there. :shock:
But I aint saying...

23 Nov 2005

I know who it is too
And I dont think she would appreciate having her exploits described and posted on the internet mad

You never heard of discretion ?
oh and no need to shout Im not deaf

23 Nov 2005

Jees !! I,m so sorry that i left my caps button on..how naughty !! please forgive me..what is it about this site?? its so full of people "policing " everything. Did I disrespect this couple in any way?? Not in the slightest, my comments were all well meant and in no way derogeratory..for gods sake they,re swingers..what were they there for ??..I,ve been going to cupids for over 5 years, and always got on well with anyone there..all genuine like minded people. There are a few people in here that seem to think that to swing with someone else, be it a couple or single, you have to form a deep meaningful frienship first...maybe i,ve got it wrong, but it seems like certain peeps spend all thier time in front of the PC ( hope i didnt offend anyone by using capital letters there..didnt mean to "shout"). To reiterate..the couple were both very sexy and also nice people...i,m sorry if this offended them.

23 Nov 2005

ps..i,ve just noticed also that one of the comments above has come from someone who has displayed that they have been awarded the "GOLDEN GOER" award....mmmmm how discreet is that ?!!!

23 Nov 2005

I'm new to all of this.
So I use the PREVIEW button
TC

23 Nov 2005

Thanx captain sensible..I use it too, but didnt think what I said would offend though. Think the fact that I "shouted" upset more of them..how trivial...if i,m not careful i,ll start typing " LOL" and "LMAO" after every sentence !!! I think i,ll stick to having fun in the flesh at clubs etc.

23 Nov 2005

Diid'nt offend or upset me.
Get on with your life sayz I
TC

23 Nov 2005

Quote by scotsbiker69
Did I disrespect this couple in any way?? Not in the slightest

ermmm so who said that then?

Quote by scotsbiker69
SHE HAD BLONDE BOB ( NO..THATS NOT HER PARTNERS NAME !!) AND GLASSES, CAME FROM LIVERPOOL ORIGINALLY!

23 Nov 2005

and breathe!!!!!! 1...2...3....

think i,ll stick to having fun in the flesh at clubs etc

that's assuming people want to play with you, knowing how discreet you are!
problem is, you gave enough of a description - and a commentary of what happened - for people here to know who you're talking about. Forgive me if I'm wrong here but isnt it usually more of a 'what happens in a club stays in a club' thing?
I for one would be mortified if someone I 'met' in a club then came on here the following day to tell all and saundry all about it! You may just have been curious as to wether or not she's (they're) registered users here - but, I'm kinda of the thinking that if she (they) wanted to see you again, arrangements would have been made in the club or msn's exchanged etc.
and your attitude really aint gonna help!

23 Nov 2005

Whew !! I can see this is going to go on for ages !! All i would ask is that anyone remotely interested to scroll back to my original posting, and decide for themselves if in any way I set out to offend anyone... all i was saying was...oh whats the point?... above my posting is a female " looking for a shag" !!...is that whats meant by being discreet? As for attitude, i,m never anything but polite and friendly, perhaps I should have just posted " Guy looking for a shag..meet me at ....... " i,m sure that would have had the " morale police " down on me like a ton of bricks, but its ok for a single female to post it ! ( no disrespect to the female in question).. good luck to her. Ok..thats me said my for now peeps.

24 Nov 2005

Why is it that some people (I'm not referring to any gender here on purpose!) think that just because we're swingers we want everyone to know who we've shagged, when, where and how? In the last few weeks I've had my playing time referred to more than once and it's not just by single males either. As darkfire says, what happens in a club or at a private meet should stay there unless expressly agreed to by the parties involved. I'd never agree to my activities being broadcast, and just because this particular lady played with whoever in a club doesn't mean she wants everyone to know that's what she was up to rolleyes

At least this guy didn't mention her name (even if he did give enough of a description for a lot of people to know who he was talking about :doh smile

24 Nov 2005

Have to say after reading first post on here, we as a cpl totally agree with Darkfire and Angel Chat. as a cpl we like and enjoy the club scene but would be totally horrified if we went to a club and came into forum next day to see a post like that, as has been said needs to stay within the confines of place it happened and between the people, unless all partys agree to it being discussed in open forum before hand.

24 Nov 2005

Ever watched Fight Club Scotsbiker69?
The first rule of Fight Club is................
............. that you don't talk about Fight Club
The second rule of Fight Club is.............
.............that you don't talk about Fight Club
Exactly the same with swinging cool

24 Nov 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Ever watched Fight Club Scotsbiker69?
The first rule of Fight Club is................
............. that you don't talk about Fight Club
The second rule of Fight Club is.............
.............that you don't talk about Fight Club
Exactly the same with swinging

could that guy that i shagged last week in chams.....nah only kidding
It is right tho if you post details on the forum of what happens where and when you will soon find that that people will not want to meet you.
Ok so we are all swingers but that does not mean we want everyone to know what we get upto. they can use their imagination we don't feel the need to advertise it just so people know we are 'getting it'

24 Nov 2005

Quote by scotsbiker69
ps..i,ve just noticed also that one of the comments above has come from someone who has displayed that they have been awarded the "GOLDEN GOER" award....mmmmm how discreet is that ?!!!

Right where do I start scotsbiker ?
Firstly the Golden Goer award was an on going joke with friends.........and the only person allowed to call me that is Denise......that is with my permission. so no indiscretion there
Did you ask the said lady in Cupids if you could post what she was doing with you and others on the internet for hundreds of people to see? I doubt that very much
Yes we are swingers, yes we go to Clubs to play
But one thing we do, is leave what weve done behind, once out the door thats where it stays in the Club, and between the people concerned...........that is what swinging is about.......unlike you broadcasting it to people this lady dosent even know.
If youve been going to Cupids for 5 years then you should know better by now....
end of rant

25 Nov 2005

I cant believe that there are still comments coming in. For any offence caused I apologise. As I wrote earlier, my intention was not to embarass anyone (which I dont feel I have) I,ve seen a hell of a lot worse written on the site. And once again I promise never to use capital letters again sad

Bye bye.

25 Nov 2005

Quote by scotsbiker69
I cant believe that there are still comments coming in. For any offence caused I apologise. As I wrote earlier, my intention was not to embarass anyone (which I dont feel I have) I,ve seen a hell of a lot worse written on the site. And once again I promise never to use capital letters again Bye bye.

Wouldn't it have shown willing and understanding to use the edit button ??