Hello there, Long time reader, occasional poster... Just wondering if the world turns in strange enough circles that there are single females who want a partner or ouples who wish to play and actually take notice of this forum... I certainly hope this is the case, and if so, that you are open enough to reply to me; if not, have fun and stay as shy as I am...
Quote by minotaur Hello there, Long time reader, occasional poster... Just wondering if the world turns in strange enough circles that there are single females who want a partner or ouples who wish to play and actually take notice of this forum... I certainly hope this is the case, and if so, that you are open enough to reply to me; if not, have fun and stay as shy as I am...
yes people both single girls and couples do meet single guys off here u just gotta be patient my friend
It does happen but expect to have to put a lot of effort into it before reaping any rewards. Keep going and every now and again a little gem will come up ;) It can be demoralising at times but stick to it. The worse thing is when you do get contacted and start up an email conversation then the thing just dies for no reason.
Quote by splash_man It does happen but expect to have to put a lot of effort into it before reaping any rewards. Keep going and every now and again a little gem will come up ;)
Can I just add that it's not just single guys that find it difficult :lol2: As a couple we find it very difficult to find a bi guy to meet... And it's even harder to find a couple or single fem :lol2:
when i was a single it was only single guys i met and they have all been off this site. i do agree with Shireen though, its just as bloody hard as a couple as there has to be 3 or 4 of you that have to click not just 2, saying you can find anyone. Earthy xx
Well, thanks for all the (mostly) positive replies!! It also taught me a lesson - don't drink, post and then go on holiday for nearly two weeks, but glad to see that this was near the top on my return! Still going to persist since it will be worth it if the right person is out there. However, if you meet anyone who needs a partner themselves and could be right, do let me know... Hope you're all enjoying yourselves!!
Quote by Shireen It does happen but expect to have to put a lot of effort into it before reaping any rewards. Keep going and every now and again a little gem will come up ;)
Can I just add that it's not just single guys that find it difficult :lol2: As a couple we find it very difficult to find a bi guy to meet... And it's even harder to find a couple or single fem :lol2: I'm a single fem ;)
Planning to go to a Munch --- will I be safe??? And hoping to get chatting here: must find out how to use these emoti-things on youse'all. :
Quote by Shireen It does happen but expect to have to put a lot of effort into it before reaping any rewards. Keep going and every now and again a little gem will come up ;)
Can I just add that it's not just single guys that find it difficult :lol2: As a couple we find it very difficult to find a bi guy to meet... And it's even harder to find a couple or single fem :lol2:
Interesting to see this thread running alongside marcuso's! Well, it's coming up tp christmas now, there seems to be hope for the new year so have a good one all of you and hope to speak and meet later...
to the original question the answer is a defenite yes in fact im actually part of a couple and about 6 months ago we decided to play seperatly because for about 3 years playing as a couple we only played with @ 3 cpls and 1 single fem. since we started seperate omg cant keep the woman away :lol: (ok i mite be exaggerating a little) but in all honestly it is just as hard for a couple to play. :cry: and even tho it is difficult to find a fem/cpl that plays with single men they are out there just be patient. every one have a very merry xmas and i am open 4 offers over the festive period so my mail box is open
Even though our profile says 'No Singles' - we do occasionally meet singles, but these have to be quite special. By special, we mean that they have taken the time to chat and get to know us a little. The majority will not get past the first stage, due to pushiness, arrogance and rudeness and generally behaving as if they are doing us a favour. The one liner will not work with us, nor will the whisper - these are discounted straight away. The other category that lets singles down, with us anyway (couples do this also) You have a nice first chat, begin to think "yes, maybe" but because you have not fallen at their feet straight away, the next time they see you in chat, you dont even get a "Hi" and they have moved on to another target - this just re-iterates that our waiting was the right choice.
Quote by Juniper_couple The other category that lets singles down, with us anyway (couples do this also) You have a nice first chat, begin to think "yes, maybe" but because you have not fallen at their feet straight away, the next time they see you in chat, you dont even get a "Hi" and they have moved on to another target - this just re-iterates that our waiting was the right choice.
I am so glad someone said it and that this came from a couple and not from a single guy as if i had something like this it would have sounded really preachy....... I think this said most of it for me... and i may not get the most meets in the world, but i enjoy everyone i have because they have become friends as such sean xxxxxxxx
A lot of what I wanted to say has been said already. However, as a person who has thoroughly enjoyed Munches and Socials I can honestly say - Yes, it can be totally demorlaising sometimes. You try to get to know people as people (whether you want to play with them or not) and generally try to have a good time and you don't have much luck. But like a few have said, occassionally you meet someone and it's fantastic. Best thing is, persevere. I have, and although I don't swing NEARLY as much as I would like, when it happens it makes you appreciate it all the more....
Hey there, I think that this is a really interesting thread. I'm a single bi female and even as a genuine and reasonably friendly one ( I hope!) it's never that simple. I've met a few single guys, one was great the other was fine, but it's a bit nerve wrecking the first time you do it. I think it can take a lot of courage for anyone, couple or single to build up to meeting up with a stranger in the flesh. I think that for anyone it makes a big difference if you make the effort to get to know the other people a bit before going in for the 'kill' as it were. I haven't yet reached the stage where I've met up with a couple, simply because I've not established a sufficiently strong connection - and to be honest I havent' looked that hard. I've had a look at the adds mostly and good god they can be intimidating, they're all a bit random and someone displaying their cock - well is likely to be one!! I think that the chat rooms are interesting but it's a bit off-putting to be bombarded with whispers when you kind of want to just get involved in a bit of banter. I think that having a lot more about yourself as a person in the add will get you a long way with anyone 'normal'. This is rather ironic coming from me as my profile is rather barren - the last fella I met up with told me he was convinced I was a man.. what am I doing wrong!!! Any hoo - any advice on my ramblings and a good way to go about meeting a sexy friendly couple while on the site would be appreciated. Amber x
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so have a good one all of you and hope to speak and meet later...
and a good chat...
