We are thinking about arranging a get together (orgy!!) sometime in easter. We have been to a couple of parties now that have been held in rented apartment, and we would like to try this ourselves and get some couples, single ladies and men together for some sexy fun and frolics. We would would be looking for nice, attractive and friendly couples and singles. At the moment we don't have a location, but it would be somewhere central, plush with hopefully big beds that can get 20 people on them!!! We reckon in order to get somewhere nice and posh, we would need to charge around £50 a couple, £40 for single males and obviously single ladies are free. A few free drinks and food would be a possiblity, but essentially the majority of the fee would be going towards the cost of the location. If you would be happy to pay this for a party, please vote and we will look into it if people like the idea. Thanks James & Claire
i voted no, mainly because i wouldnt like to be judged on whether im "hot" enough to attend by someone that doesnt know me. or does know me for that matter! "vetting" and "applicants" just doesnt make it sound like my kind of thing. also the price is a bit steap but i understand youd be going for high end accomodation. finally, im not sure about single females always going for free on stuff like this...im an adult, i can pay my own way good luck with it though, sure youll get interest i just wanted to explain my vote for you.
I voted maybe however like sexkitten says above I wouldn't like the thought of bieng judged by whether we we're sexy enough or not by strangers. What you might find sexy - others may not. I also don't agree with the price. Why couples 50 & single men 40? :shock: Women free For equal opportunities I would have thought couples 50, single men & women 25.
Thanks for you thoughts guys. This is something we have thought about doing, but not really sure how to go about it so comments are helpful. I appreciate your comments regarding the vetting, but rather than it being an elitist process, we mean we would try and get a good 'range' of people. There are certain things we like in people but we do like to think that we would be able to judge what other people like as well and make decisions based on this. Also with the cost, single girls are very difficult to meet up with (we haven't had any luck yet) so charging them to attend seems the wrong thing to do, although we will consider changing this policy after you comments. Keep them coming guys, they are much appreciated
We would vet any applicants and obviously only hot, sexy couple and singles would be invited.
Ok, doesn't sound good and a bit 'up our own arse'!!! We don't consider ourselves to be Brad and Angelina, so maybe it should say attractive, friendly couples
This wouldn't be a commerical event, the charge would be to cover the the cost of a location, drinks, food and potential breakages. I have seen a few threads on here were a 'charge' has been mentioned and although not £50, a charge is a charge
Apolgies for the addtional choices on the poll, edited the thread and not really sure what has happened.......mod help please!!! Just click on either 'Yes' or 'No' to place your vote.
Quote by R6_biker I hate to be a party pooper but isn't a post talking about charging for anything on here against the AUP? x
munches only charge people to cover the costs, this actually sounds very much like like a commercial venture..... which is drifting very close to the AUP..... but I know what the arguement is going to be.. well people are doing it for "club meets" why can't we.. and I think it is something that should be looked at again..... I was doing the sums.... 20 couples at 50 pounds each... £1000 before you even talk about single men :shock:
and I've rented apartments for the night when hotels unavailable. Not paid anywhere near £1000 Although (in edit) I guess you guys would be looking for a fairly big apartment so, that's probably why the increased cost. Still, not sure I would be happy to pay so much. Would rather pay it direct to a club I think. Renting apartments means security deposits and all that kind of thing - wouldn't want the responsibility if I was the organiser or the blame if I was a party goer if something got broken or damaged after I had left etc... Nola x
Quote by Mal We currently have rules governing how Munches are run and organised on here. Where people wish to organise a social event, we allow you to do your own thing, which is correct. Why should we dictate how you want to enjoy yourselves? However, due to recent circumstances, we have decided that certain conditions will apply to social events and parties publicised through Swinging Heaven. These are as follows:
1. The event is the responsibility of the organiser and a list of attendees is to be made available if requested. 2. If you know that banned people are attending you should state that this is the case as soon as known in the opening post. Swinging Heaven is run for the good and benefit of its members, not anyone else. Wherever possible we endeavour to ensure that when you go to either a Munch or a Social, you can go knowing you will feel safe in the company of those attending.
Updated by admin 18 Nov 2008: Its is ok to organise an event for charity provided that you are not making a profit either directly or indirectly, receipts etc must be made available if requested. Its unacceptable for contributions to be mandatory, so if a social has a charity element included, then all contributions should be voluntary and not form an integral part of the cost for the night. To avoid confusion, this needs to be made clear at the time of posting, together with the exact costs (if any).
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I agree this does come close to potential infringement, but I'll leave it open for discussion for now. If a more senior mod comes along that might not be the case though. ;-)
Thanks for the clarification cubes. I do agree it does sound like a commercial event, but in order to get somewhere plush and get it ready in time and then clear up the day after it would mean a weekend rental (Saturday morning to Monday morning), which, dependant on the place would be £1000 minimum. If another mod has the opinion that this breaks site rules please let me know, but I wiould also like to know how to advertise a non commericla event without breaking the rules. With regards to the comment about security deposits, obviously this is something we ourselves would have to arrange.
Much easier said than done. Personally, we wouldn't like to do something like that in our own home. I'm sure some people would be more than happy, but just isn't our thing and wouldn't feel comfortable asking someone to host a party
Why would you allow single fems in for free? Yet still charge single males the same price as a couple? It would be better going to a club where you know there is going to be a nice mix of people, ages, sex, body shape, personality, plus its a lot less money
Also with the cost, single girls are very difficult to meet up with (we haven't had any luck yet) so charging them to attend seems the wrong thing to do, although we will consider changing this policy after you comments.
At this type of event you could also see who is going. We haven't been to a club before but we have heard mixed opinions of them. Going to a club isn't our thing as we have no idea who is going to be there and whether would fancy anyone.
Quote by Veryrudeindeed Also with the cost, single girls are very difficult to meet up with (we haven't had any luck yet) so charging them to attend seems the wrong thing to do, although we will consider changing this policy after you comments.
So technically we would be facilitating for free then?! :giggle:
Quote by Dirtygirly Also with the cost, single girls are very difficult to meet up with (we haven't had any luck yet) so charging them to attend seems the wrong thing to do, although we will consider changing this policy after you comments.
So technically we would be facilitating for free then?! :giggle: Ah, so I pay my £50 and been vetted as 'hot' enough to attend, (even at my age) but does that guarantee me a shag for my £50?? or should I save my money? :bolt:
Quote by Veryrudeindeed we would need to charge around £50 a couple, £40 for single males and obviously single ladies are free.
Why is it obvious that single ladies are free?
Quote by Veryrudeindeed Also with the cost, single girls are very difficult to meet up with (we haven't had any luck yet) so charging them to attend seems the wrong thing to do,
Wrong? Definitely not. And as a lot of single men are classed as timewasters, how does this factor into your costings?
Quote by Veryrudeindeed I do agree it does sound like a commercial event,
Thats probably because it IS a commercial event, money is changing hands.
Quote by fabio I was doing the sums.... 20 couples at 50 pounds each... £1000 before you even talk about single men :shock:
So with such a significant amount of money, what will happen to any profit? Also, if you don't get the turnout you require for the hire, who will pay for the shortfall, will it be you, or will you be asking those who have made it if they can pay extra? And if we want to get really pedantic, being a commercial event, what kind of insurances are available?
Quote by Dawnie We would would be looking for nice, attractive and friendly couples and singles.
Can I just ask what makes a person, nice and attractive Just because you like a persons look, does not mean I will like them or Sarah would :dunno: and I am very fussy!!! :bounce:
OK, we seem to be covering the same ground again here. I think the general consensus is 'No' to paying £50 for an event. The finer details hadn't been thought about as this is just something we fancied trying as we would have had some sort of control over it. We have been to a couple of parties before, some good, some bad. Organising it ourselves allows us some control over the aspects we didn't like about parties and the parts we did. The idea wasn't to make any profit, purely to cover costs as a nice venue, drinks and food wouldn't be cheap. Hope this answers everyones questions
Quote by Veryrudeindeed OK, we seem to be covering the same ground again here. I think the general consensus is 'No' to paying £50 for an event. The finer details hadn't been thought about as this is just something we fancied trying as we would have had some sort of control over it. We have been to a couple of parties before, some good, some bad. Organising it ourselves allows us some control over the aspects we didn't like about parties and the parts we did. The idea wasn't to make any profit, purely to cover costs as a nice venue, drinks and food wouldn't be cheap. Hope this answers everyones questions
Doesn't answer "what happens to any profit" and also "what if there is a shortfall, who pays?"
We would ensure that the number of people coming/invited was enough to cover costs. If any was made I would put it towards my new Porsche Caymen fund......only another £48,000 needed........ :twisted:
Quote by Veryrudeindeed We would ensure that the number of people coming/invited was enough to cover costs. If any was made I would put it towards my new Porsche Caymen fund......only another £48,000 needed........ :twisted:
<giggle> .. can I have one too please and I'll do PR for the event?
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i just wanted to explain my vote for you. 
