Essex Munch Times up, sorry no more as now on way there lol

16 Jan 2007

I was just wondering if anyone is travelling back to london after the Munch. Im afraid that joe cant make it and i would like to return to London straight after, and i could do with some company (or a lift) wink

I know its maybe a bit far to travel back but if you are and you would like some company send me a pm and we could arrange something.
Louise xx
I may have to cancel if i cant get something sorted out, sad

but i will let you know as soon as possible.

16 Jan 2007

Louise....
Have you spoken to etfcboy1971 & Robert1961, as i am sure both of these reprobates are from the London area...
They can be vouched for.
TnT

16 Jan 2007

Quote by Abilene

Anyone ( who I have met before ) possibly up for a room share? No kinky stuff ... just room share.

I'm staying 60 miles away if you want to share with me rotflmao

(This will make sense to at least one person lol

)
Regards
Harry Jones
Fuckin 'ell Harry, you get further away each time!! You know I have to try and be within stumbling distance of the hotel!! lol.
I lied its miles (I'm going to drive home, its quite a fast route). :lol:
Regards
Harry Jones

16 Jan 2007

Hi
Sorry I haven't been in touch. Hope you had a good Christmas and New Year.
Had mad time at home with family problems. Son splitting with his first serious girlfriend! Daughter having problems with her fella. I feel more like a relate counsellor at the moment.
Am I still on the list? Is it still okay to be your maid?
Luv Michelle x x

17 Jan 2007

Hi Michelle,
Sorry to hear you have lifes woah's on your shoulders... guess thats part of the teratory when you have older kids.
Your name is down on the list, and you will indeed be the maid.
TnT

18 Jan 2007

WOO HOO
nice to see you back hun... of course you can be put back on the list!!
look forward to seeing you in 3 weeks and 2 days time biggrin

:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:

18 Jan 2007

Sorry Single Tulip but I need to back out of this Munch sad

I need to save up some money as it is likely that I won't have my Temp job for that much longer....and I don't want to be left without any money....
Hope you all have a marvellous time!!
Sorry again.... :(

19 Jan 2007

hi can you add me to the list please very new to this let me know if ok to attend matt2005 xxx biggrin

:!:

19 Jan 2007

Helen... shame you can't make it, but thanks for letting us know.
matt2005... your name is on the reserve list!!

19 Jan 2007

Quote by matt2005
hi can you add me to the list please very new to this let me know if ok to attend matt2005 xxx :!:

your name is on the list!

19 Jan 2007

Quote by HornyBear
PSSST TOOLIP
They relased me.
Can an Ex-Con be put back on the list please?
Chris xxx

knew it was too good to be true :cry: :cry: :cry:

19 Jan 2007

Quote by Fun_Essex_Tony
PSSST TOOLIP
They relased me.
Can an Ex-Con be put back on the list please?
Chris xxx

knew it was too good to be true :cry: :cry: :cry:
could have sworn i was signed in as me and not Tony lol... oh well. confused

19 Jan 2007

Hi Tulip,
Is there any chance of me getting on the list for this munch? I don't take up much room wink

Many thanks
Markther

20 Jan 2007

Hiya tony and tulip
I am considering this as Bassman is having his stag night this night and there is no way I am staying home that night!!!! I need to find a way to get there and back, plus somewhere to stay so will get back to you if and when I sort something out lol

20 Jan 2007

markther & fembernie your names are down
will send out hotel list for you too! smile

20 Jan 2007

Were my eyes playing tricks on me or was this listed as a Munch. Not that it bothers me, i was just wondering why its changed (did it change?)
Louise xx

20 Jan 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Were my eyes playing tricks on me or was this listed as a Munch. Not that it bothers me, i was just wondering why its changed (did it change?)
Louise xx

Quote by Fun_Essex_Tony
We would like to have 1 single guy for every cpl/fem attending.....
as we seem to have more single guys going now

Coz they are not letting any more single males in.............that is not a munch under site rules, as a munch is open to all no matter, if male, females, couples, bi, cd, cross dressers etc....................
Munch rules:- (found on the front page)
What's a Munch?
A munch is a purely social event held in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where members of Swinging Heaven get to meet each other. As there's no play involved everyone can relax which gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on, and gives the regulars time to catch-up with old friends and make new ones.
You'll find organised Swingers Munches 'stickied' at the top of the Let's Meet Up forum. Usually they are centrally organised by one or two people who are more than likely well known members of Swinging Heaven. The exact location is kept strictly secret between the organisers and those who have been invited; strictly secret before and after the event. Organisers will usually only give out the exact location information to those who are invited just a few days before the event.
Getting an invite most likely involves getting registered on the forum and PMing (sending a Private Message via the forum) to the organiser asking to be invited, or adding your name(s) to the list by replying to the Munch thread - it's that simple.
A Munch is open to all - couples, singles, Gay, Bi, CDs, etc., there are no limits. The exception to this is the brand new newbie, i.e. those who have just joined the site or have not been an active participant. This is only to prevent gawpers, journalists and those who are just TOO curious. Remember, if you are keen to attend a Munch and meet other swingers, but are considered too new for this one, join in and keep posting because there'll be another Munch coming along shortly.
We have a strict rule that anyone organising a Munch on here is doing so solely for current and active Swinging Heaven members, and is not promoting, colluding or otherwise involving any other website, club or group. Only people from Swinging Heaven who have been specifically invited are allowed to attend the Munches that are advertised on here
Munches are a great way to finally meet all those people you've been chatting with on the Swinging Heaven Forum or in the Swinging Heaven Chatroom - and then who knows where it might lead!
Fancy organising a Munch?
Firstly, does anyone on here know you? You will have to be known as an active member on this site before people can trust you to organise a Munch properly. Remember, people travel all over the country to attend these and spend a lot on travel and hotel costs. They won't do that to attend yours if you are not known. Also, you should be a good organiser and make sure you have enough spare time to do it properly.
Where will I hold it?
The Munch needs to be held in a private function room, or separate bar area of somewhere like a pub or social club. It should have its own bar area, and be separate from the 'general public' bar, preferably with its own toilets, and area for disco and buffet (if you chose to put a buffet on). Perhaps consider trying to persuade the landlord to close the pub to the general public and fill the place with us! Whatever you do, the idea is to separate as far as possible your member guests from the general public. Discretion and privacy are very important to many members of Swinging Heaven.
Security and Discretion
You should take into account members' security and discretion when choosing the people to provide the disco and control of access. Many very successful Munches have had these services provided by members of Swinging Heaven attending the Munch.
How do I get this started?
Having found a suitable venue, explain to the owner what you hope to do and discuss things like buffets, DJs, control of access, disabled access and private party status. Does the owner know about swinging? If he/she does, then be open with them about who will be attending. If not, perhaps book it as a birthday party.
Is there a cost involved?
We all love a freebie, but you may incur costs for buffets, DJs, hire of the room, door/bar staff, etc. This Site is a free Site and we therefore do not allow advertising for any function likely to make a profit. However, we don't expect you to be out of pocket either! Don't just think of a number and say you'll keep the balance or give it to a charity. Work out costs per head. In the past it's been OK to 'pass a hat round' as the only source of income for the night, to put towards the cost of bar/door staff or the DJ. OK, but don't do it several times during the night for each category. Once and once only.
Afters Parties
Any Munch organised on this site is for Swingers who occasionally like to 'play' with each other, although this is not what Munches are about, they are just for meeting people in a relaxed, no pressure environment. So, while it's perfectly reasonable that people might want to arrange for something else to happen afterwards, this is not to be part of the Munch and must not be arranged in the same thread as the Munch - nor can the separate threads be hyper-linked to each other. Any afters party will most likely be private, and therefore entrance is not guaranteed and groups can be restricted, for example, only a few single males. There may be an entrance fee involved and it may be held in a sex club, which newbies may not feel comfortable about. A Munch and any afters parties that may be organised are totally different to each other by their very nature and intent, which is why we want to keep an element of separation between the two on the site also. Munches should not just be treated as 'feeders' to afters parties!
Who do I allow to go?
Rule of thumb is regular and current members of either the Forums or the Chatroom. As mentioned earlier about newbies, if they are too new or not regular participators, then sorry, tell them no and maybe next time. As the organiser, you decide your 'cut-off' date for how new people must be not to be invited and how many posts someone is expected to have made, but have flexibility and ask if someone who is a regular can vouch for them. After all, as we said above, Munches give the newer members a chance to meet and ask questions of more experienced members in a relaxed and neutral environment.
Note: If someone is currently banned from either the Forum or the Chatroom, they are not eligible to attend.
How much detail do I publish in the forum?
The date, approximate location (e.g. Manchester) and maximum allowed to attend, if necessary. The exact details of the pub/club etc, should only be sent out by PM about a week before and ONLY to those invited. You must also stress to those invited NOT to pass on the details to anyone else, no matter what excuse they come up with. Don't forget people may want overnight accommodation, so it's worth getting a contact list of local hotels and B&Bs ready as early as possible so that people can book ahead. But these details must be sent by Private Message ONLY and not published in the open forum.
How do I get my Munch thread 'stickied'?
All Munch threads are stickied at the top of the Let's Meet Up forum. For your munch thread to join them it can't be more than 4 months until the actual event. Assuming your Munch thread and organising adheres to the above criteria, and it is within 4 months of the event, simply ask a Moderator to sticky it for you.

20 Jan 2007

Just to let everybody know, we were unaware that there was such highly strict rules and it has been sorted now, and should be re-assigned and stickied as a Munch!
We do hope that more couples and females want to add to the social list, as it would be nice to have an equal proportion/representation of Males/females and couples.
TnT

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Fun_Essex_Tony
Just to let everybody know, we were unaware that there was such highly strict rules and it has been sorted now, and should be re-assigned and stickied as a Munch!
We do hope that more couples and females want to add to the social list, as it would be nice to have an equal proportion/representation of Males/females and couples.
TnT

It has now been re-stickied as a munch, but as an experienced organiser of Munches, and Im sure Sarah and a lot of others will confirm this, the mix is totally irrelavent. It is a social night and it makes absolutely no difference if there are mainly couples or singles attending. If it was a private party, then I would agree.
Any event that is being run as an offical Swinging Heaven Munch must meet all the rules that Sarah has kindly quoted above. That includes no restrictions at all and No BANNED members. Which is why the Mod Team always check the attendance list before the event, and if it is found that the rules have been broken then the organisers would not be allowed to organise any other events and may end up being banned from the site (dependant on which rule was broken).
Tulip and Essex Tony are fully aware of these rules and are sticking to the Munch rules, so if anyone is thinking of going, you can be assured that they are running this event in line with everything listed above.
So if anyone who has not been to a munch before is worried or concerned that there may potentially be more single males, then let me assure you, it will make absolutely no difference. If you go to any club or pub, the numbers of males/females are never evenly balanced, so why should it matter at a munch. Just get your names down and have a good time wink

22 Jan 2007

Hi just thought we'd post in here even though T & T know that we can't make it now....due to really good friends daughter getting married end of Feb we've had to transfer our babysitter over to that day......i'm sure we will make the next one though, we hope you all have a really good time :P
Love Sharon and Dave (enjoy) xxxxxxxxx

22 Jan 2007

Hi Enjoyall12
Thanks for the post, we will take your names off the list, and you will be missed i am sure.
Hope the wedding goes really well, and see you really soon xxx
TnT

23 Jan 2007

Hi one of the newbies to the site ,been to munches before--loveto come to this one,pleease. : lol

23 Jan 2007

kia.. your name is down!

24 Jan 2007

ONLY 2 WEEKS (and a cpl of days) TO GO!!!! drinkies

put your name down now so you dont miss out.
comfirmation will be needed very soon but we will mail you, so don't panic lol.
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
:taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz:

24 Jan 2007

Quote by Fun_Essex_Tony
ONLY 2 WEEKS (and a cpl of days) TO GO!!!!
put your name down now so you dont miss out.
comfirmation will be needed very soon but we will mail you, so don't panic lol.
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
:taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz:

You are just too good to us all biggrin

Regards
Harry Jones

24 Jan 2007

Can I also be included please! smile

25 Jan 2007

Quote by Heavencanw8
hi Single Tulip & Tony
We don't appear to be on your list
Please add us 24564
Kaz N Nige xxxx

OOPS... thought we had added you already.
your on the list now!
sorry confused

dave.. your name is down.

25 Jan 2007

mail has been sent out asking you to confirm........
if for some reason i've forgotten you.... shout soon! lol

26 Jan 2007

Ive sent my confirmation back.
Louise xx
Oh and i forgot to say, i will be glad to help you out on the bar, 1 for you

, 2 for me :drinkies: innocent

:giggle:
Oh and Btw, anyone i serve a drink to has to flash their bits redface

sorry i mean badge at me first. That way i get to meet as many peeps as i can. wink

Louise xx

26 Jan 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Ive sent my confirmation back.
Louise xx
Oh and i forgot to say, i will be glad to help you out on the bar, 1 for you , 2 for me :drinkies: :giggle:

any help will be much appreciated and you shouldnt be needed for much more than half an hour
p.s.... make mine a double :drinkies:
see you in 2 weeks time lol