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Hi all. My first post so be gentle with me if I make a mistake!
I know this might be a longshot but wth. I'm looking for a sexy lady who can entice my wife into this whole new world of fun.
She is quite straight-laced and talks about having a 3sum during sex but needs a gentle nudge. I was picturing a scenario (might be complete fantasy but I'll soon find out) where we meet with you as my potential new business customer for a meal at the hotel in which you are staying and spin a few lines to eventually bring out the bi tendancies I strongly feel she may have. She is a fit 35, 34d, size 8/10 and has long blonde hair.
I know I might be asking for the impossible, but hey- don't ask, don't get.
Anyone any other ideas with a proven record?
Don't do it ....well not the way you have in mind.
This is a set up that could go very wrong when your partner finds out and may put her off the idea she is ready she will let you know.
Hello and :welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven
Hope you enjoy it here. :thumbup:
Now for the advice part.......
That is possibly the worstpost I've ever read in here. It reaks of pure selfishness, unthoughfulness and is based on lies and deceit.
I think you ought to keep that where it belongs "as a fantasy"
If someone had thought about doing that to me they'd get a drink thown in their face, food poured over their head and that would be the last they ever saw of me.
Sorry, but you did ask rolleyes
Agreed!
I love those kind of set up scenarios once in a while but with everyone in on the game, not as what is effectively a honey trap. That's a lot more than a gentle nudge and will probably will backfire horribly! :shock:
Talk to your wife, bring that fantasy into your bedroom talk and go at her pace!
Right- so not a brilliant idea then. Sounded extremely good to me.
So, any other solutions to help ?
Btw, thanks for the replies- that was the point- even if it does make me look like a heartless git!
Back to the drawing board tehn- lol
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Right- so not a brilliant idea then. Sounded extremely good to me.
So, any other solutions to help ?
Btw, thanks for the replies- that was the point- even if it does make me look like a heartless git!
Back to the drawing board tehn- lol

Well it would...its your fantasy not hers!
Quote by SuperDave
Right- so not a brilliant idea then. Sounded extremely good to me.
So, any other solutions to help ?
Btw, thanks for the replies- that was the point- even if it does make me look like a heartless git!
Back to the drawing board tehn- lol

Well done for taking the constructive criticism constructively. :thumbup:
I think it sounded good to you because it was yourfantasy.
Try and imagine if your wife had a secret fantasy of seeing you get shagged by another bloke so she posted on here asking for one to come and join you?
Take the advice given, take it slowly and talk to each other about your fantasies. You can then progress on to talking about which fantasies you both would like to make a reality!!!!
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Right- so not a brilliant idea then. Sounded extremely good to me.
So, any other solutions to help ?
Btw, thanks for the replies- that was the point- even if it does make me look like a heartless git!
Back to the drawing board tehn- lol

Yes, talk to your wife! Don't assume that because she fantasises about threesomes during sex that she wants to do that in real life. Sometimes a fantasy is nothing more than that - however much you might wish it otherwise!
Thank you all again for your responses.
I'm not really heartless at all honest- just thoughtless by the reaction! lol.
Have any of you experienced a similar partner reaction or were you lucky enough to already be with a convert?
bloody hell just as her out right if she wants a 3sum if she says no forget it
how hard can it be?
you can't nudge someone to do what tou want them to do, either she will or she wont and all you can do is ask confused