I have been searching on here for two years. I just cannot find a couple who want a lomg term friendship. Some of the ads on here make your hair stand on end! Don't they realise the dangers?
Surely there must be a couple for me somewhere?
I am considerate, friendly, discreet, kind and sensitive. Good body, caring and reliable.
None of this makes any diffrence these days.
It's all about shagging as many people as you can in as little time as you can.
It's so disheartening, I am just about to give up I think.
I suppose the ratio of men to couples is so large that most of us just don't have a hope in hell. Makes you wonder why we keep trying.
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Sorry to be awkward but I totally disagree with what you are saying about couples only wanting a quick shag. I would actually say that there are very few that only want what you are suggesting.
I presume from your membership date that you have been using the photo adds up to now, well the photo adds and the forums are two completely different animals and the 'majority' of the couples on the forums would much rather get to know people before they agree to meet. Maybe you could try getting yourself known on the forums, join in with the banter and do a nice little introductory post in the cafe. Once people get used to seeing you around and get to know your 'personality' a little, then why not get your name down for one of the many socials which are going on.
I do agree that the number of single males looking for couples is definately way above the number of couples who are looking to meet but I am sure that if you join in the with banter on the forums, you wil find that it is more of a 'community spirit' than the adds and you never know, you just might be one of those single guys who are in demand
Good luck and dont be negative, just look upon it as a learning curve, and by joining the forums you are climbing further up that curve
it might also help if you told people a little bit about yourself, perhaps put on a photo or two (and please, no cock shots) :wink:
I presume from your membership date that you have been using the photo adds up to now, well the photo adds and the forums are two completely different animals and the 'majority' of the couples on the forums would much rather get to know people before they agree to meet. Maybe you could try getting yourself known on the forums, join in with the banter and do a nice little introductory post in the cafe. Once people get used to seeing you around and get to know your 'personality' a little, then why not get your name down for one of the many socials which are going on.
I do agree that the number of single males looking for couples is definately way above the number of couples who are looking to meet but I am sure that if you join in the with banter on the forums, you wil find that it is more of a 'community spirit' than the adds and you never know, you just might be one of those single guys who are in demand
Good luck and dont be negative, just look upon it as a learning curve, and by joining the forums you are climbing further up that curve
it might also help if you told people a little bit about yourself, perhaps put on a photo or two (and please, no cock shots) :wink:
Sex God
Quote by maidstonemike
Thanks for your advice, you are right, I only search the ads. To be honest, I never cosidered the forum, as I have seen some forums that are really bad.
Thanks again.
Well this forum is a nice place to be, honest, so stick around and join in with the banter, I am sure you will have fun and the next time we are in Maidstone, you can make us a brew!
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aww thanks but I am sure no-one believes all this waffle I keep coming out with Quote by maidstonemike
I have been searching on here for two years. I just cannot find a couple who want a lomg term friendship. Some of the ads on here make your hair stand on end! Don't they realise the dangers?
Surely there must be a couple for me somewhere?
I am considerate, friendly, discreet, kind and sensitive. Good body, caring and reliable.
None of this makes any diffrence these days.
It's all about shagging as many people as you can in as little time as you can.
It's so disheartening, I am just about to give up I think.
I suppose the ratio of men to couples is so large that most of us just don't have a hope in hell. Makes you wonder why we keep trying.
Don't get dishearted......there are some lovely couples out there. You just have to be patient :!:
It takes a little while to get yourself known and then.................
:wink: :wink: :wink:Its worth it :!: :!: :thumbup:
