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Hello all.
Despite my length (of years- you smutty people) I have never been to a swingers club.
I find myself at a loose end in Bolton on the evening of the 19th July.
I am looking for a friendly couple to help me by showing me the ropes and ensuring that I do not make a complete idiot of myself?
Any helpful souls feeling generous, please drop me a line??
Cheers
Shameless bump as I'm sure this must have been overlooked. biggrin
So much for the friendly north then?
I think your problem here is it's not clear what's "in it" for the couple - you've not said which club you fancy, and I'm not even sure there ARE any in Bolton, so why would a couple who were going somewhere decide to "adopt" you for the evening? They also might feel you were after something....
Suggest instead you head on your own to Cupids in Manchester - the staff wil make you welcome & show you round, and there's always a good crowd in there.
Hang around the bar and they'll get chatting to you - or else go for a look around & you may find you don't need conversation that much wink :wink:
Good luck....!
Thanks Manchester man.
I'm not "out" for anything, just never been along before and as such didn't want to make an idiot of myself!
Will take your advice on board, thanks again.
Quote by manchester_man
I think your problem here is it's not clear what's "in it" for the couple - you've not said which club you fancy, and I'm not even sure there ARE any in Bolton, so why would a couple who were going somewhere decide to "adopt" you for the evening? They also might feel you were after something....
Suggest instead you head on your own to Cupids in Manchester - the staff wil make you welcome & show you round, and there's always a good crowd in there.
Hang around the bar and they'll get chatting to you - or else go for a look around & you may find you don't need conversation that much wink :wink:
Good luck....!

not all couples only help people if theres something 'in it' for them lol i'm more than happy to take new people to clubs without expoecting anything in return and have on a number of occasions gone in with single guys so they can have a look round without having to pay out costly membership fees b4 they even know if they like the place, however i'm not in manchester so no that wasnt a offer lol
Thanks all and also for the pm's, some very useful advice.
Naughty, you don't fancy opening your own club do you?
I'd be your first "member" biggrin
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I think your problem here is it's not clear what's "in it" for the couple - you've not said which club you fancy, and I'm not even sure there ARE any in Bolton, so why would a couple who were going somewhere decide to "adopt" you for the evening? They also might feel you were after something....
Suggest instead you head on your own to Cupids in Manchester - the staff wil make you welcome & show you round, and there's always a good crowd in there.
Hang around the bar and they'll get chatting to you - or else go for a look around & you may find you don't need conversation that much wink :wink:
Good luck....!

not all couples only help people if theres something 'in it' for them lol i'm more than happy to take new people to clubs without expoecting anything in return and have on a number of occasions gone in with single guys so they can have a look round without having to pay out costly membership fees b4 they even know if they like the place, however i'm not in manchester so no that wasnt a offer lol
Sorry Naughty - didn't mean to imply that there were no couples who might offer to help out. (Pleased to hear that generosity is alive & well in yam-yamland as it is elsewhere :wink: .) Simply making the point that it's a couples' market on here - they are generally the ones who can pick and choose their company from the motley selection of blokes who'd like to meet them! So the more that it can be a "win-win" the more likely SuperDave is to find willing volunteers to take him along to a club.
I wish both you and him the best of luck...