Hi i have been a member of this site for quite a wile but no am looking in to getting in to it alot more. my add's are on the site but i am not getting any relpys. so please help me and tel me what i am doing wrong,
i live in wigan and am looking to meet stright cuplues and single woman,
so please help me
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Hi all i am new and need help
nice body photo :thumbup: cock shot (not that you need one on there anyway) is dark and doesnt show much so is there any point of having it on there?
would be preferable if you didnt say 'anything over 45' - and i dont mean your age limit, i mean the 'anything' bit - makes it sound like you're objectifying real people, and most dont like that
Spelling and correct use of punctuation , like capital letters often show's you've put some thought and effort into writing the ad - as does actually finishing it off with a good solid paragraph not trailing off mid sentance with a '.......' - looks like you got bored half way through and couldnt be arsed to finish it.
A bit more about what who you're looking for in terms of looks, build, interests etc might also help - 'anything
under 45' is a bit of a catch-all statement and you might find that there's simply not enough detail.
You are just one of thousands of single males on this site, make yourself stand out.... yadda yadda yadda fookin broken record....
and is 5ft5 your real height?
if you primarily use the chatroom or intend on handing round for a bit in the forum, fill your profile in as that's often people's first port of call and will determine wether they bother reading the ads..... if you're primarily an ads user - just have the one ad and make it a good one
would be preferable if you didnt say 'anything over 45' - and i dont mean your age limit, i mean the 'anything' bit - makes it sound like you're objectifying real people, and most dont like that
Spelling and correct use of punctuation , like capital letters often show's you've put some thought and effort into writing the ad - as does actually finishing it off with a good solid paragraph not trailing off mid sentance with a '.......' - looks like you got bored half way through and couldnt be arsed to finish it.
A bit more about what who you're looking for in terms of looks, build, interests etc might also help - 'anything
under 45' is a bit of a catch-all statement and you might find that there's simply not enough detail. You are just one of thousands of single males on this site, make yourself stand out.... yadda yadda yadda fookin broken record....
and is 5ft5 your real height?
if you primarily use the chatroom or intend on handing round for a bit in the forum, fill your profile in as that's often people's first port of call and will determine wether they bother reading the ads..... if you're primarily an ads user - just have the one ad and make it a good one
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Hi i have been a member of this site for quite a wile but no am looking in to getting in to it alot more. my add's are on the site but i am not getting any relpys. so please help me and tel me what i am doing wrong,
okay..... a few bits of information for you that will highlight what i am about to say.....
No. of ads on men seeking women (where your ad is).......11412
whereas no of ads in women seeking men....966...
so outnumbered 12-1 approx..... upshot being women can afford to be really really choosy...
I reckon in the 2 yrs i have been here, to the ad i have itself i have probably had about 10 replies tops..... if you are going to rely on the ad on its own, you are likely to be disappointed..
there are other parts of the site other than the ads.... the chatrooms and the forums, a lot of these people don't venture into the ads....so before today, you had posted 4 times in 6 months.... obviously to those people that only use the forums, you never existed......
you do get out of the site (and i mean the site as a whole) what you put in..........hand on heart have you done that so far??? hope that puts it more into context for you....
sean
No 5ft 5 is not a problem - i asked because sometimes people get a bit excited with the drop down list and hit the wrong one..... Never ever decieve people about height/ size etc, cos you'll probably get knocked back if you meet face to face and they think (a) you witheld info or (b) were economical with the truth. Same goes for photos - dont send any that are not representative of how you look (ie: taken 5 years ago )
the ad is better :thumbup: - now, what exactly are you looking for? do you prefer slim fems? bbw fems or do you not have a 'preference'? what exactly could you do for her/ them? are you interested in the social stuff - meeting for a drink/ meal whatever first or do you just want the nitty gritty quick shag and go?
and Celery gave you good advice, have a look at the umpteen other 'help me' threads, oh, and this one: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html?highlight=single%20guy
) the ad is better :thumbup: - now, what exactly are you looking for? do you prefer slim fems? bbw fems or do you not have a 'preference'? what exactly could you do for her/ them? are you interested in the social stuff - meeting for a drink/ meal whatever first or do you just want the nitty gritty quick shag and go?
and Celery gave you good advice, have a look at the umpteen other 'help me' threads, oh, and this one: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html?highlight=single%20guy
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i live in wigan and am looking to meet stright cuplues and single woman,
Winternip, its living it Wigan what does it, they are all loonies from Wigan
