we agree with ohsogentle,we are starting too think a lot who come in are just after a quick shag and not intressted in getting too know people or really join in,we have read some of the ads and some of them remind us of the boyracers and idiots in car parks and just trying there luck on here.
Or you could direct them to this.
My personal favourite that always makes me laugh
The Idiot's Guide to Swinging
well hlb,now ive stopped laughing,i think most of the(ones we are talking about) single men get that advise from others who havent a clue get us wrong,we have met some very nice single men off here,and they seem too be the ones from the old school of swinging,where they are patient,polite,can actualy and dont brag about a 10 inch cock lol.