i held my hands up and apologised to all concerned though i did think my treatment was a little on the harsh matter is now buried under the mat and , i move for your support griffin and your apologie mal and, your help blue and alex. i move on and try my best to achieve what i came here for in the first place. mark,in a very nice house in surrey.
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I've pondered over this thread and to be honest I find it rather disconcerting.
I read, re-read and then re-read again to try and find what was so annoying about the original post that sparked such responses albeit maybe meant as 'banter' as to almost spark a 'flame war'.
I'm more upset at the tone of 'conform to our thoughts of what you should do and say, or suffer the scarcastic consequences' that seemed to be inlaid in the choice of words used.
It just seems odd that we've had recent threads on tolerance posted in the forum, yet here we have a relatively new poster (like myself) being ridiculed without pointing out that it's meant as a 'joke' or 'guidance'. I read some of the posts and was imeadiatly transported to a school playground of "Bigger Boys & girls" picking on a newboy who is trying to find his way and is unaware of the 'agreed rules' that elements wish new people to follow to confirm to 'their ways'.
I felt moved enough to comment, and will probably no doubt be told the error of my ways ..... but I would ask anyone reading this to just pause for a moment and read all the previous posts and put yourself in the position of someone fairly new, not knowing the 'banter' that goes on, not being told in the posts that they are jokes, suddenly seeing words like 'deactivate', 'twat' etc. and wondering "What have I done wrong?" ..... and then also think "What would the sainted Judy TV say on this matter". (someone I admire for their insiteful views on nearly anything and everything - if JudyTV says that I'm wrong then I'll accept it and offer an apology as well).
I just had a nasty taste in my mouth after reading the thread and felt I had to offer my thoughts.
Now you can all call me 'twat' and that I can't take a joke etc. and I shall be hurt for several days but hopefully rebound.
I've pondered over your post too, Griffin. I can't see where you are coming from. Sarcastic consequences? Get real. This is an adult forum for adults. We cannot spell out every little joke or aside we write, just in case they don't see the funny side of it. Bearing in mind you have been on here since January and only posted a handful of times, not much advice coming from you, is there?
Where possible I give advice to many people about many things on here, some visible, some invisible. I don't often take umbrage at people, unless they really piss me off. I also give them the opportunity to come back and reply. Thousands join, post once and then disappear because they didn't get laid. Do you really expect me to help every single one of them? Really? This guy had the piss taken out of him, but he cottoned on to it and has now posted more in the few days he's been on than you have in 8 months. He realised where he was going wrong and has now changed tack and joined in. Therefore what we did has improved his chances of success, has it not?
I'm not always right and I have no problem admitting when i'm wrong, but I wont change my style because you are upset by it. It wasn't aimed at you and with so little input to the forums, you may not realise what we have to contend with on a daily basis. All moderators do this voluntarily and put many hours each week into this site to make it what it is. If someone can't see the funny side of our posts, perhaps they may be better off elsewhere.
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people please its all my fault i know but its all sorted! ill stick around i like it here even though my chances of getting laid are as good as tony balir telling the truth or meeting a nice v.a.t. estate agent.......... its cool for having me. 
mal i hope i have improved my chances! my shirts are getting tight on my right arm!!! 
400 plus views and still a r !!!!! :cry:
mal i hope i have improved my chances! my shirts are getting tight on my right arm!!! 400 plus views and still a r !!!!! :cry: 
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