There's a couple of things that might be offputting to most fems.
'Married' - usually enough to have anyone runing the other way, especially if your other half knows nothing about this. That's not to say you should lie about it. It's just that a lot of women steer clear of married men.
'Not into chubby chasing' - Yes, it's your preference but maybe you could reword this bit so as not to cause offence.
The face pics ok, can see why you've masked it and that's fine but you might want to put the cock shot into your private gallery. It's a well known fact that cock shots are a turn off in profiles and are best kept for another time.
You've only been a member for a week so a bit of patience is needed, you could be here months before seeing any results depending on how much effort you put in. What you get out of this site depends on what you put in, as someone in the Cafe once said and quite right too.
Pop along to the Cafe and join in there, check out the ads and chatrooms and just relax and have fun. The main thing to remember is this is not a quick shag site ( though that does happens very occasionally ) and men do outnumber ladies by as much as 10 to 1. Add that to the fact that the ladies are being sought by couples and other bi fems, the competition is great.
Good luck :thumbup:
Thank you Sassy - Very helpful. I Accept your comments and I do agree with the chubby chasing thing - It is perhaps a little offensive so I'll change it before I get lots of abuse from people commenting on this post!
Thanks again,
Jamie xx.
Thanks Sheddy - as above - much appreciated!
Jamie xx.
There is a lot in your profile of your wants and wishes, but nothing at all of what you have to offer in order to achieve "the mind blowing sexual encounter".
The "chubby chaser" comment just leaves me thinking that you are tactless and are unfeeling towards others affective state. To be honest you sound quite selfish to me.
Just my opinion.
Alex xx
Um. I see that following some advice you have now divorced your wife and are now single. If this is the case why the need for the hotel?
Some women may not like to swing with married men, and some do. I can't speak for all women but most of us appreciate honesty above anything else.
H.x
Your profile now looks a bit better now you’ve altered it slightly although you can now safely delete the honest wording from it now that you’ve suddenly become single so quickly, when sassy brought to your attention the married bit I don’t think she meant change it to single and lie to everyone, she was merely pointing out the probable reasons for you having no replies :shock:
anyone care to have a peek at my dull & lifeless piece of tosh?
>is that a Hijack?<
LP
londonprofilething
positive? :idea:
as for advice to Jamie... I couldnt, a case of physician heal thyself here I think.
& sorry for the hijack...gorrrn
Errrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmm..... said profile now says single.... but you're married, right?
I do hope you will tell your prospective meetees that you are in fact married, and (presumably?) cheating? Lying about your status is a big swinging no-no in my book.
But anyway, that aside, the profile looks OK to me, but it kinda lacks something.... if I was looking for a single guy (which I'm not), I'm sorry but I would just pass it by. Not sure why tbh, it just lacks the wow factor......... sorry!!! Having said that, it does read a lot better than some of the dross out there so that's something positive!
As others have said, getting known on the forums and chatrrom is probably the best way to go, really.
At the end of the day he needs to be honest (if not with his wife, then with his swinging friends). At least that way, people can make an informed decision if they want to play with him.
Following the advice of one I changed but wasn't comfortable with it, particularly after your responses!
I know I have made myself out to be a total pr1ck and I can only hope that, in time, I will regain the trust and respect of all you lovely people here.
Thank you.
Jamie xx.
You've only been here a short time, you've only made 8 posts, most of them asking for help and advice. I don't see how anyone could judge you harshly on that. As I said previously, the best thing you can do is be honest and then people can make an informed decision.
H.x
! Therefore, I would very much appreciate it if you could check me (and pics) out and tell me if I am doing anything wrong or if the pics are bad. 
I've changed my profile & pics now so it's hopefully more appealing!
