Hi, I'm new to this and despite being in a relationship I want to play alone (which i know can be a little controversial on this site). I have reasons for this such as the one stated in my ad as well as the fact that I have discussed this with my partner and she just isn't interested.
However, being a "single" bloke, what do women want from me. I'm completely genuine and there's nothing weird about me (i don't think!!) but how do I take the first step and how can I get your trust etc. I appreciate that from a woman's point of view I could just be any weirdo on the net, so i need to know how i could change that image. What steps should I take and what info should I give etc
I'm very new to this and this is my first post so any advice is welcome.
Thanks
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Ladies, what do you want from a single guy?
Quote by jack_daniels72
Each woman is different you will only find out by getting yourself known on the site, contributing to the forums, maybe going to some munches and building up their trust that way.
It can take a long time especially as the number of single men hugely outnumbers the number of available women.
If you're expecting a quick easy shag then its highly unlikely to happen - but if you're prepared to be patient and get involved in a positive fashion then things will build from there.
Posting an ad and been open about your situation will definitely help.
You may also want to seek a mentor - check the mentors thread in the cafe
Good luck and have fun
Thanks for your reply - can you tell me a little more about these "munches". What exactly are they (and what goes on? )and are there any near Peterborough? I should imagine it could be quite daunting going to one of these things as a single bloke when you don't know anyone.
