hi we r a cpl with bicurious fem 29 slm male 34 str8 we r looking into the club scene and looking 4 a cpl to take us under there wings as not done it be 4 and r shy 2 just turn up we r willing 2 travel up to 100 miles if any cpls only gan help please contact with mail address
just wondering have you been to a social . or munch or met another couple yet b4 going to a swingers club ?
I know you say you're too shy to do so, but really, just turn up ... what are you afraid will happen?
Treat it as just a trip down to the pub - go in, get a couple drinks and relax, observe the people around you - lots of them will just be chatting away. Any decent club will give you a quick tour to see where everything is and most/all have a social area. It's not like you'll be walking into a place with naked couples/singles banging away in front of you and nobody will rip your clothes off just because you're there. Even in the play areas, you don't have to participate and are free to simply observe.
You've nothing to fear but the fear in your own minds.