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Macclesfield Social (10th October 2015)

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Quote by minikat
Newbie here, hoping for an invite :smile:
Party mentioned by alternative-two. Would love to join in and come along to future socials in the north west. Eager to meet some of the lovely people I've been chatting to.
Em x

Cor, you got in without a public vouch request too. Single fem magic yet again, eh?
Nope - Ive been chatting to Em - and as me n Dave cant make this October Maccs due to the Charity Car Rally we are taking part in i am hoping you lovely people are gonna make her very very welcome, she's a lovely lady ;) And its usually the single males that HnS ask for a vouch for on the forum thread - rather glad i'm not a single female newbie here if thats the kind of response thrown out on a first attempt at getting to know people by attending a social evil
I don't think it's unreasonable to question why some people appear to be added without a public vouch request. In Sherbetlemon's case, her profile said she'd been here before and I enquired as to her previous username. Call me over-cautious but it has been known in the past for people (having been members before) to turn up and cause problems. And they don't have to actually be inside the venue to cause issues. In EmmEva's case, she says that Alt two have spoken to her - I would assume that by mentioning their names, she'd think they will vouch for her.
Quote by DJohn
Newbie here, hoping for an invite :smile:
Party mentioned by alternative-two. Would love to join in and come along to future socials in the north west. Eager to meet some of the lovely people I've been chatting to.
Em x

Cor, you got in without a public vouch request too. Single fem magic yet again, eh?
No
contacted by some one who's been to several Maccs.
There's always a simple explanation.
And for anyone asking to come who doesn't have someone to vouch for them: get yourselves into the chat rooms and get chatting. Be friendly and likable, and someone will vouch for you. There's plenty of time.
Better yet, maybe arrange just a social drink, just to show you are who you say you are.
Quote by Freckledbird
Newbie here, hoping for an invite :smile:
Party mentioned by alternative-two. Would love to join in and come along to future socials in the north west. Eager to meet some of the lovely people I've been chatting to.
Em x

Cor, you got in without a public vouch request too. Single fem magic yet again, eh?
Nope - Ive been chatting to Em - and as me n Dave cant make this October Maccs due to the Charity Car Rally we are taking part in i am hoping you lovely people are gonna make her very very welcome, she's a lovely lady ;) And its usually the single males that HnS ask for a vouch for on the forum thread - rather glad i'm not a single female newbie here if thats the kind of response thrown out on a first attempt at getting to know people by attending a social evil
I don't think it's unreasonable to question why some people appear to be added without a public vouch request. In Sherbetlemon's case, her profile said she'd been here before and I enquired as to her previous username. Call me over-cautious but it has been known in the past for people (having been members before) to turn up and cause problems. And they don't have to actually be inside the venue to cause issues. In EmmEva's case, she says that Alt two have spoken to her - I would assume that by mentioning their names, she'd think they will vouch for her.
Think it better manners to raise any queries with the organisers of the social rather than put it on the open forum - but my opinion never counts for anything, just think it looked rather unfriendly thats all ;)
Quote by minikat
Newbie here, hoping for an invite :smile:
Party mentioned by alternative-two. Would love to join in and come along to future socials in the north west. Eager to meet some of the lovely people I've been chatting to.
Em x

Cor, you got in without a public vouch request too. Single fem magic yet again, eh?
Nope - Ive been chatting to Em - and as me n Dave cant make this October Maccs due to the Charity Car Rally we are taking part in i am hoping you lovely people are gonna make her very very welcome, she's a lovely lady ;) And its usually the single males that HnS ask for a vouch for on the forum thread - rather glad i'm not a single female newbie here if thats the kind of response thrown out on a first attempt at getting to know people by attending a social evil
I don't think it's unreasonable to question why some people appear to be added without a public vouch request. In Sherbetlemon's case, her profile said she'd been here before and I enquired as to her previous username. Call me over-cautious but it has been known in the past for people (having been members before) to turn up and cause problems. And they don't have to actually be inside the venue to cause issues. In EmmEva's case, she says that Alt two have spoken to her - I would assume that by mentioning their names, she'd think they will vouch for her.
Think it better manners to raise any queries with the organisers of the social rather than put it on the open forum - but my opinion never counts for anything, just think it looked rather unfriendly thats all ;)
I did, and didn't get an answer. Hence the public post - got the attention and if that's what it takes...
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See that ^^^, that's a line being drawn under the discussion. Let's leave it at that and return the thread to those arranging/attending the social. ;)
Ive met missypops (jo) who said she will have a word with you
Jesse1972 wrote:
Please can i come if there is space. Thanks
Just that as we are not familiar with your name, do you have mutual friends or people attending that can vouch for you at all please ?
If so, please ask them to let us know.
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Ive met missypops (jo) she said she will have a word with you
Please put our names down
Any room for a little one?
Quote by TheFoxes_2
Please put our names down

Just that as we are not familiar with your name, do you have mutual friends or people attending that can vouch for you at all please ?
If so, please ask them to let us know.
Can you add us please xx
Quote by Freckledbird
Newbie here, hoping for an invite :smile:
Party mentioned by alternative-two. Would love to join in and come along to future socials in the north west. Eager to meet some of the lovely people I've been chatting to.
Em x

Cor, you got in without a public vouch request too. Single fem magic yet again, eh?
Nope - Ive been chatting to Em - and as me n Dave cant make this October Maccs due to the Charity Car Rally we are taking part in i am hoping you lovely people are gonna make her very very welcome, she's a lovely lady ;) And its usually the single males that HnS ask for a vouch for on the forum thread - rather glad i'm not a single female newbie here if thats the kind of response thrown out on a first attempt at getting to know people by attending a social evil
I don't think it's unreasonable to question why some people appear to be added without a public vouch request. In Sherbetlemon's case, her profile said she'd been here before and I enquired as to her previous username. Call me over-cautious but it has been known in the past for people (having been members before) to turn up and cause problems. And they don't have to actually be inside the venue to cause issues. In EmmEva's case, she says that Alt two have spoken to her - I would assume that by mentioning their names, she'd think they will vouch for her.
Think it better manners to raise any queries with the organisers of the social rather than put it on the open forum - but my opinion never counts for anything, just think it looked rather unfriendly thats all ;)
I did, and didn't get an answer. Hence the public post - got the attention and if that's what it takes...
Wow, as I mentioned, I am a complete newbie to this..I thought I had set notifications to receive responses but clearly I am as poor at understanding that as I am at picking up the etiquette of the site/scene. Whoops!
I have met some lovely people on here, in the short time I have been on here; I have been in the chatroom - thanks for that tip - though I haven't dipped a toe in the pool or propped up the beach bar as yet. It's all still new and I am finding my feet.
I am a social person and thought I would seek an invite, completely unawares of what a public vouch is.. and I still don't know! Please do educate me.
And thanks to Minikat for the lovely chat and public vouch of my intentions. You are very kind and a shame you can't be there. Does Minikat's public post count??
I cammed the other night too..though I honour people's right to discretion and I'm not sure I will offer them up as 'vouchees', I will give up my invite if needs be - I am most certainly not a party pooper and I am as genuine and considerate as I promise to be. Anyway, I am not in to public 'prodding'(well this kind), nor am in to falling out with people I haven't had the pleasure of meeting. Perhaps I could come along, behave, chat, have fun - I assure you have fabulous social skills so I doubt very much I will cause any riotous situations or offence. I'm quite nice really, what you see is most certainly what you get.
Quote by EmmEva
Newbie here, hoping for an invite :smile:
Party mentioned by alternative-two. Would love to join in and come along to future socials in the north west. Eager to meet some of the lovely people I've been chatting to.
Em x

Cor, you got in without a public vouch request too. Single fem magic yet again, eh?
Nope - Ive been chatting to Em - and as me n Dave cant make this October Maccs due to the Charity Car Rally we are taking part in i am hoping you lovely people are gonna make her very very welcome, she's a lovely lady ;) And its usually the single males that HnS ask for a vouch for on the forum thread - rather glad i'm not a single female newbie here if thats the kind of response thrown out on a first attempt at getting to know people by attending a social evil
I don't think it's unreasonable to question why some people appear to be added without a public vouch request. In Sherbetlemon's case, her profile said she'd been here before and I enquired as to her previous username. Call me over-cautious but it has been known in the past for people (having been members before) to turn up and cause problems. And they don't have to actually be inside the venue to cause issues. In EmmEva's case, she says that Alt two have spoken to her - I would assume that by mentioning their names, she'd think they will vouch for her.
Think it better manners to raise any queries with the organisers of the social rather than put it on the open forum - but my opinion never counts for anything, just think it looked rather unfriendly thats all ;)
I did, and didn't get an answer. Hence the public post - got the attention and if that's what it takes...
Wow, as I mentioned, I am a complete newbie to this..I thought I had set notifications to receive responses but clearly I am as poor at understanding that as I am at picking up the etiquette of the site/scene. Whoops!
I have met some lovely people on here, in the short time I have been on here; I have been in the chatroom - thanks for that tip - though I haven't dipped a toe in the pool or propped up the beach bar as yet. It's all still new and I am finding my feet.
I am a social person and thought I would seek an invite, completely unawares of what a public vouch is.. and I still don't know! Please do educate me.
And thanks to Minikat for the lovely chat and public vouch of my intentions. You are very kind and a shame you can't be there. Does Minikat's public post count??
I cammed the other night too..though I honour people's right to discretion and I'm not sure I will offer them up as 'vouchees', I will give up my invite if needs be - I am most certainly not a party pooper and I am as genuine and considerate as I promise to be. Anyway, I am not in to public 'prodding'(well this kind), nor am in to falling out with people I haven't had the pleasure of meeting. Perhaps I could come along, behave, chat, have fun - I assure you have fabulous social skills so I doubt very much I will cause any riotous situations or offence. I'm quite nice really, what you see is most certainly what you get.
And in my haste to reply.. before my takeaway went cold - I missed out my friends - alternative-two! They are responsible for starting this flurry of messages. smile
I have only been to one social, the last maccs one. It was a great weekend which is why I have requested an invite to this one. H&S put in a lot of hard work organising these socials and they have the right to except or reject any requests they see fit to and what a great job they did of vetting people for the last one, there was no trouble that I'm aware of and you really couldn't ask to meet a friendlier bunch of people, I was made to feel very welcome by everyone and as a seasoned pro now lol I will be doing the same to all the newbies I meet in October.
Back to the original issue. If you put your name on the list and attend the socials you are bound to at some point to bump into new people and even people you really don't want to, if your not happy with the way the organisers do things maybe you should remove yourself from the list and arrange your own social with your own rules.
sad cant make this date after all please take me off the list. Hope you all have fun x
Loz noooooooo, I had built up the courage to talk to you this time lol xx
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sad cant make this date after all please take me off the list. Hope you all have fun x

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Can i be added to the list plz hns smile
Quote by Missy1967
Can i be added to the list plz hns smile

You asked a few months ago and have been on the list for some time
wink
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Can i be added to the list plz hns smile

You asked a few months ago and have been on the list for some time
wink
she's a bit forgetful is our Missy though innocent
Quote by minikat
she's a bit forgetful is our Missy though innocent

Too much sex? :twisted:
Quote by Cubes
she's a bit forgetful is our Missy though innocent

Too much sex? :twisted:
erm erm erm not enuf possibly :giggle::giggle::giggle:
Quote by minikat
Can i be added to the list plz hns smile

You asked a few months ago and have been on the list for some time
wink
she's a bit forgetful is our Missy though innocent
Ooooooo ffs..........i've done it again........durrrr, you shud know me by now, need i say anymore lol :crazy::smile2::angel::embarrased2::thrilled::wave2::giggle::happy:
shameless bump :bounce: :bounce:
Quote by Missy1967
Can i be added to the list plz hns smile

You asked a few months ago and have been on the list for some time
wink
she's a bit forgetful is our Missy though innocent
Ooooooo ffs..........i've done it again........durrrr, you shud know me by now, need i say anymore lol :crazy::smile2::angel::embarrased2::thrilled::wave2::giggle::happy:
Oh we doooooooooooooooooooooo know you :wink:
Quote by HnS
Can i be added to the list plz hns smile

You asked a few months ago and have been on the list for some time
wink
she's a bit forgetful is our Missy though innocent
Ooooooo ffs..........i've done it again........durrrr, you shud know me by now, need i say anymore lol :crazy::smile2::angel::embarrased2::thrilled::wave2::giggle::happy:
Oh we doooooooooooooooooooooo know you :wink:
redfacesurprisedops::oops::oops::oops:
:giggle::giggle::giggle::giggle:
hi HnS CAN YOU PLZ PUT OUR NAME DOWN FOR THE MACCLESFIELD SOCIAL WE WOULD LOVE TO GO
Hiya HnS
Tis whiplash..can Ya add me to the social plz
Quote by Mwbpsx
Hiya HnS
Tis whiplash..can Ya add me to the social plz

And shes gonna love me for telling you its her birthday :cheers: :cheers: :cheers: innocent (shes expecting a from the queen innit) bolt