Leave the lad alone it's post's like that that make my atempt's shine No seriously moving shadow may I be the second to say welcome also may I sugest from 1 single guy to the next that you read some of the thread's dedicated to offering advice to people like us, there are plenty of them on here and they all offer good advice. Also don't be afraid to ask for advice I have not used the forum much yet but spent a long time checking it out before I actually posted anything and everybody on here is very helpfull provided you don't just expect a quick shag it's not that sort of site. So don't be put off and if you are genuine good luck and may your dream's come true. mik69