Munch with me....

5 Jan 2005

Hi, I am looking for a female to accompany me to the Essex Munch on 29/1. It would be my first one and I'd rather not go on my own especially as I will not really know...or certainly recognise anyone there (they will all have clothes on after all! - haha).
So if you are thinking about going but are unsure then I would like to hear from you. First and formost I am looking for what amounts to a drinking buddy, and there is no assumption of anything over and above that. If we decide to 'swing' together then great, if not fine, lets just enjoy the social event. With that in mind it therefore does not have a bearing on what you may or maynot be looking for or what is in any advert you have.
Lets dip our toes in the water together and have some fun at our first munch. Not that I'm against going with someone whose been before, I just do not imagine they would want to hold a newbies hand! Bruce.

7 Jan 2005

...I might even but you a drink!

8 Jan 2005

...a double even!

14 Jan 2005

...if an offer of drink don't work what should I offer next?!

20 Jan 2005

getting nearer but no one to get excited with about it though!

20 Jan 2005

i think they have sussed you out brucers, just a thinly disguised attemt to pull
d - must try harder

21 Jan 2005

there 'll be loads of first timers at the munch
were all the ones propping up the bar ......... :twisted:

21 Jan 2005

22 Jan 2005

....and to you I award A for cynicism and E for not looking beyond the obvious!

Quote by racer3
i think they have sussed you out brucers, just a thinly disguised attemt to pull
d - must try harder

22 Jan 2005

....I do not doubt you but I've just never been the type to walk into a pub for a drink on my own. That we are all different like that is what makes life interesting.

Quote by redstilletto
there 'll be loads of first timers at the munch
were all the ones propping up the bar ......... :twisted:

22 Jan 2005

Ladies or Gents?

Quote by gurl
there 'll be loads of first timers at the munch
were all the ones propping up the bar ......... :twisted:

Damn !!!
And there I was hoping I would not be so obvious.
Ok, plan B then.....Hiding in the toilets.

22 Jan 2005

Hi Bruce
Just to let you know that I am also going and I will be going on my own so don't worry. In my experience :jagsatwork: with swinging parties or clubs you are either felt most welcome :welcome: etc.. or it is very clicky and you feel left out so, :evil2: fingers crossed mate!
Seriously, I know one fem at the Munch already and I am sure they will all be friendly especially to us virgins, silly

hwoar: fresh meat :spit: and all that, maybe we will be overwhelmed with attention, we will just have to share.....
See ya there :cheers:
Mart
AKA Kinky

22 Jan 2005

Quote by brucers
....and to you I award A for cynicism and E for not looking beyond the obvious!
i think they have sussed you out brucers, just a thinly disguised attemt to pull
d - must try harder

brucers; surely that should be straight A s if you dont think i looked beyond the obvious lol

22 Jan 2005

No E is correct as you concluded the first thought that came into your head was the correct one, and did not make any reference to having thought any further for other possibilities.

Quote by racer3
....and to you I award A for cynicism and E for not looking beyond the obvious!
i think they have sussed you out brucers, just a thinly disguised attemt to pull
d - must try harder

brucers; surely that should be straight A s if you dont think i looked beyond the obvious lol

23 Jan 2005

Thanks for your outlook....not sure its made me more or less eager to have someone to stroll in with.
Don't mind being seen as fresh meat as you put it, nor sharing. Its the first day at school scenario but in an adult setting.....and all those what ifs..... Perhaps I'd be better thinking of it like the first time off the high diving board, once you jump there's no turning back.

Quote by kinkyessex
Hi Bruce
Just to let you know that I am also going and I will be going on my own so don't worry. In my experience :jagsatwork: with swinging parties or clubs you are either felt most welcome :welcome: etc.. or it is very clicky and you feel left out so, :evil2: fingers crossed mate!
Seriously, I know one fem at the Munch already and I am sure they will all be friendly especially to us virgins, hwoar: fresh meat :spit: and all that, maybe we will be overwhelmed with attention, we will just have to share.....
See ya there :cheers:
Mart
AKA Kinky

23 Jan 2005

dont worry brucers, i'm sure the natives will be friendly, i hope so anyway, see ya there

24 Jan 2005

The guest list was closed to single males when I looked so alas. All rather academic now though I spose. Still there will be others.

Quote by DeniseBabe
Brucers your not even on the guest list so seems odd to me that your asking for a partner to go with :roll: