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Sex God
Hello both... :welcome: to the site!
There are genuine folk out there. Hope you both find what you're looking for. Just takes a bit of perseverance is all. Have fun! :thumbup:
There are genuine folk out there. Hope you both find what you're looking for. Just takes a bit of perseverance is all. Have fun! :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by Landd_b65
Honestly, good luck.
Theres alot of honry men, Just check the chatrooms to see the endless wave of masturbating men..
From a male perspective, This website is pointless.
We joined as a couple, And have now decided we like to play appart from each other too.
Its a heaven for women, Bi/gay or straight. If your a man, Good luck, quiet frankly.
Ive seen so many adverts of women wanted men,couples, guys all wanting NSA with guys.
Now I realise there is a large ratio difference between men and women single. Something simular to 00-1.
But the amount of time I have carefully written out a brilliant message, indivual to every woman, guy couple....all just wasted.
All that effort just for for them to read it and never even say, "sorry, but no thanks"
God damned bloody waste of time if your a single male.. Or shall I say a single white male? because thats right, White guys dont have big dicks too? Isnt this racist? Not all black guys live upto this reputation of W/E never go back bullcrap, And thats from my misses telling me!
My partner, She puts an advert up and the girls and guys are over her like flies on Sh1t.
Quiet frankly id have better time with my money if i was single male, than paying for this ignorant, time wasting un-appreciating community of so called swingers, More like time wasters and posers.
No strings attached? More like No point joining its not fun - You'd have more luck not joining too!
with the greatest of repsect.. you have been here 2 months... I have been here almost 5 years.....
I am not going to flame you.... but i will say what I say to every person who complains...
you get out what you put in......
Do you go to clubs.....
Do you go to any of the socials on the site...
Have you ever used the forums to get to know people....
Have you ever stepped inside the chatrooms....
the site is there to help you help yourself... it is more than just the ads.... if you don't use the site to sell yourself to other people then people can only help you so much......
get out there and sell yourself..... get yourselves known to people... imagine SH to be like a pub, would you expect people to be all chummy with you on your first time in? like nola said.. it does take time and it does take perserverence...
for example.. in your profile it says nothing about the person you are or the people that you are after rather than the basics....
SH hasn't started charging by the word, so start using them.......
tell people why you are different from the others? give people a reason to say "yes, I have to meet that person"the successful guys in the scene are not all 6ft muscle bound big dicked behemoths..... they are the guys who go the the socials, who go to the chatrooms, who go on the forums, who can have conversations with people, who made the time to get themselves known........
sean xxx
Sex God
Quote by Landd_b65
Quiet frankly id have better time with my money if i was single male, than paying for this ignorant, time wasting un-appreciating community of so called swingers, More like time wasters and posers.
No strings attached? More like No point joining its not fun - You'd have more luck not joining too!
Well, you can only say what your view of the site is, but I do know that a lot of single males do get meets from here and get them regularly. You get out of the site what you put into it. Yes the odds are stacked against the females and couples as there are thousands of single guys for every female/couple, but a lot of those females and couples are looking to meet single males, but on the whole they go for the ones who stand out from the crowd, the ones who sell themselves and dont moan about not getting meets.
Good luck to both of you, the OP and Landd, but to be honest, I dont think either of you are going about this the right way
Sex God
Quote by Landd_b65
Well, I can see how My attitude currently displayed within this topic, may make me be percieved as a arragont d**k.
But ive just given up. I do think its rude when people dont even reply with a simple, no thanks. its basic manners?
But i will take Seans advice and try these social meets, Although I was under the impression youd need an invitiation and the whole situation is repeated.
I really dont think your post makes you sound a dick, but you have to sell yourself and make yourself more attractive to couples/females than the rest of the guys on here, and one way of doing tha is being positive.
It is very annoying when people dont reply but look at what happens when your wife/girlfriend puts a post on, she is inundated and sometimes couples do get fed up with the number of replies.
Have a go at the socials/munches etc and dont wait to be invited, get out there and ask for an invite, but more of all, have fun
Orgasminator
Quote by Landd_b65
Honestly, good luck.
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God damned bloody waste of time if your a single male.. Or shall I say a single white male? because thats right, White guys dont have big dicks too? Isnt this racist? Not all black guys live upto this reputation of W/E never go back bullcrap, And thats from my misses telling me!
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Lets see - I'm black (although I avoid going "I'm black, pick me!" simply cause there's loads of other black guys about also), and yet I'm a skinny, short arsed 2-inch dick smuggler.. but must admit I manage ;)
So someone going for a black guy over white is racist? Would you suggest me going for a woman over a man (as I'm not interested in men) makes me sexist/homophobic? Or someone telling me I'm too young/old hence makes them ageist?
Ever heard about preference?
Assuming you were right (for argument sake), what do you propose? People start shagging others that they wouldn't and don't fancy in the hope of not being labelled discriminatory? Back to you dude ;)
Quote by Landd_b65
No strings attached? More like No point joining its not fun - You'd have more luck not joining too!
Go on send me a message, I'll reply. I dare you
But seriously, my thoughts are this:
I posted a thread on here for a female gang-bang last week, for this Tuesday (tomorrow). Before I did it, I REALLY thought about it from two perspectives - what WE wanted and what the potential 'market' needed to know in order to make their decisions.
I took time to write it and laid out our criteria fairly explicitly and we got just 73 replies. I've heard before about 1000's of replies coming in for this kind of thing before but hopefully the fact that we were very up front about who we wanted meant that many people self de-selected.
I sent a message back to every one, regardless of whether or not they met our criteria. My thinking being that:
a) if we posted and they had the decency to reply then the least we could do was to have the decency to answer them and
b) if we did this again and ignored everyone, what would their perceptions be next time around?
There's simple rules to placing ads. as far as I see it - either have the common decency to respond to all of them or don't bother. As far as excused like 'do you know now many replies single females and couples get?' because I do - I have friends that fall into both categories and they reply to all of their legitimate messages (I don't mean the 'cum fuck me with a butternut squash' spam ones). Their ads. are carefully worded and again the self-deselect rule kicks in.
If you think you've received a 'copy and paste' jobby (and those of us who have used this place for a while know how to spot them), then 'copy and paste' a 'thanks but no thanks' back - it takes less than 10 seconds. You reap what you sow in this game.
Yes, there are single males who don't help themselves (females and couples too). However, there are far more single males on here than anyone else so they will be more obvious. Comments like the one at the top of this thread have really got it coming to them as far as I'm concerned - sell yourself man! It's not pay per word!
And it does work - for single men, for single gay/bi (if there's a hot bloke about!) men even like me too . I've had more fun on here than any gay site I've ever used with far hotter guys if I'm honest. It takes time, effort, trust and patience. Attending social events will help as people can see you ain't a minger (unless you are then don't go)
I find it also actually let's you and others decide for themselves if people are what you thought they were - for me, finding somebody attractive enough to shag goes beyond just physical appearance and the social events here are a great way of meeting lots of people at once - but are not everyone's bag I know.So keep trying. I'll shag you (if you're hot!) and you can come back and post how great the site is if you want :rascal:
