I think maybe my message was a bit strong after looking at a few of the others, so I must apologise!
Everyone (well, OK, most people) sound really funny and great to chat to - I didnt; want to come across as just someone who was in it for a quick thrill. I just want to break into all this slowly and want some advice for it..?
I do find webcams and chatting on the phone a turn-on, but obviously that's not everyone's cup of tea!
Just don;t want to make any enemies before I've made any friends!