We are a new couple seeking advice on “swingingâ€. I have been watching this site for some months now and there really are some great ads. We would like to get more involved but we don’t want to dive in feet 1st and then get put off!!!
So we would like to ease ourselves in gently!!
Any ideas????
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Newbie couple needs advice!!!!
hi . we are still fairly new to the scene and as yet haave not swung with any cpls we still see actual swapping as a no go . i feel that some things should remain sacred. But in saying that we have been to Liberation a number of times now and find it so erotic watching and having sex in front of other cpls. This all started one evening last summer when we had a bottle of wine and actually talked about sex. It has never been so good since. Clubs might be for you or perhaps meeting anoter cpl . But as long as you limit your boundaries and stick to them you will have great fun. All i can say is that we have met some cpls and it does seem that in practise actual swapping is erotic everyone we speak to has had a problem with it ie jealousy. If that is in your minds then dont swap just stick to eachother.
Here endeth the lesson lol
Here endeth the lesson lol
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But when you go these clubs and you just want to be with your wife. Don’t you get approached by other couples/singles?
Is there some sort of secret code…?
See, I always imagine it to be like one big Orgy and everyone is getting off with everyone!!!
It can be everyone getting off with each other but the thing you have to remember is that "no means no" so if someone tries to play with you, you can simply say thanks but no thanks...and they should leave you alone....
clubs are a great way for cpls to have fun and not get pushed into anything they dont want to do. it isnt one big orgy and if things are happening that u dont want to go with the flow with u just say NO. the clubs are very well run and people do not abuse the clubs cause they dont want to be banned from them. all depending what you are into depends on what night you would like to go on to which club. i go to cupids and its a mixed night every night non-pushy and if u want to just be watched u can play and people can watch you from behind a screen or even play in main areas and people just watch nobody will come over unless invited. if you want a cpls only club try la chambre on a satday night or partners on a thursday night they are busy clubs and well run. if you would like some more advice please drop me a pm or enter the chatroom and ask the people in there everyone on here is very friendly.
if you are wanting a dogging meet advertise for one but be careful who u tell where u are going to be as u will find out in the dogging forum. pls get in touch if u want more advice or would like to meet so yuo can be introduced to a club via myself or ask another cpl in the room to go along with im sure there are many that will help
steve
have a swinging time!
if you are wanting a dogging meet advertise for one but be careful who u tell where u are going to be as u will find out in the dogging forum. pls get in touch if u want more advice or would like to meet so yuo can be introduced to a club via myself or ask another cpl in the room to go along with im sure there are many that will help
steve
have a swinging time!