Quote by makingcocoa
Sounds like an exciting development, Spongebob!
All I can think of to say is take it slowly. Talk about it plenty - doesn't have to be a big sit-down discussion, discuss it in bed! But make sure you both know what the other wants from the experience, what your limits are, etc etc. Do this before you even place an ad. Write the ad together, and make sure it says what you both want it to say. Go through every stage of the experience as a team - I don't think it's ever a good idea for one person to 'arrange' it as a treat for the other.
Saying this as a currently single bi fem who does meet couples, the most important thing about your ad is that it makes it very clear that you are BOTH very up for this, and has photos and descriptions and a bit of personality from both of you.
When you make contact with someone, don't hurry things - swap a few emails, chat on the phone, meet up for a drink. Your first experience will be a lot more comfortable if you know the person a little. Plus, it shows a bit of sensitivity for her situation, the safety issue is very important to a lot of single women. Make sure you BOTH click with her. I don't know that the other woman's experience or lack of it counts as much as how well you get on.
In the actual event, make sure you stick to your limits, make sure the other woman knows those limits and is ok with them and you know hers, make sure you don't make her feel left out by being too couply, but also make sure you and your partner have a moment either during or after to make eye contact and remember how much you love each other.
Good luck and enjoy!
Cocoa x
Quote by gingerjo-lee
bifem here swinton manchester
always looking for fun and i will be very gentle :)
jo xxx
