Hi ppl the venue will be in denbighshire (details of course to follow nearer the time).Couples will get priority we have about 50 places left at the moment so you need to get your names in and get your place confirmed by myself or Laff_n_Chilli in the bbw northwales chatroom ,entrance will be £2 per head just to cover the hire of the room ,it has its own entrance,bar and toilets. It promises to be a good night and u will be able to get aquainted and put a face to the names you have seen in the bbw northwales room and the nw room and as you already know they are a friendly crowd .There will be a limited number of single guys and they will be dont be shy ,we are all in the same boat the venue has been told its a birthday party so you need not feel embarrassed .We have a small list of local hotels available if you require a room for the night hope to see lots of you on the night . Shane2
suppose we better put our names down as were tryin to help shane2 out lol cmon u lot get ya names down its his 1st munch so lets make it a goodun also ....................... if anyone who isnt known to either ouselves or shane2 needs to b vouched for thx Shane has asked us to post this cos he dont know how :twisted: :twisted: People Confirmed Aberfella Ains Bearman Blu Bomber61 Burton1 Bwj Caledcpl Chestycpl Ciderblack77 Claicerrig Cum4us Deanohelen Dit1100uk Drebins2003 Franknliz Hotstuff1978 Kenco_ Laff_n_Chilli Leonthompson63 Lizbiandpaul Morethan Newtonsballs Nwalesduo PandAtoo Pappasmurf Pazzandy Rainboweyes and Smartypants Shane2 Tala_Spirit Thebandit1 Welshmale26 Wild boy Wrightyjo Now that the list is closed we are happy to let you know that the details of the venue and all other minor bits of information that you might require will be sent via PM to all those on the list. This PM will be sent out on the evening of Wednesday 10th October - so if you feel you should have had a PM but haven't yet received one please do contact either Shane2 or ourselves. If you receive a PM then please do not discuss its contents with ANYONE!!! - but if you do have further questions then PM either Shane2 or ourselves.
You may have mistaken the terminology of a Munch with a Social, so I've changed the title to a social. Details of what a Munch is can be found here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html Have a good time! Mal
if its a social in a public venue, why is there only a limited number of spaces for single guys? handpicked...wtf..by whom and whats the criteria? Surely, a social is open to who ever can attend subject to them meeting the criteria about being vouched or on the site for a minimum length of time. (dont worry,i fully understand when its a pvt house or a pvt club, which has rules about single guys) hmmmmmmmm RWL
Quote by redwine_lover if its a social in a public venue, why is there only a limited number of spaces for single guys? handpicked...wtf..by whom and whats the criteria? Surely, a social is open to who ever can attend subject to them meeting the criteria about being vouched or on the site for a minimum length of time. (dont worry,i fully understand when its a pvt house or a pvt club, which has rules about single guys) hmmmmmmmm RWL
red u know as well as i do that there is also a unlimited amount of idiots on this site !!!!and b4 u get on ur high horse i dont mean u, however as i know from experience at these socials sumtimes it is better for first timers to have a little bit of quality rather than quantity dont be upset red :crazy: :thrilled: this is shanes first time trying to organise sumthing like this so why not give him a helping hand a bit of advice just like u did when i held my first one we all have to start sumwhere and its a hell of alot easier if u got pppl that are willing to take the time and help xxxoh btw luffs ya :angel: :angel: :angel: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxpussy xxxxxx
shane im very sorry but we wont be able to make it we will hopefully be on holiday but i know u will all have a wondeful nite and if by any chance we can make it ill let u know but it may be last minute xxxpuss xxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by pussygalore33 if its a social in a public venue, why is there only a limited number of spaces for single guys? handpicked...wtf..by whom and whats the criteria? Surely, a social is open to who ever can attend subject to them meeting the criteria about being vouched or on the site for a minimum length of time. (dont worry,i fully understand when its a pvt house or a pvt club, which has rules about single guys) hmmmmmmmm RWL
red u know as well as i do that there is also a unlimited amount of idiots on this site !!!!and b4 u get on ur high horse i dont mean u, however as i know from experience at these socials sumtimes it is better for first timers to have a little bit of quality rather than quantity dont be upset red :crazy: :thrilled: this is shanes first time trying to organise sumthing like this so why not give him a helping hand a bit of advice just like u did when i held my first one we all have to start sumwhere and its a hell of alot easier if u got pppl that are willing to take the time and help xxxoh btw luffs ya :angel: :angel: :angel: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxpussy xxxxxx pussyg......stop trying to sweet talk me..u are still shit at cooking lol BUT....your comment about first timers confuses me..is this meet limited to first timers?? of course its not..and this is not the first time there has been a social in the north wales area either.....so i dont understand.. the only first timer is shane, in terms of organising an event there... so please dont take this response in a negative way, its not meant that way, but the continual downer on single guys does tend to wind me up...yes there are some idiots but the "vouching" and "time on site" will hopefully limit the amount of idiots that are permitted to attend. I am not discouraging shane in any shape or form..but just questioning the logic and ethics behind this event... in private, i get told the the event wants to "encourage cples to come" to it, hence restricting singles.. Sorry, in my book, that doesnt constitute a social event.. if its social, surely anyone who meets the site/event criteria is eligible, whether single male , single female or a cpl... You cant cherry pick who attends a social.....well not in my book...unless they have a proven history of incorrect behaviour on the site or at site events RWL xx
Quote by redwine_lover pussyg......stop trying to sweet talk me..u are still shit at cooking lol BUT....your comment about first timers confuses me..is this meet limited to first timers?? of course its not..and this is not the first time there has been a social in the north wales area either.....so i dont understand.. the only first timer is shane, in terms of organising an event there... so please dont take this response in a negative way, its not meant that way, but the continual downer on single guys does tend to wind me up...yes there are some idiots but the "vouching" and "time on site" will hopefully limit the amount of idiots that are permitted to attend. I am not discouraging shane in any shape or form..but just questioning the logic and ethics behind this event... in private, i get told the the event wants to "encourage cples to come" to it, hence restricting singles.. Sorry, in my book, that doesnt constitute a social event.. if its social, surely anyone who meets the site/event criteria is eligible, whether single male , single female or a cpl... You cant cherry pick who attends a social.....well not in my book...unless they have a proven history of incorrect behaviour on the site or at site events RWL xx
I can't disagree with a single word that RWL has said.....and just to put this into some context I don't think I have ever been at a social or munch across the country in the 3yrs I have been on the site that the singles have ever outnumbered the couples..... If these "guys" have done nothing wrong on the site Why cherrypick??? unless there is some other motive, and please don't give me the "to encourage couples" stuff... because I have encouraged couples and singles to get out there and go to munches and socials. In fact some of them have replied in this thread i hate to think that any of them have been accosted (sp) by single blokes and none of them have.... if all you are doing at this social is as you say "to put names to faces" then why discourage anyone???
shane we are here if you need any help etc.. mind you new too it all too but I would like to know how to arrange a social etc... for future ref. cheers pappax
Quote by redwine_lover if its a social in a public venue, why is there only a limited number of spaces for single guys? handpicked...wtf..by whom and whats the criteria? Surely, a social is open to who ever can attend subject to them meeting the criteria about being vouched or on the site for a minimum length of time. (dont worry,i fully understand when its a pvt house or a pvt club, which has rules about single guys) hmmmmmmmm RWL
red u know as well as i do that there is also a unlimited amount of idiots on this site !!!!and b4 u get on ur high horse i dont mean u, however as i know from experience at these socials sumtimes it is better for first timers to have a little bit of quality rather than quantity dont be upset red :crazy: :thrilled: this is shanes first time trying to organise sumthing like this so why not give him a helping hand a bit of advice just like u did when i held my first one we all have to start sumwhere and its a hell of alot easier if u got pppl that are willing to take the time and help xxxoh btw luffs ya :angel: :angel: :angel: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxpussy xxxxxx pussyg......stop trying to sweet talk me..u are still shit at cooking lol BUT....your comment about first timers confuses me..is this meet limited to first timers?? of course its not..and this is not the first time there has been a social in the north wales area either.....so i dont understand.. the only first timer is shane, in terms of organising an event there... so please dont take this response in a negative way, its not meant that way, but the continual downer on single guys does tend to wind me up...yes there are some idiots but the "vouching" and "time on site" will hopefully limit the amount of idiots that are permitted to attend. I am not discouraging shane in any shape or form..but just questioning the logic and ethics behind this event... in private, i get told the the event wants to "encourage cples to come" to it, hence restricting singles.. Sorry, in my book, that doesnt constitute a social event.. if its social, surely anyone who meets the site/event criteria is eligible, whether single male , single female or a cpl... You cant cherry pick who attends a social.....well not in my book...unless they have a proven history of incorrect behaviour on the site or at site events RWL xx ohhhh does this mean ur not putting ur name down then red ?????? :roll:
Quote by pussygalore33 if its a social in a public venue, why is there only a limited number of spaces for single guys? handpicked...wtf..by whom and whats the criteria? Surely, a social is open to who ever can attend subject to them meeting the criteria about being vouched or on the site for a minimum length of time. (dont worry,i fully understand when its a pvt house or a pvt club, which has rules about single guys) hmmmmmmmm RWL
red u know as well as i do that there is also a unlimited amount of idiots on this site !!!!and b4 u get on ur high horse i dont mean u, however as i know from experience at these socials sumtimes it is better for first timers to have a little bit of quality rather than quantity dont be upset red :crazy: :thrilled: this is shanes first time trying to organise sumthing like this so why not give him a helping hand a bit of advice just like u did when i held my first one we all have to start sumwhere and its a hell of alot easier if u got pppl that are willing to take the time and help xxxoh btw luffs ya :angel: :angel: :angel: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxpussy xxxxxx pussyg......stop trying to sweet talk me..u are still shit at cooking lol BUT....your comment about first timers confuses me..is this meet limited to first timers?? of course its not..and this is not the first time there has been a social in the north wales area either.....so i dont understand.. the only first timer is shane, in terms of organising an event there... so please dont take this response in a negative way, its not meant that way, but the continual downer on single guys does tend to wind me up...yes there are some idiots but the "vouching" and "time on site" will hopefully limit the amount of idiots that are permitted to attend. I am not discouraging shane in any shape or form..but just questioning the logic and ethics behind this event... in private, i get told the the event wants to "encourage cples to come" to it, hence restricting singles.. Sorry, in my book, that doesnt constitute a social event.. if its social, surely anyone who meets the site/event criteria is eligible, whether single male , single female or a cpl... You cant cherry pick who attends a social.....well not in my book...unless they have a proven history of incorrect behaviour on the site or at site events RWL xx ohhhh does this mean ur not putting ur name down then red ?????? :roll: dunno...am pondering as i dont know if i could cope with not being chosen as one of the selected single guys.... RWL xx
As a single male i can see where RW and Fabio are coming from and there points of view. But i can also see where Shane is also coming from about limiting the numbers of Single Men so as to encourage more couples to come forward. Its his event after all and as we all keep saying the mantra !!!!!!! "All boundaries respected " I will just take it as one of those boundaries and move on to the next social or munch My 10p`s worth anyways
Quote by claicerrig I will just take it as one of those boundaries and move on to the next social or munch My 10p`s worth anyways
As a couple, I couldnt agree more. If we are going to a social we want to meet members of the site, not the ones 'cherry-picked' by the organisers. A social is a social so it makes absolutely no difference is singles or couples are restricted. Good luck with this social but I do think you are not doing yourself any favours by restricting this, and will end up missing out on some very nice people not wanting to attend. :)
I will just take it as one of those boundaries and move on to the next social or munch My 10p`s worth anyways
As a couple, I couldnt agree more. If we are going to a social we want to meet members of the site, not the ones 'cherry-picked' by the organisers. A social is a social so it makes absolutely no difference is singles or couples are restricted. Good luck with this social but I do think you are not doing yourself any favours by restricting this, and will end up missing out on some very nice people not wanting to attend. :) :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
Quote by pussygalore33 if its a social in a public venue, why is there only a limited number of spaces for single guys? handpicked...wtf..by whom and whats the criteria? Surely, a social is open to who ever can attend subject to them meeting the criteria about being vouched or on the site for a minimum length of time. (dont worry,i fully understand when its a pvt house or a pvt club, which has rules about single guys) hmmmmmmmm RWL
red u know as well as i do that there is also a unlimited amount of idiots on this site !!!!and b4 u get on ur high horse i dont mean u, however as i know from experience at these socials sumtimes it is better for first timers to have a little bit of quality rather than quantity dont be upset red :crazy: :thrilled: this is shanes first time trying to organise sumthing like this so why not give him a helping hand a bit of advice just like u did when i held my first one we all have to start sumwhere and its a hell of alot easier if u got pppl that are willing to take the time and help xxxoh btw luffs ya :angel: :angel: :angel: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxpussy xxxxxx pussyg......stop trying to sweet talk me..u are still shit at cooking lol BUT....your comment about first timers confuses me..is this meet limited to first timers?? of course its not..and this is not the first time there has been a social in the north wales area either.....so i dont understand.. the only first timer is shane, in terms of organising an event there... so please dont take this response in a negative way, its not meant that way, but the continual downer on single guys does tend to wind me up...yes there are some idiots but the "vouching" and "time on site" will hopefully limit the amount of idiots that are permitted to attend. I am not discouraging shane in any shape or form..but just questioning the logic and ethics behind this event... in private, i get told the the event wants to "encourage cples to come" to it, hence restricting singles.. Sorry, in my book, that doesnt constitute a social event.. if its social, surely anyone who meets the site/event criteria is eligible, whether single male , single female or a cpl... You cant cherry pick who attends a social.....well not in my book...unless they have a proven history of incorrect behaviour on the site or at site events RWL xx ohhhh does this mean ur not putting ur name down then red ?????? :roll: mmmmmmmmm She might be shit at cooking.... but I`ve been told she gives great BJs And she know how to order great paella Sorry I will not be around on that date, but I hope that you all will have fun... Chilli look forward for next time.....xxxxxx
hi this socail. still going on .. as its seems to have droped to page 6 on here...? i need to know shane2.. as gotta sort stuff out to come.. let us now thanks
hi rainbow not heard from shane for over a week now although we hav'nt been online for a week ourselves and i know he was goin to go camping as soon as i hear from him hun u will know wotever the outcome
Yes Rainbow ,sorry for not being around last week but was on holliday ..The social is still on . I think I opened up a hornets nest when i made the first post ,I didnt mean to upset anyone. Can i just say that i have noted ALL your comments and i woul;d like to retract my limits on first post and say that any single males who can be vouched for by someone we know and trust will be wellcome to the northwales social on october 13th. I hope this will meet with everyones approval and that we can have a good night .
Shane i would like to be considered for the social please. Thanks for opening the night up to takes a big person to reconsider there position and i dont think that you ever set out to upset anyone in the slightest
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