North West Clubs

17 Apr 2007

Hi there and thanks for reading this.
I'm new to the forum and the whole scene I guess, been a member on here for a while but more out of curiosity than anything else...before now.
I'm keen to start experiencing the scene as a whole, not just sex (although that would be a bonus lol

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Freckledbird gave me some tips and advice about using the website but I'm also quite keen to try out a club.
Just looking for some tips on etiquette for a single guy and also which clubs would be most receptive.
I don't expect to walk in and be flooded with offers, far from it, but if anyone could fill me in on what to expect and give me any tips it would be much appreciated.
Apologies for the length of this and if you are still reading, thanks for taking the time.
Hope to see some of you in the future.

17 Apr 2007

most clubs we been to are just like a pub downstairs so just mingle and chat as a pub ,if chatting to cpls chat to both and really just sell yourself.......oh and if you see me buy me a drink but if after 11ish best not to lol

18 Apr 2007

Cheers northeastcouple, I'll make sure I do!
Why not after 11 though lol

18 Apr 2007

Suggest you call the club first and ask when would be a good night to go... Some are v busy (Fri & Sat especially) - others might be a bit quiet to give you a good idea of what to expect.
Expect nothing.... that's NOTHING... to happen on your first trip. Look on it as a fact-finding trip, to see what the place is like, check out the facilities, chat to a few people and generally see what goes on. But DO talk - even if only to the staff... that'll get you talking to others too.
Spend some time in different areas - sauna, jaccuzi, etc just sitting in there and chatting to anyone who joins you.
And look round... see how others play it.
You'll have a better idea then how to make the most of your visit. You might even get lucky - which would be a bonus. But hopefully you won't go home totally frustrated 'cos it didn't end up with you and 3 blonde 18 year olds locked in a room, liked you hoped it might....
Basically - treat it as a night out in a pub - just a bit of a different one.
Oh - and I'd suggest no more than one or two alcoholic drinks - that way you stay sensible. (You'll have to take your own in most cases anyhow if you want booze...)
Enjoy!
M-M

18 Apr 2007

Quote by manchester_man
Suggest you call the club first and ask when would be a good night to go... Some are v busy (Fri & Sat especially) - others might be a bit quiet to give you a good idea of what to expect.
Expect nothing.... that's NOTHING... to happen on your first trip. Look on it as a fact-finding trip, to see what the place is like, check out the facilities, chat to a few people and generally see what goes on. But DO talk - even if only to the staff... that'll get you talking to others too.
Spend some time in different areas - sauna, jaccuzi, etc just sitting in there and chatting to anyone who joins you.
And look round... see how others play it.
You'll have a better idea then how to make the most of your visit. You might even get lucky - which would be a bonus. But hopefully you won't go home totally frustrated 'cos it didn't end up with you and 3 blonde 18 year olds locked in a room, liked you hoped it might....
Basically - treat it as a night out in a pub - just a bit of a different one.
Oh - and I'd suggest no more than one or two alcoholic drinks - that way you stay sensible. (You'll have to take your own in most cases anyhow if you want booze...)
Enjoy!
M-M

love ur input on clubs manc man cos i know ur fave cool

8-) 8-) 8-) xxj

19 Apr 2007

Cheers Manchester_man, much appreciated.
I already know not to expect anything, like I say it's not purely for sex that I'm interested in going. I have someone who I meet with regularly as it is, it's more to experience new things I guess and I didn't want to turn up somewhere and be totally out of place and stick out like a sore thumb.