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Hi I am Blake45 - I some ways I am your typical guy who has a partner whose interest in sex has diminished and so he is looking for some no strings fun because he has a high sex drive and wants more from life. Ok I would like great sex - who doesn't! But for me I like chats, laugh and some fun as well. I am intelligent with the usual GSOH and anatomically in good working order and don't need to boast. I feel really great sex comes from getting the chemistry working well. So some chats to start with would be good. I am looking for a woman who also wants some no strings discrete usually daytime fun... Ideally in Lancashire.....North West .....Could that be you?
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I am a striaght guy of 45 who likes intelligent chat, laughs, fun - I want to know if the sexual chemistry will be good , some compatability , as much as I want great sex. I am not a wham bam thank you mam / just a quick shag type of guy. Whether it is a one off or short term a lot of people want respect, trust and openess as well as intersting and stimulating sexual adventures. When it works its great fun. Let's honour that on this site
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You're not single!
Hi I am Blake45 - I some ways I am your typical guy who has a partner whose interest in sex has diminished and so he is looking for some no strings fun because he has a high sex drive and wants more from life. Ok I would like great sex - who doesn't! But for me I like chats, laugh and some fun as well. I am intelligent with the usual GSOH and anatomically in good working order and don't need to boast. I feel really great sex comes from getting the chemistry working well. So some chats to start with would be good. I am looking for a woman who also wants some no strings discrete usually daytime fun... Ideally in Lancashire.....North West .....Could that be you?
Quote by Blake45
Those who want to swing on their own and are not part of a couple are single .... some may tell their partners , some may not...
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The Couples Purity League strikes again..... Those who want to swing on their own and are not part of a couple are single .... some may tell their partners , some may not... its down to them to decide not someone else.. very difficult area so why go there... how many couples tell their friends and family what they do? ..very few because they don't want moralising people making judgements about them...... too close to home?
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The Couples Purity League strikes again..... Those who want to swing on their own and are not part of a couple are single .... some may tell their partners , some may not... its down to them to decide not someone else.. very difficult area so why go there... how many couples tell their friends and family what they do? ..very few because they don't want moralising people making judgements about them...... too close to home?
Quote by Blake45
I am not married so don't have a wife I am cheating on - divorced a few years ago after 16 monogamous years..... sadly I am in a relationship that is not working out for either of us but we have reached an impasse and for personal reasons not a good time to seperateI by implcit understanding - we care for each other but the magic has gone - sad but it happens....... lots of people stay together and put up with crap sex lives....
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Sometimes life is good, sometimes it's absloute shit, sometimes it's hard to talk about it and find people to chat to who are open minded and tolerant. Too easy to criticise. The few who understand have made it worth while .....Blake
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Sometimes life is good, sometimes it's absloute shit, sometimes it's hard to talk about it and find people to chat to who are open minded and tolerant. Too easy to criticise. The few who understand have made it worth while .....Blake
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there are either couples or single males or single females using the site..... look at the photo ads - Men seeking women ..women seeking men etc. .
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[look at the photo ads - Men seeking women ..women seeking men etc. . unless want to come up with a politically correct and no judgemtal altrnative word.... let people maje their own minds up.
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I accept now that the way I have said things should have been clearer. As a newbie I had not expected such a robust response but I accept the views of others on this site and so I have amended my advert - number 368027 - to hopefully gives a clearer description of my situation. We all have to liive with compromises at times between what idealy we would like and what is practicable and realistic. Despite what some may think I have a strong sense of intergrity about how I live with myself and balance various factors and dilemas. I don't feel like a cheating bastard who ignores the feelings of others. I feel like a guy who was gutted when the relationship did not work out as he expected and cares for his partner on one level but on another level cannot suppress his sexual frustration as he has a strong sex drive and has an aversion to taking large bottles of Bromide and as an Atheist cannot became a Monk.